My name is Baylee and I am going to become a reporter someday and have my own advice column. I give great advice and love helping people. Sorry I do not have a picture because apparently the file is too big to upload? Haha :)
E-mail: eelyab24@yahoo.com
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Location: Orlando, Florida
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Ok so i still am in love with my ex and he doesnt know it ,but he has a girlfriend and she lives soo far away , but he talks to her on the phone all the time
do you think he loves her? (link)
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If he is with her even though she lives far away then I am sure he really cares about her. Love? I personally do not know him so I would not know. I am sorry but he is with this girl so you may want to find someone else. Maybe if/when they break up you can tell him how you feel. Just do not try to tear him apart from his girlfriend. I know it is hard to get over and I am not saying to, you can not control your feelings but just do not stress over it. If it does not happen then you two are not meant to be :( If you need anything else let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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okay so i go out with this boii i really like him alot . but me and ma ex love eachother still . He said that we can go back out on the last day of sckool and continue through the summer again . Idk what to do because i love ma ex but really like my new boyfriend he is super sweet and funny . I dont know what to do . Please help ... (link)
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Hi!
Well you said you and your ex love each other and that is strong. If you really really loved each other you would not be broken up. Just think who you like more. Also if you really loved him you would not have posted this question, you would know the answer. I think that if it is going great with the new guy then choose him but do not use him until you and your ex get back together. Just think of the good and bad between both. Who do you think about more? Who do you smile most with? Just ask yourself these questions and good luck! If you need more help then hit me up on my inbox!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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ok so i have an issue im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend everyone says its bc i dont make it odvious i want one but how do i do that im also not that great at flirting bc im too busy trying not to make a fool out of myself i want to know how to flirt the right way to get a guys attention without looking slutty or desperate and i dont want to hear the basic laugh and smile bc thats not specific enough for me i need to know what to do and fast so that when i go into highschool i can make an awsome impression! (link)
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Easy! I use to flirt like crazy! Haha. Okay well of course you do a cute laugh and flirty smile but there is way more to it. Act confident but not conceited. Be touchy but not slutty. Don't talk about the usual topics, go deeper. Ask who he likes and joke around with him. This is kinda hard to explain, sometimes it depends on the guy. If you have any more questions let me know! Good luck.
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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well this is going to be long haha. so my nd my ex josh met about 6 months ago. and we connected right away. i liked him he liked me. we were so into eachother. i heard he had a rep, a player. i brought it up, he explained himself, that girls take his nice guy aditude as a player. so i got over that and belived him, there was my first mistake. as weeks went by we had a lot of feelings. and then the sex came into the picture. i told him he is not mine so i dont want to. of course he said babe what do you think weve been doing for the last month other then being together. and i liked him so much iwas just like if were together why the hell not. so we did. then we talked a lot all the time 5 hour long phone conversations about just random stuff. then i noticed his whorish atidude and i didnt like it. i get jealous so easily. but i didnt say a word because i know he would just walk, and so then i kept all my feelings bottled up. and then wonderign if were even together. and then i just couldnt take him flirting with other girls so i told him goodbye to notcall me to block me on everything we have contact online and, the thing that broke my heart even more is, he actually for once listened.. and just let me go.. i think taht hurt me more then the goodbye. because after i didnt have him to talk to everyday, my world came to an end, crying non stop thinkin about him non stop. but then i got over it then i saw him with another girl, brought me back to our days, amde me sad, soon to find out he told his bestfriend (wich is my friend too) we were never together, and that hurt SO bad that he denies that we werent together, then he told my bestfriend taht i was crazy nd a fake cryer and hes only known me for a month. that broke my heart even more. so then my bestfriend messaged him and basicully he said hed never talk about me and blah and that it makes him sad we wont talk and blah and he said hed hit me up, that one sentence "ill deff hit her up i like seeing how shes doing" gave my heart so much hope, but then he never contacted me.. and hasnt unblocked me on msn..idn what to do i think i am in love with this guy im so crazy over it and CANNOT get over him. like idn wat to do, i dont want anyone else so dont say go look for someone else because i dont want anyone. i just honestly need some advice and a friend to talk to about this, to help me get through..please? (link)
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Get an aim and talk to me about it. I Can help. What I want to say is that it is not true love unless the other loves you back. He is not worth you. You want love and he doesn't. Do not cry over some guy that doesn't even care. I am not saying to find someone else. It is healthy to cope with your feelings and cry. Eventually you will get over it and maybe when you least expect it, another guy will come along. If you need any more help let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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What are some ways I can get the girl I like to fall for me?
I'm 13(m)
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hey there :)
Okay, I am sorry but you can not MAKE someone fall for you no matter what you do. Just be friends with her and eventually ask her out and see how it goes. Message me for further help :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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im 14 years old. in grade 8, about to go into grade 9. i started going to a new school last year. and this guy was just starting too, we have been best friends for the whole year now. i really like him. i told him last year, but he didnt like me back. but now i feel he likes me, but i dont want to tell him again because im afraid he'll say the same thing as he did last time. what should i do? (link)
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Hi!
I am so glad to help you out and personally I think you should leave it alone. :( I know it's tough to say but if he did not like you last time he probably does not like you this time. If he did he should show some signs. Trust me on this one sweetie, it has happened to me with this guy named Gabe. Same EXACT situation and it never worked out. Now we are not even friends because we went to different schools. You'll find someone else do not worry. Also these other people are wrong, I believe you can possibly be in love with someone in middle school. I personally have a friend who is married to her middle school boyfriend. They are a very happy couple with 2 kids :)I really hope this has helped you. Good luck with everything!
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Hey it is me again, I forgot to tell you that normally girls get a gut feeling if a guy likes them. Also you can tell if he likes you if he has acted any different or sweeter since the last time he did not like you. Also I do not recommend flat out asking him if he likes you, it is a bit creepy and a hard situation to put him in. I would say do it the Elementary school way and get friends to find out but make it completely look like your friends were just asking out of the blue. You do not want him to know you put them up to it. Maybe your friends could say something like "hey, I bet you like .... don't you? You seem to act like you it, do you?" or "Do you like... because you act like you do?"
Somewhere around those lines. Okay that is it, if you need anything send me another message :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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