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Dear Lucas,
I am really in need of some good relationship advice and I have heard that you're the best around for that kind of stuff! I have been trying to find a good guy around this town of Denver and can't seem to find one that's decent. Is there anything I should do or try to get the man of my dreams? Mainly how do I find a good guy?
Dear whoever this may concern,
It seems like you have been trying hard to find that guy so maybe you should just chill and let them find you! Be yourself and have fun, I'm sure Mr. Right will come along in no time. If that doesn't work for you, contact me in person and I would be happy to hook you up with someone after all I do have good luck with that. Good Luck!
Sincerely,
Lucas
i'm really into a player type of guy, he dated this girl for five years and been broke up w/her for one. i've dated a guy for almost five and been broken up for two months. so emotionally we are still healing. but he use to sleep around, and he's so sweet and hard to show his feelings. he wants to appear 'cool' all the time. how do i know what he thinks of me? are there any signs? b/c i just like him, and don't wanna go into deep if he is just going to use me.
i would just come right out and ask him what he thinks of you, if you are interested in dating him. if he's a player type he'll probably like flirt with you and stuff but who knows if he's being real about it. you know what they say, once a cheater; always a cheater. if you think he might use you, i would try finding someone else.
i hope that helps you out!
Okay, so me and my boyfriend always fight, and sometimes, i can't take it. He can go a bit over the top sometimes. Would you keep him around, and what can i do to fix all the fighting, i broke up with him fir like a day, but then he asked me back out because he said that he couldn't stand it wothout me. What do i do???
my friend had the exact sameee problem. if i were you, i most likely wouldn't keep him. i mean whats the fun in a relationship if you are always fighting? if you aren't happy with it, break it off. if you want to go the other route and try to fix the fighting thats a good idea too if you really don't want to break up. so to fix the fighting talk to him and say something like..i want to be with you, but the fighting needs to stop. we both need to try harder and change.
something along those lines.
i hope that helped! if you need anymore advice feel free to ask =]
when am I going to get married
what the heckkkk
Alright, I have a problem. I like this boy. And I can’t get him out of my mind. But the catch is. I have a boyfriend. And we’ve been dating for a while. And I do love him…very much but I like this boy very much…what should I do???
if you love the boy you're with now, then you wouldn't have such strong feelings for another boy. nobody can really tell you what to do, because you basically need to follow your heart [yes i know, sounds cheesy] but you do.
hope it all works out for you =]
Hey I am trying to become the ultimate player, boyfriend, whatever you wanna call it. I could use some advice and please spare no details. The more info you give the better. Try to cover all the bases like clothes, personality, and anything else you can think of. Thanks.
yeah i'm not sure why you'd want to become a player either. girls don't like cheaters. why don't you try being yourself?
So I left this guy, who I know is totally wrong for me, and I know that I'm better off. But I still love him, and I can't stop think about him, and I just miss him so much. I cry all the time. What do I do to get over this guy? I know I have to, but it's just so hard. All this emotions are killing me..
honestly it just takes time. you can't make yourself get over him. it's good that you know he isn't good for you, so don't go back to him. just take some time and eventually you'll get over him. the same thing happened to me and now i'm totally over it and didn't even know what i was thinking.
oh and boys are not worth your tears!
hope i helped :]
-hannah
Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!
i don't think it's that big of a deal. if you like him go for it, it's only a one year difference.
I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know the extent of their relationship but they worked in a bar that allowed them to spend hours together late into the night. I know he would even puposely schedule her to work nights they'd be together.
During their relationship I found numerous photos of her on his pc, disk drive, and cell phone. He knows how much it hurt me and it almost cost us our marriage. A year ago he told me it was completely over and after that she quit her job.
It's been almost nine months since I know of him seeing her and we dont talk about her but recently I found several more photos of her on his computer. Do you think he keeps them for memories, thinking i'll never find out. I know they were not there nine months ago. Should I confront him and dredge up the past or leave it be and continue to hurt in private?
I think about this several times a day and sometimes cry about it.
I welcome any advice you can give. Please reply to my e-mail, I would appreciate if you not post this anywhere. Thank you.
age: 24
you really should talk to him about it. if you don't now, it'll build up and one day you'll just explode about it. that won't be good for anyone. he shouldn't have those pictures anymore either, thats just crap. i hope everything works out for you =]
good luck,
-hannah-
ok im in tears .... idk why its just getting to me now ; but me and my boyfriend have been dating aLmost 7 months now . im in Love with that boy & hes my everything . over the summer i cheated on him with the boy he hates most ''/ i feeL so bad , i HATE my seLf so much for it - the one thing i have in Life that means so much to me i fuck it up with my stupidity . im so scared to teLL him because he toLd me he wouLd break up with me if i cheated on him ''/ id literaLy be crushed i dont know wat to do
i cant keep this inside anymore ... N0 one knows & i wana teLL him so bad but nothing good can come out of it ''/
pLease heLp & this is serious .
okay, if you feel that way you need to tell him. just sit down with him and tell what happened and how you feel about it. but really if you love him as much as you say you do you wouldn't have cheated in the first place..
good luck =]
soo..today is my birthdayyyy! and im going with a bunch of friends to fright night and my boyfriend and all of his friends are coming with us. im pretty sure my bf is going to kiss me tonight and im really nervous because i dont have any experience and he does. help please!!
awww haha don't worry about it! relax! it all comes naturally, have fun!
oh and happy birthday
=]
-hannah-
I neeeeeeed advice fastt!!!
My boyfriend's birthday is less than a week from now (turning 16 years old), & I dont want to get him something like clothes.
I want his present to be special, b/c MY birthday is about a month after his (a little over a month) and he said he's going to make it extra special sooo...
i have asked EVERYONE, and I really haven't heard anything that just...suits me.
also i was thinking about taking him out on the lake in maybe a canoe (sp?) and giving the present to him?
Anyways, I have about 30-50 bucks to spend.
Any suggestions??
Thank youuu. :]
(Why are boys so hard to shop for??)
heres some ideas:
-like a gift basket or like a cute birthday box with a bow full of little things he likes.
-a picnic with all of his favorite food
-if you have many pictures of you guys together you can make a scrap book for him
-If he has always given you flowers before, why don't you return the favor by giving him a dozen red roses? It will make him remember you as the only girl who ever gave him roses for his birthday.
thats all i can think of, hope you liked the ideas. but i also agree with the answer below. and i'm sure he'd like anything you got him =]
good luckkk =]
I have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?
okay it's going to be really hard to get her back. i mean how could you cheat on a person you love? don't blame the alcohol either, it was your choice and your decisions that led to this. you need to think of the most sincere apology a person could think of. then you need to HOPE she'll give you a second chance. you can't balme her if she chooses to move on either. you broke the trust after she gave you the greatest gift of all, her heart.
give her some time too, and don't expect an answer right away.
i don't really know what else to say..hmm maybe stand outside her bedroom window with a huge sign with your deepest most sincere apology on it?
i hope the best for you =]
-hannah-
Hello.
I am a 13 year-old male. THIS QUESTION IS FOR A GIRLS OPINION ONLY! Now girls, am i weird? I try to look cool but somehow always make a fool of myself. like today i was trying to get my huge backpack out of my locker and i fell on my back. NO ONE LIKES ME AS A FRIEND, NO GIRL LIKES ME EMOTIONALLY,AND I THINK ITS BECAUSE IM WEIRD. I dress in baggy shorts,
and cool vintage tees, and try to act as cool as possible. but i can't stop being weird. Every joke i say noone laughs, but if another kid says the same thing, evryone dies laughing. I am a little overweight but not much.
i don't think you're weird, you sound like a normal 13 year old kid. everyone falls once in awhile, so don't worry about that.
okay and the friend issue, i would just try to make new friends. if someone doesn't like you just brush it off. with a whole school full of kids there is bound to be someone to like you as a friend. oh and don't try so hard..just be yourself and that is sure to work better.
hmm maybe you could join a sport or a club even? you'd make friends there too. k again just be yourself =]
honestly, you don't sound weird at all.
so i hope i helped out =]
-hannah-
ive already asked for help and noone responded, here it is again.
im in my 40's/male. i was married for about 20 years with the most amazing women known to man.
i have cheated on her with about; 10 different girls, but only had 3 actuall girlfreinds. we have been seperated for about 1 year; im now with my girlfriend she caught me cheating on her with. she doesnt know about the others.
also my 2kids (wife) basically hate me and i never see one of them.
since no one resoponded back to me before im going to make this short.
basically, i still love my wife and im now cheating on my girlfriend with her friend. i want my wife back!!! p.s we are going through divorce. help!!
i'm just going to keep it real. wth? grow up. if you love your wife why would you cheat on her? if you really really love your wife, you'd drop the girlfriends and start showing her you will change and you want to change and it will be forever.
if your serious about this, talk to her. tell her you were wrong. but i wouldn't get your hopes up to high about getting her back. i know if someone did that to me i could never trust them again.
so just try, if you love her that much.
ok so there is this guy named louie and i really like him but he is in the 5th grade and i'm in the 8th. and like he is really nice. and not like any of the other guys that i liked. he doesnt want to get into my pants. but like my best friend brittany's little brother is best friends with him and im over there all the time. and brittany doesnt care and like my friend laura is like eww. thats nasty but what should i do. i want to ask him out! please help!
if you really like i'd say go for it. don't care what anyone else thinks but
this is my honest oppinion
ofcourse he doesn't want to get in your pants. he's in fifth grade. fifth graders can be immmature too. there are guys your age that don't only want that. heck i mean even most eighth grade guys aren't like that. three years is kinda a differnece but i guess it's not too bad.
so like i said before just go for it if you really think you like him. :D
alright. well im kaleigh im thirteen& i met this guy at a dance and we were together the rest of the time& we danced..obvisouly but everytime i looked at him he would look at me and we would just stare at eachother&smile. after that we started hanging out& i started liking him. i decided to tell him_ and he told me that he kind of liked me too. so we went to balloon fest and we were flirting the whhooollleee time& i was with my other friend too& she said that it seemed like we were dating!and a couple time we alomost kissed..but we didnt. after that i was sure he liked me. but then he met this other girl "jazzy" i guess you could say shes pretty popular. realllyyyy pretty& basically everything im not. so i was kind of mad/sad. and the last day of school everyone was heading out to the buses and i stopped to talk to him and she came up behind him and put her arms around him. i got like really mad& just walked away. everytime im with him it just seems like the whole world stops and the only people on earth are me&him. its just soo amazing. and i dont know if they are going out or not but he has her in his info but he says theyre not. idk?
what should i do? :/
okay, i think the best thing to do is just talk to him about how you feel because it seems like you reallyyyy like him. maybe ask him in person about if he's going out with her or not. it seems like he likes you too so just give it a shot and talk :D
heyy..okay everything started out like amaazing. i loved him so much you like dont even no..but then he was always asking me where i was and what i was doing like 24/7. i thot that was sorta cute n stuff. but then i got this text message from my friend whitney that said and i quote! [[cuz nobody believes me unless they've seen it.]] "michael loves you so much and wants to be with you the REST of his life." and that just weirded me out. i dont reallii wanna marry someone whose my boyfriend going into eighth grade. i thot that he was taking r relationship ...WAYYY to seriously. so i decided i needed to end it otherwise he might just get more attached. yeah it was a sacrifice but i didnt wanna hurt him worse then i already did because if he got even more attached it could have been ALOT worse. he already hates me and doesnt wanna be my friend. and i didnt wanna make him like go into depression or anything. so i decided it was for my and his own good that we break up. and now everything turned to crap. him and all of his friends are SOOOOO MEANN to me. and like there whole group completely hates me. it reallii hurts..some of the thing that they're calling me. i dont no what to do anymore. i still wanna be friends with him..but he told me he hates me and never wants to see me again. do you think he'll get over it? and do you have any reasons why he's acting like this? any ways to ignore it? thanks in advance♥
i've had the same thing happen to me, like exactly the same and i found the best way is too ignore it. even if it's hard too. i would also try just talking to him one on one and tell him how you feel about the situation and how much it hurts you. oh and the reasons i would say is that he's upset and maybe being mean is how he expresses that emotion.
i hope i helped :]
-hannah-