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Q: ok i have a problem i just got together with this girl i have liked for a really long time i mean like ever sence we were little but it turnes out that she feel in love wit my best friend before me and her started datein and she still has feelings for him but he dont like her but then she says she cares about me but if she dont always act like herself then i know why. but i need to know if i should stay with her or not.thanx
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i think you should ask her what she really feels you might not like the answer. but there is a chance that she loves you or likes you a lot more. she is going out with you after all.
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Q: Okay so the guy I like, I was with him today and he was talking to his friend and he was saying how he'd f*cked this girl and whatever and the way he said it totally put me off him.
But like, my friend said he could've said it just to make himself sound cool which is what alot of guys do but I dunno.
I really like him but I don't want to TRY to get involved if all he wants is to get in my jeans, you know?
So, what should I do?
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i think you should still like him just incase that your friend is right and just trying to impress his friends. and if you every get invovled with him you will see if he wants to "you know what" and make it clear you don't want to. if you like him you probably know him and probably know what type of guy he really is. there are alot stories to be made up about this i mean he could try to impres syo uthinking your into that. but i say astill l;ike him and when yo uget invovle worry abiout it and if he pushes you say no. do not get iinvolved though if you know his history about girls and heard from him and know he dumps themthey day after and whaterever. but you never really know if he isn't like that keep getting to know him and l ike him and maybe you two will get invovled with no problems hope i helped:)
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Q: My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better?
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wekk this gir lfirst off seems very sweet if she's calling to check up on you it is showing that she is trying to make things better too. so you showing her you want things better is good. i think you should tell her how you feel. she broke up with you i'm guessing? but she still calls and that's really sweet of her itt means she cares about you one dayo n the phone you should ask her why you guys broke up. and tell her that right now if she went out with anyone else it would crush you. she might just be wanting a break from relationships and just wants to be flirty and single. and that's ok i'm sure soon enough you guys will be together agian. i hope i helped:)
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Q: Okay I had a weird situation.... I've liked this guy for like 7 months, well I love him.... he's bisexual, but has a crush on someone else.... which dosen't really bother me much cause we're EXTREMELY close! Anyhow, there's this new guy at work...only problem is HE'S 15 and I'm 17. Everyone says I like him or whatever, but I like to hang out with him cause we're VERY ALIKE (To the point where it scares me)....so I dunno whether or not I'm crushin on him, and then at that, there's a girl I've been thinkin about more than usual...like she's cool or whatever...but I dunno if I'm lookin at her cause I've never been successfull with males or whatever...but I dunno, I dun wanna be BI, I'd rather stay straight, but my luck with guys is horrible...but this whole thinkin about her thing has just started, it's weird....I dunno. ANY ADVICE WILL HELP.... just tell me what yall think....
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1: tell the guy casuley how you feel don't come out and say it just hint it you know say something like you looked so good today" or something just compliment and really hint on to him.
2: well i would say for the 15 year old just yoou know be friends age really doesn't matter with friends.if you want to be more thanfriends great but if you don't ts perfecty understandable because he is two years younger then you.
3:there is absolutly nothing wrong with being bisexual. but if you don't think your bisexual your not if you don't want to be your not. its normal for girls to think about other girls just like curiousity haha or a little bit of jealousy with me. maybe your minds just telling you you two could make best friends. or maybe curiousity is taking over and say your walking wit hthis girl and you think to your self she has a nice ebutt. lol if your not sure if your turned on or not your not bi. i mean i would probably just be jalous but not in a bad way just in the way that i want to get like the girl. and if you are straight which you are you lick will change and everything will turn out good.
your seventeen you have plenty of time to go out with guys and stuff. i would say just enjoiy the ride of adolesence lol. and have fun with it. i'm not saying go out and kiss every guy you see or check out girls butts i'm just saying that when the right person comes you will know if your bisexual or straight and inlove.
i hope i helped i can sound cheesysometimes and this was a long thing of advice sorry. i hope i helped
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Q: Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?
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hang out with him and flirt see if he flirts back and if he compliments he likes you. so try to be friends with him first before you get invovled so you can see if the bad boy thing is just his image or the real him. its like that xcomercial you might havethe "the guy with the bad boy looks and a good boy soul" basically what everyopne else said.
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Q: i got dared to tounge some1 and i did it soo now that i did im feelin like i should take it up a noch but i dont think he does what do i do?
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haha i know what you mean don't take it up a notch just like keep t on kissing lol isn't it just awesome the tingly feeling you get i felt like so bubbley. lol. and keep talking to this person and hang out who knows might be something special.
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Q: okay i like this guy right? well thanks to my idiotic and tactless ex-boyfriend (my crush and him are best friends) he knows but the thing is he acts the same.what does that mean.im really confused.help?
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enjioy it make your crush like you . he will get to know you better now that your ex-boyfriend has experience wwith you in a realationship[ and your crush might get a little jealous. i reall hope i helped.
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Q: AHHHH..okay im really confused right now and i just need a little help..so i have known this guy for a while, and we both like eachother, we told this to eachother on the phone one night..but anyway, we started hanging out together all the time, and he would say that he liked me a lot, and he would hold my hand, and then school started, and we still hung out on the weekends, and at school he would hug me and crap.. but now, i feel like we are becoming distant, we arnt hanging out as much anymore, and he dosnt make an aqauiantence that much any more...AHHH..im so confused..lol..is he just being a typical guy or what?
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typical guy sorry to tell ya lol. but go gewt him when you see him in the hallway and such show your emotions if your happy smile a lot and hug him and makehi m be like wow she really does like me. and guys are annoying so the yreally do want girls to make the first move so call him ttalk to him online and hang out agian you will be back before you know it and if he's a jerk please don't cry tears aren't worth him i would cry lol. some times its good too but with this guy ... i mean he can't epect you to do everything right. but you hsould do it this once to get baack into the swing of things school homework and classes can get in the way between friends not constantly together
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Q: I really like this guy.. but see he has a girlfriend. I know he doesnt like me, but I want him too! lol, well duh. But how can I get him to like me?! See, my name is Acasia and he calls me Asia. Well today it rained, and I was writing my name with my finger on the window, and he said "acasia" and I was like yeah? and He goes "your name is so pretty" I was like really? and he goes "yeah it is" See, hes SOO sweet! What can I do to for him to notice me? I mean he cuddles with all these other girls.. so I dont see how it wouldnt be a problem for me to flirt with him a little.
Sorry its so long!!
IF you give me good answers I will give you a 5!
1 for no good answers.
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well you should flirt i'm going through the same thing sortof. he flirts with you so it means he's interested he just has a girlfriend. the pretty name is a defintly great compliment (your name is pretty) and a flirt. so flirt with him don't get to attached yet wait until our sure he likes you and that he breaks up wit hhis girlfriend. i'm sure you will get him eventually or find someone else. keep your eyes open and look for new guys also for the time being. but always keep a place in your heart for him noone likes to be ignored or forgotten becuase they are not liked by you. so just keep your eyes ope nyou might not know who likes you.
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Q: I have been going out with is cute guy 4 about 2 weeks. But when we were friendz I liked him better than now. He is so serious now. He never talks to me, calls me, & sometimes ignores me! It makes me feel ugly! :( I am getting very mad at him. I don't know why he is like this. I mean I want the old guy that I used to know that would cut up and laugh and everything! Not a guy who completely ignores me!! Please Help! (PLEASE No smarts!) 13/F
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hmmm i think you should tell him about this and sit him down and say what's wrong? if he says nothing why? say i just been noticing you been acting very different how? you just havent been your slef your a little uieter. if it doesn't work there is some one lot better for both of you :)
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Q: ok i am 14/f and i really like this guy!! but he likes one of my best friends!!and she is always braging about it and she knows i like him and she says she dosent like him like that!! but i dont know what to do!! please help ill rate 5's for good answers!!!
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like "ispeakspanish" said DO NOT TELL HIM. but just casually flirt and maybe he will like you. in a conversation bring up love and stuff say something about him likeing anyone else. and ask what he wants in a girl. if its like you your good and just make him like you more.
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Q: let me start out with i have a boyfriend...heres the story...my boyfrined an me have been brokenup an togther alot of times..an know we are back togteher but scence this is a new school year there are new boys...an there is this one boy anthony that i like an he likes me ..well i didnt find out that he liked me until i started to date my ex that is my boyfirned aagain....please help me should i dump my boyfrined an go out with anthony?????..HELP ME !!! i do like my boyfrined alot but i do like anthony!!!
-tasha
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well i would stay with my boyfriend and see how things turn out wit hanthony maybe he's a total jerk but like hang out with anthony one day (just as friends) and see if he's cool then decide by whose better to hang out with.
i'm going through the same thing only i'm in anthony's position:\. so just hang out with anthony and compare to your boyfriend. your young you have plenty of time to fall in love go for the one you realllllly want.
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Q: right now i feel awful.my best friend nicki she totally has a friend named matt(hawttie). She is crushing on him so am i. All of us no that including him. He also has the nerve to ask me if he could makeout with nicki. what a jerk now i feel bad because i think she is doing stuff behinde my back.
now i think she is mad at me she won't answer my AIM she nos how i feel and if he ever liked me i can not go out with him because my friend nicki denied him because of me. at least that wat she acted like.
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confront her and be like your not making out wit hhim right?
but anyway you two should not worry about things like guys don't let them get in the way you will find someone better.
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i'm from long island i love love love to help people. and this is a pretty cool site. you can be anonomys on this site if you want i'm pretty much so with this unless you heard the advice form me i have no intrest in finding out who you are. i'm nice to everyone and i try to be nice to everyone. 1st impressions go a long way and i think alot. i love.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: long island new york Occupation: fashion deigner Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: October 10, 2005 Answers: 34 Last Update: March 25, 2006 Visitors: 4162
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