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ok lets see im 15 yrs old.my nationality is greek and i've been boxin for about 2 years now(temporarily stopped but im going back)... my two passions are giving people advice and writing poetry...i dont discriminate against anyone and i will always be open with a ear to listen and a hand to guide as much as i possibly can...if ever anyone needs to a ask a question no matter what it is you can always ask me...i hope my advice is helpful to everyone and i hope everybody feel free to keep it real and write what they wanna write(evrybody has they own opinions so if yall dont like my advice yall can be real about it cause i'll only better myself by takin others criticism)so get at your greek princess...

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I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions?

long distance relationships are always hard but in a way they can be a really good thing...now a long distance relationship will allow you to see and find out things that you never might have knew before saying this what i mean is the distance between you and your boyfriend tests your love if your love for each other is strong enough then it will surpass any hardships that you and your boyfriend may go through...now even if your love for each other it true that still wont exclude your relationship from its problems because believe me there will still be times that you may get frusturated and feel as though you dont know how your relationship is gonna hold on but all that can really be said is that if it was meant to be it will last all you gotta do is hold strong and stay true and eventually fate will take its coarse weither it be for the best or worst there is no possible way you can know but live in the present and dont worry about the future cause if you do then you'll spend your days sad instead of truly being happy...you have the will power to make what you want happen if you truly want this relationship to work then strive for what you want and dont give up when you feel as though its hopeless keep going and in the end no matter what ends up happening you'll know that it was meant to be... so keep your head up i hope my advice helped

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aight im with this girl we've been together for 5 months. I really love her and care a lot about her.The last 5 months have been the best. she goes on spring break. She tells me on the phone one night while she was on spring break that she meet this girl and 2 guys. She told me that they hang out all week and they want out to eat one night and had some drinks. she told me she didn't cheat on me that these guys are just friends. She comes home and shows me pics and i see pics of her and just one guy. their were other pics of the other ppl but she was in pics huggin this guy. She told me again that they were just friends. But this guy calls her every night. Yea they live far apart but it bothers me really bad. I told her that it bothered me and she said she wouldn't talk to him anymore becasue i was more important but they next day she did. then she lied to me and tried to say it was sombody else. then i finally looked up the area code to show she was liein to me. I was hurt that she lied to me so i told her we need a break. we ended up gettin back togheter and she told me again she wouldn't answer his phone calls. but she did and she called me and told me she talked to him. But she says that im bein controling which im try not to be. I finally told her she can talk to him and do what she wants. But it bothers me and i don't know what to do.

man i understand that ,that must be hard but really theres only three things you can do one is leave her alone and dont talk to her no more which i dont think you would want to do..the other is just put up with it and keep your feelings in which isnt good either...and the third which i think is the best is to tell her straight up exactly how you feel about the situation and why you feel that way it might be hard but if she really feels as strongly as you feel about her she'll understand and stop what she's doing...if she doesnt stop what shes doing after you explain all that to her then to tell you the truth you can do better because if she really loved you the last thing she would want to do is hurt you..now you might not want to do these things but if you dont shes gonna keep playin you like a fool because she feels as though you'll keep taking her bullshit..i hope i helped

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I went out with this guy on April 20th, 2003 and we went out for about 9 months. He stopped talking to me all of a sudden, had his friends lie to me and tell me he was in jail..and all this other crap. I soon figure out he had 3 other girlfriends ! Anyway, it look a long time but I got over him. It's been over a year and when I think about him, I dont cry or anything. But latley I've been kinda depressed because pretty soon its going to be April 20th and I think about the good times and just....how do I forget about this guy? I dont want to be 30 and still remembering April 20th as the day I met him! I want to forget him!

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sweetie its gonna take you a while to forget him and there is nothing you can really do about it...i know that you probably wanna forget about him and never be reminded of him again but you just cant make things go away it takes time for you to mend and thats natural.. i wish i could tell you something to make you forget about him but it really just takes time and eventually even though it might not seem like it to you, you will forget about him i promise and when i say this i am speaking from experience...i hope my advice helped to ease your mind i wish i could give you more advice on what to do but what i told you is really all there is that you can do...

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i know this is a stupid question, and i know most people will answer it smartly and rude, but i have never tounge kissed a guy before. I am sorta scared because i dont know how to do it. Do both of yall put your tounge in each others mouth or does only 1 person put their tounge in the other ones mouth? And .. how do you know whos tounge goes on the top and whos goes on the bottom? PLEASE ANSWER!!!

alright its alright dont be afraid to ask questions... if you are afraid to ask questions you'll never find the answer you want...really there is no right way to tounge kiss..honestly you just have to learn from your own experiences cause everyone kisses in different ways so if i told you a certain way it might not be the exact way somone else kisses...just go with the flow when you kissin someone and dont be nervous casue they'll be able to sense your nervousness and it will just make the kiss really bad...hope i helped if you have anymore questions you can always ask...

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Ok, i used to talk to this guy david and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. but then he accused me of "having something" with his friend John. But it was total bull. So we stopped talking. then, a couple of weeks ago he called me after i texted his cell. we talked for about an hour and then he had to go. We have been talking since. He told me he still liked me because he knew/knows i still have feelings for him. we made plans to meet at a dance club and hang out. seems good right? wrong. his girlfriend showed up so i got ditched. he barely talked to me all night. i was devastated that he would do that to me. but we got over it. now we are talking again and he is calling me and continuing to make plans to hang out. But he still has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do because i really do like this kid. please help. i rate high.

~Confused (15/f)

look sweetie you need to reealize that you can do better than some dude who's gonna play games...your probably gonna come across alot of boys that play games like that and you dont need them...even though you might have strong feelings for him you need to understand that he going to continue to play games with your head and obviously he doesnt care because if he did he would take your feelings into consideration i would tell you to tell him straight up how you feel and what you think but you probably wouldnt like the response you might get back from him so my advice to you is to just be cool with him and if you have to many feeling for him then just leave him alone all together it might be hard but im telling you unless you wanna keep being the fool in this game you need to get over him..he knows hes got you right where he wants you and you need to show him that hes not the one thats in control of your feeling you are..trust me everything will work out for the best if you listen to me even if you dont think it will...when i tell you this im speaking from experience...hope i was helpful to you be strong and do what you need to do

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i was lead on by a guy. i liked this guy he told me how he felt but in the end when i finally got the courage to ask him out he said no (i asked him out the nest day online) and he said because he still likes his ex what should i do? he told that he loved me and all this other stuff and in the end i get turned down. plz help me.
signed
disappointed.

sweetie that is a typical guy for you dont even sweat it... you need a man not a little boy cause all they do is play little kid games... you deserve a man that wants you and only you if a guy is pressed about another girl then let him be pressed about her and leave him alone because you dont want no dude that wants someone else other than you ,you want someone that is all about you...so as hard as it may be forget about him you dont need no guy to cap your head up and lie to you. you need honesty and obviously he was bullshittin with you from you start so walk away and know that your the better one and obviously hes not on your level yet hes still playing little kid games because its only the people who are not mature that feel they need to cap up peoples heads and lie to others..look at it this way why would you wanna waste all your time and love on someone who would not give you there time and love back... so remember that you stronger and smarter than you think..you have the strenght to overcome your feelings...i hope my advice helped!!

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my bf fingered me and im not sure if he had cum on his fingers before he did. this was last month-feb 9. i got my period feb 28 and i was really worried i was pregnant and i was like soo relieved when i got my period LAST day of feb!! it lasted till i think march 7 or 8. my friend said you can get your period and still be pregnant though. my stomach feels like its getting bigger..i dont know whats up...i took an 8$ test yesterday and it said i wasnt pregnant..but i havent got my period for march yet...im soo worried..helpp...could i be pregnant if the test said no and i had my period last month..and this month i didnt do ANYTHING what so ever?? but it feel s like my stomach is getting bigger!! and it kinda of looks bigger too and i didnt get my period for march...

dont worry about it sweetie your not pregnant and if you are it would be a suprise to both of us.. it is true you can get your period when your pregnant but if you were pregnant there is no way you can already see growth in your stomach this early.. its just your subconcious getting to you making you think you see growth in your stomach but trust me you really dont...stop stressing over it the more you think about it the more its going to bother you but trust me you didnt get pregnant over him just fingering you even if he did have cum on his finger so you'll be aight....hope i helped

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ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?!

A good friend will ask her friend if its ok that she talk to her ex and when i say ask i mean really talk to her about it because you never know she might still have some sort of feelings for him even if she doesnt say it off the bat PERSONALLY I WOULD NEVER GO WITH MY BEST FRIENDS EX BECAUSE I FEEL AS THOUGH THATS DISRESPECT but thats only my opinion if you really like the boy then follow your heart but dont be ignorant to other peoples feelings in the process...hope i helped

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