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Okay. Here it goes. Me and my friend [Dree] and her friend [my crush Drew] were going to the movies. The movie was so boring that we decided to play truth or dare. So, Dree [my friend] dared me to kiss Drew [my crush]. I said umm...okay. Drew [my crush] was like NO NO NO! WE ARE JUST FRIENDS!!! I felt like crying. I don't know what to do. I want to go out with him but I feel like I choke every time he is around! WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO?!
well you could ask your friend to ask drew if he likes you or not, but i think your best bet is to just straight out talk to him. just tellll him how you feel :)
good luck♥
should i break up with my bf? he is always looking at other girls and commenting on how hot they are. what would you do if you were me??
there's no reason to break up with him, especially since you've been together for awhile. it's only natural for guys to look at girls, you can't get mad about that. but if i were you i wouldn't be happy about my boyfriend saying those things right in front of me. so just talk to him about it, and tell him that you would appreciate it if he kept those comments to himself, at least around you. i'm sure he doesn't want you talking about guys you think are hot around him, so i bet he'll understand :)
good luckkk hope it works out♥
Would you consider this flirting?
I was sitting at the computer today in school playing a game, and a guy i know said he wanted to try the game to help me out, so he put his hand on the mouse while my hand was already on it. And guided my hand around while leaning over me. After that he kind of touched my arm and started talking to me.
Was he flirting with me? He's kind of a player usually, but he was being really nice to me.
i would DEFINITELY consider this flirting :)
I'm 15 F
I started going out with a guy from school on Friday. I like him, a lot.
I'm really nervous around him.
I wanna hold his hand and kiss him
but I get so shaky, and I'm so afraid of messing up.
I don't wanna be moving too quickly
and lose him but yeah lol
Thanks in advance.
just make a move! :)
don't be nervous, i'm sure he wants to do the same. i promise you won't mess up, just go for it!
14/f well just yesterday my bf dumped me..this is how it went. We were online and lately he hasnt been talking to me and seemed really quiet.i asked him if he still loved me. hes like ive cheated on you since last saturday.i was like but do u love me and hes like of course not i cheated on you, you stupid little ass bitch and just left..but there is more to the story.a while back him and his friend raped me while we were going out..sucks i know..) :
heartbroken girl...
ps i have AIM if some one wants to help me get through the break up and help me out.cuz man im still messed up from being raped.thanks bunchies
oh sweeetie :( that's horrible! first off, you need to tell someone about being raped. him and his friend had no right to do that and you need to do something about it.
about being dumped, you're better off without him he sounds like such a jerk! i know there's more to the story but from everything you've mentioned the guy's a loser and if i were you i would want nothing to do with him.
if you want message me with your screen name and we can talk about it on AIM :)
ok so i like this guy and i kinda want him 2 notice me. but the thing is that i am NOT pretty. so what can i do 2 make him notice me? he's in a different grade so it'z kinda hard 2 talk 2 him and i don'T wanna talk 2 him yet , i just want him 2 notice me for now...
help??
CONFIDENCE! looks aren't everything hunny. sure, they might matter a little, but you need to talk to the guy! he'll never notice you if you don't say a word to him. talk to him and get to know eachotherr and just be confidentttt in yourself.
also, if you wanna make yourself look prettier put some good makeup on if you don't wear it already, it can work wonders♥
good luckkkkkk!
So theres this guy that I once went out with but he cheated on me with a girl not even a week later. We got into an argument and he said that he didn't regret it. This happened almost a year ago and he had had a girlfriend for 4 months and recently broke up. Now he claims that he was really sorry and only yelled at me because he didn't konw what else to do. I know it sounds stupid but he was talking to a friend of mine and she sent me the conversation and it seems as if he's being sincere and honest. He said that he regrets breaking up with me and cheating on me and its the biggest mistake of his life. At first I said serves him right, but now that we talk alot more, I'm starting to like him again.. I know its wrong and some people think I should give him another try but I'm kinda nervous and I kind of like him but I don't. It's hard to decide what to do and hoping someone could help me and maybe relate to my problem. Also, that girl he just broke up with after a rocky 4 months for them went out with him when I liked him. So do you think it's alright if I were to go back out with him? Would that be something really backstabbing to her? I'm also afraid that he heard that I would do stuff with him and maybe the only reason that he's talking to me alot more is because he just wants action. I'd rather be just a hookup then being used and pretended that he likes me. Sorry this was so long, haha, but I appreciate the help! Oh and I'm a 16/f :)
wow, i was in a similiar situation about a year ago. and trust me on this, do NOT give him another chance. once a cheater, always a cheater. this guy sounds like a complete idiot. i don't know if it would be really "backstabbing" his ex, but she'd probably be upset, it's not worth it.
there's plenty of other guys out there sweetie, just give it a little time and the right guy will come along :)
Ok well heres my sittuation.
I have a bf and hes in anyones eyes great. He treats me very very well, is very nice, and i can tell him anything. The thing is, I don't really like him that much. We've only been going out for a week. And i really didn't want to go out with him in the first place but i just couldn't turn him down b.c hes super nice and he really likes me.
I know that sounds weird but this kid is seriously really really nice and sweet - i have no idea why i dont like him like him.
Well yeah so theres him which i barly even like, and then we have an ex that i like very very much. Its been over a year, and not too long ago we tried starting up things but he just stopped talking to me pretty much. But i relaly really like him, like A LOT. I really just want him back. But we never really talk and hes kinda a douch half the time. SO yeah your prob. wondering why i don't like the nice guy, and do like the dick? welll i ask myself the same question.
Urgh it just stresses me out and i have no idea what to do :/
well the first guy sounds super sweet! but you've only been going out for a week, so i think you just need to give it a little time. if you want to, you could also tell him that you want a break and just be friends for awhile, and see where it goes from there.
about the other guy. well you havn't been together for over a year, so think to yourself what went wrong the last time. in my experience, exboyfriends usually don't work. but i guess everyone's different, and you seem to like this guy more. so, maybe you should just be single for a bit to figure things out.
whatever you choose to do, make sure it's what YOU really want. hope i helpedddd! :]
I like this guy and I dont think he knows I even exist, hes hard to get to because hes not in my class,hes always with his friends,and he hangs out with my worst enemys!! anyways he likes sports (hes always playing basketball, or dogeball, trowing a tennis ball ect) and Im weak ant cant even shoot a hoop! how do i get his attention?
im 13
and a girl
please answer.. TT.TT
aw sweetie, just talk to him! yeah he likes sports but so do a lot of guys. i'm sure he won't care if you're not good at sports, trust me i couldn't shoot a hoop to save my life. the reason he may not know you exist is because you havn't talked to him. you just have to be confident in yourself. get to know him, maybe give him your number, and i'm sure things will work out :]