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My name is Senaida. I am a very opinionated lady, I believe I have been through very tough times but deffinetly not the worst. I can take a lot of crap, and I am glad to always make a friend. Best friends come from fights in the beginning, I have learned that. I love giving advice as well as receiving it.♥ iiRadioactive_JELLO xD
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so as it always starts...there is this guy that i like. A LOT. i've liked him for about 4 months now, but never actually started thinking about him until a month and a half ago. well i told him i liked him the week of valentine's day and he still hasn't gotten back to me if he likes me back or not. not only can i not stop thinking about if he does or not (b/c he really seems like he does and my friends say he's shy but you still can't tell or judge completely) but i also just can't stop thinking about him period.
how do i stop being so 'obssessed' (lack of a better word) and how do i find out if he likes me without actually asking him straight up if he does or getting a friend to do anything? (you know, cause i don't want to mess anything up.)
thanks in advance. =]
I think if he liked you, even if he's shy and reserved, he would have gotten back to you about it because if he is worth being with he would make something happen despite his shyness. I do not think he likes you since he hasn't put forth effort into making anything happen between you two. The way you stop thinking about him isn't as simple as the first answer I gave you. It might take some time, and the sooner you start, the better for you. Think about someone else, or something else, involve yourself with activities that will not give you time to think about him. Read or play some silly game.
Good luck
He has a girlfriend, but i really like him. And me and him talk a little bit. And at one point i thought he liked me, but then he dropped the sentence that he had a girlfriend to one of his friends. I was just wondering, (im not going to steal him from her. Im not that kinda girl) but i was wondering how do i get him to notice me? and i mean like really notice me? I know the flirting and crap. But i just want to know how i can get him to see me and not see me as invisable if you know what im saying. Thanks
Be really friendly and positive. Get to know what he's into, and talk about it. Even though guys do not like to admit it, they like it when a girl talks about them, and not always herself. Laugh at his lame jokes, hehe and be nice to him. Don't be overly nice because then he'll see that you're just some friendly girl and you want to be more than that. Compliment him, get into the sports he likes, engage in good conversation over the sports that he likes and such. You want to impress him, you'll have to do a little research. It doesn't all come easy with men. Be pretty and be confident, try something new with your look. Wear your hair a different way so he notices and if he compliments you, then you know you did great. When a female looks the same everyday, it sort of bores them and their attention doesn't always follow you. I suggest new eye shadow or something with the eyes because it's mainly what gentlemen are attracted to.
I hope everything goes well for you.
should I be upset if all my boyfriend (of over one year) is "supposidly" getting me a postar for valentines day? I mean, I feel it's a taky gift. Or am I being spoiled. Cause I mean even my friends who havent beeen with their bfs that long are getting more than a POSTER. COme on people. Flowes say I'm sorry. Choclates say I love you, and a poster says i'm an imature little boy who needs to grow up. SO any comments?
I think it's little.
I believe every lady should recieve a nice gift, a card, some chocolates and even a flower. Flowers say, "I appreciate you." But maybe he has something extra he hasn't told you about and just wants to surprise you so don't give up hope yet.
There's a guy from school who had a big crush on me. He knew absolutely nothing about me, and yet he still liked me. He used to keep talking to me and trying to get me to go on a date with him. After a while we started instant messaging on yahoo, and I got to know him a little better. At first I thought he was kind of cute, but I wasn't really that into him once I got to know him. I didn't want to lead him on, so finally I told him very nicely that I would just like to remain friends. He got mad at me! Now he's not talking to me at all. I told him we could still be friends, but he doesn't care. And it makes me wonder, was he even interested in me as a person or did he just want me to be his girlfriend? Anyway, now I feel bad about rejecting him (even though I did it very gently, I didn't diss him or anything) and I don't even think we're friends anymore. What should I do now?
Just give it time.
I know you don't want to hear that but after time he'll realise what's really supposed to happen. It's a good thing that you let him down easy, I do not think he had the right to get mad at you. It's not like you can force yourself to like him, whatever the reason for why he's acting the way he is, don't fret about it. You shouldn't worry yourself over nothing.
I'm 20/f, he's 22m, I always like opinions on this kind of thing.
Our situation's pretty complicated - we're not actually going out, but we act like it. He's also my best friend. We actually dated two years ago for seven months. We still like each other, and we're still involved.
He also hates Valentine's Day. (Though when we were going out, he picked me up from work with a card, a rose, and took me out to dinner. Sweetest thing ever.)
I was thinking about getting him something like a card - but he already knows how I feel, and reiterating it might just make him feel caged, and that's not what I want.
So I was thinking about getting him a small container of my favorite cologne - but he doesn't really wear cologne much anymore.
I've given him stuffed animals in the past (he's a sensitive sweet guy with a tough exterior =P), and a framed drawing for his last birthday...so I dunno. I love to personalize my gifts to my friends, but I'm not sure where to go with this one.
I was also thinking of suggesting we go to Melting Pot (Amazing fondue restaurant that you need reservations like a week in advance for), but I dunno how he'd take it.
What do you guys think?
I believe instead of trying to give him something tangible, you should just watch a movie with him at your house and talk. It would be nice if both of you just got together and made dinner together, not you making dinner before he came over of anything, just hang out in your place with a bunch of movies and making dinner together, not only will you have fun but it's something to look back upon, not some item that can be lost or destroyed in a house fire if you know what I mean. Also maybe a personalised picture of you and him would be nice too to remind him of the great friendship you have and how much you appreciate it.
Hope all goes well. ♥
If your place is taken up, maybe you can do it at his.