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i cheated
ok im in tears .... idk why its just getting to me now ; but me and my boyfriend have been dating aLmost 7 months now . im in Love with that boy & hes my everything . over the summer i cheated on him with the boy he hates most ''/ i feeL so bad , i HATE my seLf so much for it - the one thing i have in Life that means so much to me i fuck it up with my stupidity . im so scared to teLL him because he toLd me he wouLd break up with me if i cheated on him ''/ id literaLy be crushed i dont know wat to do
i cant keep this inside anymore ... N0 one knows & i wana teLL him so bad but nothing good can come out of it ''/
pLease heLp & this is serious .
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Well I am glad you feel bad, because cheating is a terrable thing! Please don't ever do it again! If you don't tell him someone else might. I think he would rather hear it from you than someone else. If you sit down and tell him, make sure it is not a time when he is high stressed, make sure it is clear to him that you two are not still togetherm, and that you really regret it. If he feels the same way about you, that you feel about him, he might be hurt but he should come around, also I don't know him so it is kind of hard to tell how he will act, plus think about what kind of a family he has grown up in. I don't know what kinda of family he is comming from, if it were me in this situation because my dad cheated on my mom 6 times before they finally split when i was a kid, I would drop a guy so fast if I ever found out they were cheating on me. If I was for sure that they were not still together I would probally be extreamly hurt but come around! Also you do not have to tell him who it was, if you do not feel like it. Hope this helped If you need more help sometime come and ask me!
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okay, it's obvious you realize what you did was wrong, and you feel terrible. If it is bugging you so much, then you need to talk it out. If you really feel bad, then tell him, but explain you've been killing yourself over this and tell him you're really sorry!
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Let me tell you, I was in a similar situation not too long ago. My bf and I had been going out for about 6 months when I ended up making out with my ex. I felt really bad and kept if from my bf for a long time. He told me the only way he would leave me was if i cheated on him. Well one day we were talking about this subject and I told him I had something I needed to tell him. I told him what I did, and I was crying and apologizing a million times. He got very upset, and hardly wanted to talk to me. We did talk it out, and although he was upset for some time after that, we moved on.
Now, i don't exactly know your situation, but this is the best advice I can give you. If you are in a serious relationship with your bf, and you two truely love each other, you need to tell him. In the end you will feel a lot better, and you won't be walking around with this guilt. Explain to him how bad you feel, and that you feel that telling him is the right thing to do because you DO love him. Explain that it was a stupid mistake, and let him know how much it would kill you for you two to break up over this, but tell him that you respect him enough to tell him the truth, because you don't want any secrets between you two.
I think by doing this, he will see your true feelings, and that you feel really bad about it that you just want to tell him because of how it's been eating at you. If he feels the same way, he will see past it eventually. Understand that he may or may not be upset with you for a while after this, but you know in your heart it's the best thing to do. You don't want that cloud hanging over you and your relationship.
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okay, if you feel that way you need to tell him. just sit down with him and tell what happened and how you feel about it. but really if you love him as much as you say you do you wouldn't have cheated in the first place..
good luck =]
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