My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??
just tell him to be a little more serious when u need him to be there for you. if he really is amazing, he should listen. i hope i helped!
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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?
just tell him that ud rather be friends. good luck, i hope i helped!
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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?
girls like celebrities...thats the way it is...and plus im sure u look at hot girls sometimes 2, shes not doing anything wrong, so you'll just have to accept the fact thats shes human...i hope i helped!
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i had planned on asking one of my sort of guy frineds out at our schools homecoming game , and i had told all my friends that i was asking him a while after he got there and that i was gonna ask him alone, i didnt want my friends coming in to play and pressuring him. so when he got there i got there my friend called him over by her and then she told me to come over by her like she was setting us up for me to talk to him! like "ok here now u ask him", i was so pissed so i walked away. turns out without me even telling her to she asked him out for me so she came up to me and told me how he said i dont know, for one i was mad and her and two, it was gonna be awkward the whole night now because of her, and now i dont know what to say when he gives me and answer, if he says no i dont want our friendship to be ruined, and if he says yes i'll feel wierd because i dont know why he said idk, like he didnt like me that much or something, like if he liked me why would he have to think about? help me to fix this awkward situation!
well, for one thing, tell your friend not to do that again! and just talk to this guy naturally, like nothing ever happened. it might be hard but you u have 2 if u wanna make the situation better. just talk to him about the game or school or something and he'll see that you dont let things bother you that easily. and he probably said he didnt kno because he felt akward that it was ur friend that asked him and not you! good luck! i hoped i helped!
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okay well i was at my friends house lets call her julie, and my other best friend lets call him joe, well joe invited me and julie to his house to play flashlight tag, and we did and julie got tagged and well we were running to our hiding spot and he was like remeber that day i said i would give you kissing lessons? [he said he would because i have never kissed before] i was like yeah.. and he was like you still want them? i was like um yeah i guess and he was like you want them tonight? i was like yeah um sure so it was hiding time so me him and julie went by a bush and like all of a sudden his tounge was on my lips not on my mouth because i wasnt ready just like there and i was freaked out and he was like umm... then it was time to go, so we started walking back and he didnt talk to me AT ALL i mean i liked the kiss.. but like was it more then just a kiss?? i mean he asked me randomly PLEASE HELP!!!
yea he likes you! thats why he said that cause he wanted to kiss you. the next time you talk to him you could ask for another kissing lesson and see what happends :D i hope i helped!
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?
wow ur 14 and engaged. i definetly think thats to young. do you know when you're gonna get married? in a few months or in a few years? i think you should just be bf and gf until you're older so you can see how things go with you 2 without having a HUGE commitment like that. tell him that u do love him but u think you're too young to get engaged. and last night you said that because u loved him but now u really thought about it. if he doesnt listen or gets mad at you, he isnt the guy for you anyway. good luck, i hope i helped!
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Okay so this kid I know asked me to "leave" with him. He told me I was the only girl he trusts, (hes a great friend, i help him in life a lot) and he wasn't pressuring me into leaving with him but he has a car and he doesn't like his home life and wanted me to go with him. I don't know WHAT to do. It's so unrealistic to leave with him, and I would be so mad if he left on his own (he said he wouldn't with a friend or by himself.. only with me) and I like him. Like... a crush you can say lol. I dont know WHAT to do. :-(
its very simple, DONT GO! u would miss out on a lot of things and he could even hurt you. if you go with him, ur basically giving ur future to him, if not ur whole life. i hope i helped. good luck!
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My mom and I are really close, and she told me that since I was 16 I could date now. Well I got asked out by this really awesome guy, who I've been friends with for 3 years. And I said yea. Well I told my mom and she freaked. And the reaosn why, is because hes middle eastern. He's not muslim(and even if he was I'd date him), he's not a terroist, his family are not terroists..he just happens to be from Iraq. My mom is saying stuff like "Sure do what you want, get blown up". How can I make her understand that not all people from Iraq are like that!!
Remind her that there are bad and good people from all over the world. Some people from Iraq are bad and some are good. Its just like America or any other country in the world! Tell her to imagine meeting him if she was blind, and she didn't know he was from Iraq. She wouldn't be able to tell! Who you really are is what you are in the dark. (appearance doesn't matter)
Also tell her to imagine if someone that was Middle Eastern thought all Americans were evil just because Hitler was white. It wouldn't be right that way, so it isn't right this way either. If she imagined herself in his place, she might realize that judging someone before knowing them is wrong.
If she doesn't understand, then ignore her. You have the right to date anyone you want, skin color makes no difference. I hope I helped.
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I have this ex-boyfriend who is now one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. He has told me, many times, how he's in love with me and wants me back. I don't feel the same way at all and get annoyed with his attempts to win me back. The real problem is, it seems everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I become very attracted to him again. I guess it's because 'you want what you can't have?' He says he doesn't even like these girls, but just wants someone to be with since he can't have me. I just can't believe myself when I fall for him only when he's with someone and it drives me crazy. What should I do? I really like him now but I know when he finds out, dumps his girlfriend, I won't feel the same!
Maybe you want a boyfriend and thats why you feel upset when he has a grilfriend. You could try dating other people and remain friends with this guy, or you could actually go out with him and see how you feel. Maybe you just need to give him another chance. Good luck. I hope I helped!
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ok i like this guy named Humberto and he is fine!! Well my gurl friends told him i liked him and he came to my table at lunch!! omg and i forgot to say hi and he got all mad and said i was ugly but an hour earlier he was like saying i was really hott and all now he is going out with this hoe that fucks every guy she can!! what should i do i really like him
he got really mad at you just because you didnt say hi? well, guys ARE weird like that! he probably was just mad and said that to get back at you or something. now he probably is dating this girl to make you jealous. just tell him that you like him a lot and you're sorry. i hope i helped!
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I am the one who asked about the boy I like. If you didnt read it, I said that I like him and I'm not sure if he likes me. He waves to me, and looks at me in class. I talk to him online and I REALLY like him. Okay, I had a dance last night, and he walked by me and stared at me. My friend said he looked at me a few more times that night. He waved to me again at the dance. What are you thinking about this..? Thank you!!!
those are all signs that he likes you. try flirting a little more and see how he responds. you COULD get ur friend to ask him if he likes you (thats what 9 out of 10 girls would do) or you could just act the same as you always have around him and wait to see what happens. it truly sounds like he likes so good luck. i hope i helped.
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Ok this guy and me always like hold hands and kiss and stuff so I think were going out cause everytime someones like o ur g/f is so hott he doesnt say' o shes not my g/f" he just says I know she is and " o theres your g/f" he doesnt say anything should I ask him?
it sounds like you're goinf out. but ya, ask him! theres no harm in it...ovbiously you like him so i REALLY think u should basically ask him. that sounds so plain but thats my opinion! i hope i helped!
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Well, my boyfriend and me have been going out for 3 weeks. And all the sudden today he breaks up with me!
Well, it was his friend since he was too chicken to do it on his own. I didn't believe his friend, so I called his house, and he said he was "God D*mn serious" but my boyfriend was laughing in the background and they were all laughing. And he just said the other day how much he liked me.
I cried for about an hour after that. If he's joking, though, I'm going to kill him. It scared me so bad. And I'm so confused. They won't tell me why, either. They just keep confusing me more everytime I talk to his friend.
They won't let me talk to my boyfriend either. They just keep saying "SHUT UP! GOD! HE HATES YOU AND HE BROKE UP WITH YOU. GET OVER IT!" but they keep laughing!
Do you think they're just joking or he really is breaking up with me they just think it's funny? Help!
Sorry this was so long. I rate!!
something like that happened to me...all his friends would be like "he doesnt like you, stop calling!" on the phone. in my case it was true, they just thought it was funny. turns out, that guy really sucked anyway. so forget about him and just dont talk to him if thats the case. hopefully, they're just joking and you'll kill him instead...either way he doesnt sound like the perfect guy so just try to find someone else that doesnt treat you like this. i hop i helped!
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ok, me and my friend both have these relationships with guys, let's say "Ashley" & "Matt" and me & "John". ok, everytime "Ashley & Matt" are having a good relationship, "me & John"'s relationship has problems, but once we fix them and are doing fine, "Ashley & Matt" have problems. this happens everytime and has been ongoing for more than 3 months now. is there anything we can do to break the cycle? i will rate if you respond, cuz i really need help.
does this happen when you're all together? if it does then maybe you should avoid the whole group being together. do matt and john not get along? you could also avoid talking about your relationship status with ashley and matt. this probably isnt good advice but i dont think i know enough about the situation. i hope i helped some!
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i have an online girlfriend. people say that online relationships suck but i really like her a lot! what do you think about them?
with online relationships, you never really know what you're getting FOR SURE. but if you like her then its fine! just dont hook up or anything cause it would suck to be kidnapped by an old guy...theres a Ms. right and Ms. right NOW. i hope i helped!
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i loooove this guy. the thing is he doesnt kno i exist! im in all of his classes but we never talk or anything. i really like him because he seems like my DREAM GUY...how do i got him to just notice me?
you're in all of his classes? thats perfect! raise your hand in class a little more so he can at least know you're there. talk to your friends close enough to him sometimes so he gets a little taste in what you're like. then one day, pretend u didnt get what page the homework was. ask him and then talk about class. compliment his shirt or something (guys love that...) and things should unfold from there. i hope i helped!
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