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okay its always like i have to call my boyfriend or else we dont talk till like night time...he calls to say goodnight...but to make plans...it seems like i ALWAYS have to call him...and today im doing nothing till the nighttime and i want to call him because waiting for him to call me is just a waste of time...but then again i dont think i should call him...i called him yesterday to make plans and the day before...and we love hangin out we have so much fun...but its me who always has to call first...should i call him? (link)
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You shouldn't wait around expecting him to call thats just a waste of your time. Try going out with your friends instead don't let your boyfriend have all the fun without you. Wait a few days then call him and ask him why he never calls you to hangout. maybe he has something else he has to do there could be a good reason why he is ignoring you and you deserve an explanation!
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Yeahhh... my boyfriend, who I like a lot, is a different race and my parents are racist. That caused some bumps in me just telling my mother that I liked him, and put drama on us already. And I don't see him much, and hes in one of my classes. He says that hae cares about me, and I believe that he does. But how do I know how much he cares about me with out asking him annoying questions? (link)
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when the time is right tell him you love him and if he says i love u to then you'll know he cares. and it will help ur relationship.tell ur parents that when you love someone it shouldn't matter what they look like or what race they are. tell them u love him for him not his looks.
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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You never had a bf!!!!!!!!!!
omg im sooo sorry!!!! maybe guys feel intimitated by u or something. u cant be shy around ppl u have to be a party animal!!!! my bf and i met at a party and we have so much fun. but at least u never had to deal with the heartbreak when a guy dumps u or cheats on you. my first bf was wen i was 11 years old!
there is always some1 special for every1 and u'll find the rite guy for u it just might take some time.GL
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i had planned on asking one of my sort of guy frineds out at our schools homecoming game , and i had told all my friends that i was asking him a while after he got there and that i was gonna ask him alone, i didnt want my friends coming in to play and pressuring him. so when he got there i got there my friend called him over by her and then she told me to come over by her like she was setting us up for me to talk to him! like "ok here now u ask him", i was so pissed so i walked away. turns out without me even telling her to she asked him out for me so she came up to me and told me how he said i dont know, for one i was mad and her and two, it was gonna be awkward the whole night now because of her, and now i dont know what to say when he gives me and answer, if he says no i dont want our friendship to be ruined, and if he says yes i'll feel wierd because i dont know why he said idk, like he didnt like me that much or something, like if he liked me why would he have to think about? help me to fix this awkward situation! (link)
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ok this is hard but if your friend really is your friend even if he says no it shouldn't be awkward just pretend it doesnt bother you.If he says yes which he most likely will then maybe he was too shy to tell you before and thats why he said he didnt like you.Hope it helps GL!
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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You shouldnt have sex if your not ready for it and he gets sick of you saying no then dont wast your time on him anymore because he is gonna just keep trying and for all you know he could just be using you for sex. gl
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My mom and I are really close, and she told me that since I was 16 I could date now. Well I got asked out by this really awesome guy, who I've been friends with for 3 years. And I said yea. Well I told my mom and she freaked. And the reaosn why, is because hes middle eastern. He's not muslim(and even if he was I'd date him), he's not a terroist, his family are not terroists..he just happens to be from Iraq. My mom is saying stuff like "Sure do what you want, get blown up". How can I make her understand that not all people from Iraq are like that!! (link)
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Maybe you should let your mom get to know his family and him before she judges them.She could inivte them over for dinner but if she is afraid to do that then just tell your mom how nice he is and why you like him.If she still doesnt like him then you should tell your mom you need to start making your own desisions and learn from your own mistakes.
GL :)
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I'm a junior in hs and i like this one guy who is like one of my best friends our relationship means a lot to me..but whenever i see him sayin hi to a girl or whatever i get like jealous..i dont know..maybe hes just a flirt or something..
but..i like him..and i dont know how to tell him this because im just afraid too mostly because ive been friends with him for a year and ive always gone to his basketball games and everything showing him i cared..
pleaseee help..:O) (link)
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Of course you should do the obvious tell him how you feel.If your to nervous to do it in person send him a love letter!He might feel the same way about you but you'll never know unless you tell him how you feel.He might be your match, you might end up marrying him!Come on girl get what you want out of life don't hang back.Don't sit on the sidelines of life!Good Luck! :)
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I'll rate everyone who answers this question!
I met this guy through a friend. We all hung out one day and it was really fun. I got his screen-name and we talked online and I thought he was so cool. Then we got to hang out again at the mall and I found out that him and my friend are dating. I was happy for them but kinda bummed because I was starting to like him. Then my friend's parents said they could not go out because he wasint white. So their broken up, but still really good friends. My friend said I could try to go out with him since she knows I like him. I might try and go out with this guy. Thing is, I have no clue if he likes me. He says I'm pretty and he says I'm funny. I just dont know if he likes me more on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. Should I keep talking to him, and wait till he says something? Or should I just be like "I like you!" I'm confused on what I should do because I've never have wanted to go out with a guy. Sure I've had crushes, but go out with them..nope! Oh yeah, he still likes my friend. But I think he's open to another relationship. (Hopefully with me) Any advice would be helpful. And I'll rate everyone who answers:-D
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Your friend may still like this guy and it could really hurt her if you go out with him.Give her a little time to get over it then if you still like the guy go for it.In the meantime keep talking to him and try to become better friends.Then you will both get to know eachother and that always leads to a relationship!Good Luck! :)
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