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My name is Brew I'm a stay at home mother of a wonderful boy. I. My extra time I like to read but I almost never have time. I'm engaged and plan on getting marries next year. I try not to judge but can't help it sometimes I'm only human and I like to give second chances. I give my opinion when and when I'm not asked. I do tend to be right. I'm a sore loser but a good winner. I don't compete at all. Ill try to help as much as possible but I am honest and if you want good advice I need to know the whole problem even the dirty laundry part. Hope to help. :)

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I like a guy but he doesn't even know i exist. How do we become friends so we can go out?

I had a situation like this before. I really liked this guy and I ended up dating his friend and meeting him. Well after me and my boyfriend broke up and me and the guy never talked again but I saw him everyday and he would always laugh. One day I just walked up to him and asked him why he always laughed at me and he said its because he wanted to. Me and the guy ended up walking home together I got his number on the first day and we ended up together for 5 months. In other words just walk up to him and make conversation the worst he can do is walk away. Its a big jump but after you do it you will be happy you tried and you will be over most of your fears. Hope I helped

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This guy i really like asked me out but a couple days ago my parents talked to me about having a boyfriend at this age. I wanna say yes but what do i do about my parents????

Try to talk to your parents and have them meet this boy. Its not something you will be comfortable with but its the only way they will say yes. If they say no well you will live and you have your whole life a head of you to date so don't worry about it now. If you really are meant to be you will get together when you are older and can be together.

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he told me on wednesday that we need to take a break becuase he needs time.
and i asked him how long he wont talk to me for and he said idk.
everything has been fine between us so that whole needing a break thing seriously came out of nowhere.
were in a long distance relationship so i dont understand why he needs a break. its not like we get to see eachother alll the time like normal couples.

ive called and texted him a bunch of times and have gotten nothing back. its been three days since he hasnt talk to me and its killing me.
no matter what i say to him, he wont talk to me.
i dont know what to do :[
help meee!

Well beating around the bush wont help you now so I will just say it he might have found someone else. He might be trying to figure out who he really wants to be with, this happens a lot just give him his space he will text or call when he is ready I would give it a for more days before I text him again because if you don't give him his space then he will feel crowded and say its over for good just give him time. I hope I helped

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okay i know this may sound kinda stupid but,
what exactly does PDA mean?
thanks in advance :)

Public despaly of affection...
meaning
cuddling
kissing
basicly what cuples do

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ok well i had a boyfriend and we broke up a year an a half ago but i still want him to be my friend. is this the right thing to do...

he was there for me through the roughest times for me. he caused me a lot of pain when we broke up but it was just because we were going to different highschool and i think he didnt want it anymore because we went out for a year.

should i try and be his friend????

EX Bf are like the BEST FRIEND you oculd ever have i know mine is.
So talk to him and ask him how he would feel if you guys were friends
just tell him how you feel
and if he says no ask him to try it for a little bit of time. I am sure he feels the same way

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if someone asks you out (first time), what happens next? it doesnt mean you two are dating, right? what if you dont want to pursue the relationship? is that where you give the "just friends" speech?

Just tell then how you feel i mean you dont have to date the person if you dont want to. Just be sure on how you feel before you say anyhting

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There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles

Just give him time be your self and dont try to be something your not. It takes time and who knows it could just be puppy love..
Love works in wierd ways...but trust me if it was ment to be then everything will work out ^_^

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ok, sooo I just started dating this guy and i thought maybe he would change his facebook status thing, but he didn't and I don't know if I should wait for him to do it or just go ahead and change mine or what. I haven't been in a relationship ever so I don't really know what people normally do about these things. If anyones got any advice, please let me know, thanx :)

Just change yours. Somtimes guys forget bout tho's things I mean its really no big deal if it says your single or taken but if you want to change it then change it. i know a guy who i dated for 5 months and never changed his stuff on myspace to say "in a relationship" its just a guy thing....go ahead and change yours
-Funsize

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So i was talking to this guy about two months ago and then i left for vacation. When i got back we weren't really talking like we used to. He then left for vacation and we stopped talking. We have been friends for a long time. A month after he got back he started dating this girl. The girl is a friend of mine, but she's not my best friend. I wouldn't trust her with all my secrets. We do always invite each other to our parties, but we don't talk a whole lot. Now that they are dating the guy has been talking to me. We hang out all the time. He calls me everyday. And i'm starting to like him again. We talked about what we are going to do about it cause he likes me back. I told him I can't keep talking to him while he's in a relationship so i told him he would have to make his choice soon. I'm mostly worried about pissing off my friend. I'm in need of some advice. got any?

I am in the same place as you. But telling him you cant be his friend just because you 2 have feeling for each other and he has a gf isnt the best solution. you should be there for him because you are friends. If your not his friend he might not know how great of a person you really are. just give it time and things will fall in place but dont rune a good friend ship over jelousy

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ok well this guy likes me a lot and we always cuddle when we hang out. i feel really safe when im next to him so i love cuddling with him. but when he tries anything else, i back off.

i told him i just want to be friends, and he has told me he wants more.
but now we have been fighting bc ive been with other guys and now he just wants to end our friendship. but i cant stop thinking about him.

i really want him in my life so so much.
could i actually like him more than a friend?
im really scared to think that i do. bc im scared to hook up with him.
i dont know why, hes the only guy i get nervous around when it comes to hooking up.

im soo confused.
can someone help me please?

sounds like your falling for him...
you should tell him how you think you feel
in the long run try to date him....
let him know if things dont work out you want him in your life no matter what
thigscant get wosre then him not there jst talk to him

love always funsize

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I had a boyfriend of 8 months. My first love. We broke up in September. I was heartbroken. I've learned to let it go and things aren't awkward or anything. But just recently, I've begun to miss him a lot. I think it's because I found out he was moving on to another girl and I was cleaning out my closet and I saw all the stuff he gave me, and I just broke down into tears. I like other people and things, but I always just wonder what I could have changed to make him not break up with me. I want to tell him this so bad because no one else can help me through this. He still knows me the best. I'm not expecting him to take me back, I know he won't but I don't know what else to do. I'm over it, I'm just not fully over him.

give him the stuff back let him know you found it and cried let him know how yo feel...it maybe hard but at least you are telng him the truth and you will feel better afterwords....ad when you feel like crying just do it and get it out....... who knwos in the end he might feel the same way and might relize he made a mistake
hope i helped
love always funsize

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13/f
8th grade

ok so my friend Katie has been going out with this guy drew. I honestly think that the relationship is a mistake. he likes me, he lies to katie, he used her, this is their 3rd time going out, he called me a bit**, etc. ect. He is not a good boyfriend. But this is her longest relationship so she thinks that she loves him. but she says that she is not happy ( i wouldn't be either) but she refuses to break up with him. So i cant be her friend if she is going to go out with someone who treats me like crap. but i am afraid that she will choose her boyfriend over me and then they will break up and she will have no one... what should i do? and please dont say talk to her because i have already done so. any ideas?

Forgt trying to talk to her talk to him tell him that your not going to sit around and take his crap. if he says anyitng ingnor it he will hate it. The only thing you can do really is ignore him and be there for her when she needs you. A guy shouldnt be worht losing a friendship over. Do what you think is right if you dont want to kill the friend ship dont just sit it out
sorry my best advice..
love always funsize

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i like guys. im definitely attracted to guys, not just looks but everything, how they feel smell, hold you, whatever, but then i hang out with this one friend(girl), i question my feelings for girls. she gets near me and i get that same tingling sensation.then after i have those thoughts about her, i wonder if i like girls in general... cause i look at others like that too.
i dont know if im bi or gay or whatever, or is its just a girl crush or a phase, gimmmie alittle insight

well most likly its a stage evergirl gose through it at some point in thier life been there.. You might acculy be falling for this girl and your bst bet would be to talk toher about your feelings. If she feels the same think about dateing it would be your best bet on knowing if you bi or not. And dont be worried about it if you are.. its easier to tell you self you are and get over it
love always Funsize

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ok so i had sex for the first time and bled i no thats normal now how long before it stops hurting ? like will it hurt if i have sex a second time?

Female

Well I know how it feels and It will hurt and it will bleed...It could bleed untill you cherry is fully poped and as for when it will stop hurting the first few ties will hurt but the more you do it (not saying go out and have sex so it wont hurt) the less it will hurt in time. Not trying to be gross but your hips might have to move and you hole streched....
Love always Funsize

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