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Q: Ok, I met this girl at a friends party a while ago, she seemed nice. A few days ago he had another party and I talked to the girl again, and we are now friends on myspace. Here is where the question comes in. She is hitting on me, and telling me we should hang out. I am not sure of how I feel about her, so I was wondering what a safe way to hang out with her would be so I can avoid the question until I get to know her a little better.
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Wait I'm confused...you want a safe place to hang out so that you can avoid hanging out? Oh, well, that doesn't matter. For now, until she asks again, just act like you forgot that she mentioned you should hang out. It might give you some more time to figure out your feelings for her. Then the moment will come when she asks to hang out again. Now, you really can't be mean and say no because what if later on you find you do like her, but she doesn't like you because you rejected hanging out. I say that when she asks, you two bring a big group of friends and hang out at the movies, amusment park, mall, etc. So that it's not as personal and alone. Let me know how it goes -
&hearts
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Q: Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
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Alright, well when girls say "Oh I don't like anyone," 90% of the time they mean "I'm in love with you but I don't know what to do!" And if she has fallen for you before it's most likely that she could return down that path once more. I really think that you should just play the freind card for now, and still talk to her like normal. If anything, you should talk to her even more so you can get comfortable around each other. The next move is up to her because she knows you like her, and she knows you're waiting for her response. Let me know how it goes.
&hearts
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Q: My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg
I'll rate 5s for all answers.
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Aww i think you're friends a cutie!
I think you shouldnt give a flip what people are saying. They're just jealouse because theyre not as cute. :)
&hearts
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Q: kay so theres this boy i like. He knows I like him and people say by the way he talks to me you can tell he likes me too.
The thing is I dont know what to do...What should I do? Does anyone have ideas?
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You can't make decisions based on what other told you. Becuase things get twisted and blown out of proportion. I think you should definitly just try talking to this guy; see what you think he thinks of you first hand! And if he already knows you like him then it's pretty much all up to him wheather or not your relationship goes any further. So I think y'all should talk and get more comfortable around him, so you'll be able to act gooofy around him! The more y'all hang out and talk the greater he may become interested. Hope that helps.
&hearts
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Q: hay ok so i rly lie this guy. But ive only met him in personn once! But a couple of days ago we we talkin on the net and we really clicked. So we exchanged numbers. He seemed really into me on the internet. I like him and i want to hang out with him. So I dont know if i shold wait a while and see if he calls or if i should be brave and make the first move! HELP PLEASE!!
13/f
Love*
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Well i definitly think YOU should make the first move. He gave you his number for a reason - so that you would call him! Plus most guys really have no balls when it comes to things like this. If you want things to go anywhere then do something about it! Give him a call, talk about whatever, go to the movies, go out, get married.
&hearts
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Q: ok i like this girl and i find it werid because i never knew i was gay until this party but at the party she started to hit on my and i went along with it because i thought she was really cool but what i didn't know is that she had a girlfriend well later that night things happened and we both fault bad about her girlfriend so my heart broke a little but we deceide to keep this between her and i and obviously that didn't work because people found out some how. Then we started to hang out but everytime we hung out i started to like her more and more and she became to be on me more and more and everytime she would tell me that she's going to break up with her girlfriend but she doesn't and now i'm hurt inside because of all these lies i've tired everything from trying to ignore her to trying to talk it out with her nothing works ... what should i do ?
-From a broken hearted girl
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You're girl is a PLAYER.
She wants to have her cake and eat it too!
In other words...
she wants to have you there to have fun with but she aslo wants her girlfriend to commit to.
So right now she has the upper hand in your relationship, because she can have either one of you.
I say you LEAVE HER. Because if she really, truly loved you more than that other girl, this wouldn't be an issue because she would had already left the other girl.
So forget her, move on, and find someone else who wants you, and ONLY you.
&hearts
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Q: ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
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umm YEAH.
you should be mad because it seems like your guy is a PLAYA.
This is just me, but i think you should drop him. Because he has broken up and then gone back out with you so many times he probobly thinks, "oh no big deal if we break up she'll probobly just come back." And it definitly seems like he has the upper hand in this relationship.
Obviously, your upset about him flirtin with ohter girls online, or you wouldn't have said anything about it.
So my advice - drop him, go out with someone else.
its a win-win situation.
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Q: oh my gosh
ok the guy i liked is freinds with my brother
and they went in my room and found dirty underwear
(wich was this coverup stuff and lipgloss me and my freind were doing for a joke for my freind anthony) anyways
and they thought it was something else and they dont belive me
so now the guy i like thinks im disgusting
and doesnt like mean anymore..
should i just laugh about the whole thing and forget?
or stay sad and deppressed
what would you do?
PLEASE!
IM SAD
i rate 5s if you try!
thank you so much!
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just laugh it off
if the guy you like see's you laughing at it he'll believe that it was a joke and nothing to be seriouse about. he might tease you about it, but atleast you have something to kid about.
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Q: Ok, so recently I met this guy I'll call George. I was out with a few friends and we had a good time together. I had met George before that time, but I didn't really talk to him. When I did, George and I got along very well and I began to have feelings for him. The next day, I found that he liked me too. Then, the day after that, I found that my friend, Bob, likes me. Unfotunately, I do not have feelings for him other than those of friendship. I'd hate to hurt him and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions are welcome.
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Dont do anything
if bob hasnt asked you out yet then keep on actin natural.
but if he does end up asking you out lay it down for him, don't throw him a bone and be like "i just don't want a boyfriend right now" because that will give him hope that in the future you will go out. so i think you should just chill out until he actually does something; or go out with George.i doubt he'll do anything then.
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Q: does anyone have any good things i could talk about with my boyfriend...we're both shy so its always quiet! i rate high!
13/f
~thanks~
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If you don't talk how did you end up going out together? Well that doesnt matter. talk about your day, what you like, sing a song -it'll start the talking, ask him why don't you talk at all, and just act cool. somethings bound to come up.
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bio
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Hey guys
&hearts &hearts &hearts
well what do i put in here...
I'm really getting tired of people making columns because all of their freinds have them and they just want to put a cute picture of themselves online of them kissing themselves in the mirror, or whatever. I'm really serious about this and, believe it or not, I try to give advice. That is, unless i get a dumb question. I've had around 3 or 4 accounts on here before, so I'd say im pretty experienced. :)
Yes, I'm only 14, but I have a more mature mind than people give me credit for. So ask me a question, I DARE YOU.
&hearts &hearts &hearts
::About Me::
I'm very into music, art, books, photography and drama.
My iPod is my world.
I Love...
Musicals
The Arts
Fashion
My Friends
Photography
Living in the moment
Current Quote Living By:
Never settle for less.
I'm always here
So leave me a question.
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Gender: Female Location: ATL Occupation: Student -off for SUMMA TIME- Age: 14 Member Since: June 10, 2006 Answers: 59 Last Update: June 22, 2006 Visitors: 5352
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