well my name is destiny.... i have the best boy friend i could ever ask for and i love him more than any person or anything in this world... i have been through A LOT in my life and i can try my best to answer any question that you ask. i cant promise it will be as good as someone elses but i can try my hardest to give you the best answer that i can...
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my boyfriend and our mutual best friend [whose a guy] snuck over my house last night about 12:30. i told them my parents were still awake go back but they said no theyre half way there. so they said well wait on your street untill they go to sleep then you call us and meet us out in the back so im like ok.
well im listening for my parents to come back up. its 1 in the morning and i just fell asleep. i woke up at 10 today and just fell into shock i looked for my fone under my pillow, i had NUMEROUS texts voicemails and missed calls. i feel terrible what do i do? im embaressed and scared to call them because he sounded really mad on the voicemails.
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if i were you i would just call them and explain the whole thing. i mean im pretty sure that they will understand. why wouldnt they? i know you fell asleep and everything and they were outside, but you kinda cant help it if you fall asleep. thats not your fault. just try to talk to them and see how it works. i dont think that he will break up with you for something like that if he really likes you as much as he says he does. GOOD LUCK!
Hope i helped!
Destiny
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Alright. . . im 16 hes 16 Me and my boyfriend met last summer and we both liked each other at first site...we met through my cousin and i thought yea right i wont have a chance and thats what he thought but anyways we hooked up during Easter and he was my boyfriend but we broke up in the summer for 2 weeks but we just have to have each other in our live.. I love him and we plan on being together forever but heres the thing....he has to move to Arizona with his family and that is like 1000 miles from my home but he sed he will stay with me and after high school and we are serious abouteverything and i heard he was getting me a promise ring for my birthday but yea basically i would like to know how to keep a long distance relationship going and what you think of the idea and we havent had sex no and are prolly waiting for that sorry this is long but thank you! Ask me anything if you want more info I owuld love to talk about it (link)
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ok, well, i have had a few long distance relationships, but i wasnt serious with them, like i mean i liked them but i knew for sure i wasnt going to be with them for the rest of my life! none of them worked out, but i have heard it is different when you really want to make it work... and i know that if you are really in love with each other and if you are supposed to be with each other for ever then it will all work out. if you want the rest of your life to be spent with this guy then go for it and if it is supposed to be you two for the rest of your lives then it will all work out, just think of it like this... if you can get through the whole long distance relationship thing as a test of love. if you can get through that, then you can get through anything life throws at you. and you will work everything out together and it will all be good. i mean i was the one that didnt want mine to work out, because i didnt want to be with the guys i dated long distance for the rest of my life. so i didnt let them last, now i am dating someone and i am engaged to them and everything is all good. we live about 15 minutes away from each other and we couldnt be happier... so if you two are meant to be together then you will be able to make it throught he whole dating long distance thing... and since you want some opions on it i will tell you that i think, number one: if it suits you then it will work. if you and the guy are serious about being together forever then, it will work... number two: you can never be to young for love, and if you are really in love with each other then it will work... so that is my opion and i hope i helped!
GOOD LUCK on WHATEVER you two decide to do!
Destiny
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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him". (link)
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well of course its ok to ask him. just because its usually the guy who asks dont mean we cant ask the guy. we cant do everything they cant do. hope i helped!
destiny
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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
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well... i would dump him! so if that's what you think is best then do it... because there's no reason in holding on to someone who is going to cause trouble and drama for you. it just makes no sense at all to do that... so if i were you i would just go ahead and do it, since you already want to anyway.
hope i helped! [[Good Luck]]
Destiny
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okay so i have this boyfriend. i like him a lot...but he lives one town over from me. i only get to see him like once every 3 months. what should i do? (link)
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well... my boyfriend lives in the town next to me and we only get to see each other once in a while like we get to see each other tomorrow for the first time in like 2months and 3weeks.... and we love each other so we just deal with it... so i think that if you like him as much as you think you do just deal with it... like what doesnt kill you makes you stronger right? well just think of it like that! hope i helped! good luck!
Destiny
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My husband and I have been married for almost two years. We married after finding out I was pregnant with my son. I've followed him to his home town, far away from what I know. I've had a hard time relating to his family. He promised me stability, (a house, a good job for him, an opportunity to go to school) We've been here 6 months living off unemployment. He finally got a job, but wants to quit. We just moved out of my in-laws place and into an apartment. (more bills)
He is even considering the Army national guard. We were active Army before, (where we met)I spent my whole pregnancy alone, cause he was deployed. I don't want to go through it again. I can't divorce him, nowhere to go. I am afraid of what a divorce will do to my son. Any advice? Experienced advice appreciated
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well, actually, i have gone through the whole parent in the service thing and my mom married my dad because she was pregnate and they are no longer together... we now live with my aunt and uncle and are just great.... we have a roof over our heads and food to eat... we get to go out with friends and everything that a normal kid/teenager should do... my mom and dad gave up custody to my aunt and uncle and we have lived here for 10 years... plus all the time we lived here with our parents and my aunt and uncle (that was before they decided to divorce). My mom got remarried and i like my step dad to an extent... i cant really completely except him because my mom promised me she would NEVER remarry and she did... my dad turned to drugs and went to jail for about 7 or 8 years of my life. and he just got out... but hes doing much better now and wants to be a part of my life now... and if you ask me from seeing my parents yelling and stuff, the divorce was for the best and we are so much better off now than we were when we were when they were married.... they both have there lives on track and are able to pay bills and they help with the things that we need and everything. but thats about the best i can give at this point... i hope i helped at least a little bit...[[good luck on whatever you decide]]
Destiny
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Ok so, I've been dating my brother's friend Mike who lives in a diff. state for almost 3 months now, and we didn't tell my brother or my parents. But, my parent's found my Myspace and everything about Mike in it. They flipped out and my brother found out and got really mad. And if this one just a random relationship I would have just ended it .. but I really do love him, and I cannot live without him. I'm pretty sure I should just stay with him. but I don't know. so could you help?!? =) (link)
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well if you really love him then i would just try to explain that to your family!.... i have had to do that before, except i just liked the guy and no one in my family did.... i wasnt in love with him or anything, but if you really do love him just try to explain that. i mean the most they can tell you is youre to young to know what love is... but if you ask me you cant put an age limit on what is the right age that you will know what love is. i would just explain to them... they might not like it very much at first but eventually i think they will at least be able to live with it.. hope i helped! good luck!
Destiny
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14/f im really like this guy and he like me back alot but hes really influenced by people. and i mean if you tell him to ask someone out.....he will probally do it. the reason why im not going out with him is because i want to be able to get him to ask me out by myself i dont want other people talking to him. hes went out with 2 girls but he didnt even like him, he went out with them because all of their little friends asked him to go out with them because they cant do it themselves. he promises me he wont listen to other people and he will listen to himself but i dont know ... should i just give up or keep trying? (link)
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if i were you i would keep trying... and if he really does like you then he will do like he promised and not let other people influence his oppion of you. and he will go out with you willingly if he really likes you! hope i helped!
Destiny
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How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips? (link)
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just talk to him about it.... thats all i really can tell you right now.... just tell him about your feelings for him.... and if he really likes you back then yall might be able to get back together! hope i helped!
Destiny!
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i have been chatting a girl for months and she gave indications that she is interested, she also talked me on phone, but i made a mistake that i started talking her everyday on the phone, and that made her a little bit angry. she told me not to call her anymore because of her family. We still chat on the net. But now she is like that if we talk everyday on the net she pretends that if she is not very much interested anymore, but if we dont talk for 3-4 days she starts complaining that why i dont come to the net etc.
the situation is somewhatlike that if i come towards her she runs away and if i dont come towards her she starts complain. That sucks,
NOW what i simply want is either to leave her completely or to make that relationship better.
but this situation is a puzzle for me,
1- what does she want?
2- what should i do, should i leave the situation as it is?
3- is this a natural problem with every woman?
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well... being a women and everything... if i really do like a person then i wouldnt complain about talking to them everyday. but that could just be me... or maybe she has a boyfriend and she just dont want to tell you that because i have been in that kinda situation and they really suck.... then again she could just be scared of a real relationship... try to talk to her like every other day and see what happens then... and if it dont get any better at all then just try to leave her alone about it... dont try to push anything and just hope for the best and expect the worst... but a lil heads up on computer b/f's and g/f's (they dont usually work out the way you'd expect them to).
hope i helped!
Destiny
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Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him? (link)
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well... if i were you i wouldnt wait for him because who knows how long he could have you waiting. im not saying that if you did wait for him he would make you wait for what seems like forever, but i am saying that you dont know how long it will be until him and his girlfriend break up... you know.... im also not saying that it wouldnt be a good thing to wait but if you were to wait for him and wait for as long as he told you to then he would think that you were wraped and that is definately NOT what you want any guy to think about you. because if you let one guy say that or even think that they have you wraped then they will start telling everyone that you are easy to get what they want you to do.. im not saying that he is that kind of guy because i dont know him so i cant say that about him but i am saying that most guys would and that he could. if you need anything else then just ask... i hope i helped at least a little bit..
Destiny
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