16/f bf 16/m
me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up last week. yeah we were in love. he said the reasons we broke up were because we fight too much and that hes at the point where he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me anymore because its stressing both of us out. but he said he still loved me and wanted me to always be in his life. he also said it was going to be hard for him to get over me. so we ended with that and talked the whole next week of spring break. things seemed to be going good as friends n stuff like he even said that i was the only person he trusted and that he didnt need anyone else. but then we got back to school n everthing crashed down. hes always been a flirt even when we were dating and before he was the biggest player in school. all the girls are in love with him and were so happy when they somehow found that we broke up. well me, my ex and this one girl he always used to hook up with are all in the same class. when we got back to school my ex didnt say anything to me. he had said that he wanted space when we broke up but we had still been texting n stuff so i didnt get why he was ignoring me. but i gave him space. it ticked me off that he was ignoring me but i wasnt going to let it get to me. HOWEVER, everytime i looked at him and this girl they were ALL OVER eachother. it looked like they were having sex with their clothes on practically. this made me SOOOOOOOO angry and i wanted to go punch her. plus me and this girl are friends. not best friends but still friends. then i heard him saying stuff to her like stay after school with me. and after school they both walked together with his arm around her to the staircase which is where he would always take me to make out and stuff because no one ever goes there. i was so angry and jealous and annoyed. i really couldnt believe it, it seemed like he didnt care about me one bit and yet i love him so much. i think if he had any respect for me at all he wouldnt do that or at least not in front of me. but maybe i am just iver reacting. i mean we are broken up i guess. but still, i could never even think about doing anyhting with another guy for a long time. its going to take me a while before i get over him because he meant the world to me. so i dont know how he could just go and be ready to hook up with everyone the next week. i just dont know why hes doing this or what to think. please help
Im not exactly positive as to what the advice you need is... but the thing you must do is obvious; MOVE ON. YOu dont want him back... do you?
He is LYING to you. And since you are not dating anymore... he doesnt see you as worth telling the truth to...
True, it hurts. But if you ignore him... things will get better for you. Just work on yourself. Conquer a bad habit, excercise, get involved... do GOOD things that make you feel good. If you FEEL good, you LOOK good. Just be the best person you can. And WHEN he comes crawling back to you asking for forgiveness.... DONT take him back. Improving of oneself is not only a confidence booster, but its a way to payback all those who did you wrong. You can look at him in 5 years with his beer belly holding hands with the girl he constantly cheats on, and him living is sorry,pitiful, and pathetic life and feel SO glad that you moved on, OR you can be the girl he always mistreats and cheats on that is holding his hand. The best thing about breakups is that a lot of people learn more from than the breakup than the actual relationship.
He doesnt deserve a girl like you anyways. Any slimeball that lies to a girl that has been good to him isnt worth it. TRUST me, better things are coming your way... TRUE and REAL things. So dont waste time on those things that are temporary and fake.
Hope i helped some.
xoxo
madisonn
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So I've known my friend Chris for almost 5 years now and we've become pretty much best friends. But I've been in love with him since I met him.. And I know he feels the same, but he won't do anything about it. Like we'll be driving in his car to get our friends, and he'll just reach over and grab my hand like it's no big deal but as soon as our friends get in the car, he lets go. Do you think he could be embarrassed of me or something? Because when we're alone, he's lovey dovey and huggy and acts like he wants to be with me but then around friends and at school most of the time he's totally different. Should I pursue something with him or let it go cuz it'll never happen? Please help me! :/
Well it appears that he IS attracted to you. However, he may be afraid to make the next step and jepordize the friendship OR he could be "testing the waters" to decide if he wants to pursue a relationship with you beyond friendship. If I were you I would just straight up ask him- Where is this going? Its the most upfront way to get your answer and a lot of guys find a girl that is straightfoward as intruguing or attractive. If he says he likes you just a friend, then its ok. Dont act upset or anything. Just say "ok." That will puzzle him more. The trick to winning over a guy is to be nonchalant and beat him to the chase. With you asking HIM, it shows you are curious but that you are able to handle a rejection. Most girls wont ask if they think it will be a negative answer. SO by asking, you are already setting yourself apart from the others.
Hope I helped some! =]
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All my friends have a crush on my boyfriend.Basically my best friend! She already promise that when me and him broke up she would date him.I AM SO PISSED OFF AT HER!!!! She a freak (like a wierdo)like shes puts eyeshadow on her lips.She is trying to break us up by saying lies to us about the other.She even told him I was datin him for a joke!He didnt believe her (I think).she calls him every day!!!What should i do!!!
Honey, this is obvious. She is NOT your friend. If she WAS your friend, she wouldnt be treating you like this. I have been in the situation where I had a crush on a friend's boyfriend; BUT i didnt want THAT to come in the middle of our friendship. I valued the friendship with HER than with some guy. She is willing to give up your friendship for a guy. Thats just the truth. Instead of feeling happy for you that you have a boyfriend that you really like, she is envious and determined to make you unhappy.
If I were you, I would make other friends. Im not saying to "ditch" her, but dont spend all your time with her. Go to the movies or invite other girls over. Its healthy to have other friends... and who knows? You might find a TRUE best friend that will be happy for instead of trying to take your joy (and boyfriend) away. It can be done, trust me.
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my first boyfriend of almost 6 months recently left for a job in another country for a year..he said he wants to stay together and be together when he comes back and we talk online and stuff a lot but i'm having a really hard time dealing with this.. hes only been gone a month.. and i can't eat without getting sick, i'm crying all the time and generally depressed a lot.. i don't know what to do.. if anyone has any advice please write me back.. thanks :)
Ok to be honest- your boyfriend is not being very fair to you. I dated this guy for 7 months, and then he enlisted in the army. We ended up breaking up because he didnt want me to feel like I couldnt live a life without him; because I could; AND i AM. Kyle (my ex), said that I needed someone there for me in person, to hug me, to come see me, to talk to on the phone, to comfort me, and do things that he wouldnt be able to do while he was in Iraq. True, your boyfriend is only gone for a year, but I dont see why he is having you on a tight string so early in a relationship. If you had been dating about 3 or 4 years, it would be a different situation...
But obviously since you are depressed and not eating well, this has taken a bad toll on you. I think that him keeping you restrained to him only and then for him to leave you, that is just going to cause pain in the future. That is a YEAR you will not spend with him. That is crucial; especially since its not even been ONE year since you started dating. You will have been apart longer than you were dating. Im not trying to dampen your spirits, but I was once in your shoes. I know now that if I had dwelled on the relationship with my ex, I would still be in a dark place in my life. Maybe you truly love him, and thats great. Hopefully he truly loves you in that case. But the thing is, when it comes down to it, you have to decided is he worth losing your sanity, happiness, and yourself over- because trust me it WILL happen. I have been there before.
HopE I helped some.
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Madison
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I just want to know all the ways you can tell if someone likes.They have to be TRUE facts not fake ones.If you dont know any can you give me a website that I could find the answer to my question.Thank you!!!
1. They hint that they want your number; OR BONUS: They give you theirs or ask for yours.
2. They smile at you whenever they look their way.
3. They are quiet around you and loud around everyone else; you make them nervous.
4. The stare at you, but when you look at them they look away.
5. They tell your friend they think you are cute.
6. They ask your friend if you have a bf/gf.
7. They want to spend a lot of time together.
8. They get upset when you mention other guys/girls... even if you arent dating them.
9. They call... a LOT.
10. They are always trying to make you laugh by their actions or something they say.
11. They find a way to touch you SOMEhow...
12. They get up really close in your face when they talk to you.
13. When you speak, they look at you.
14. They sometimes "accidently" bump you.
15. The tease you. Depending on age, guys tend to tease girls that they like but are afraid to tell anyone... its just what they do. I dont quite understand why though... lol
16. They pick little arguements with you just because they can.
17. They give you a nickname; and actually call you the nickname in public.
18. They TELL you they like you.
Sorry this list isnt too long. IF i can think of some more, i will post them as another answer. Hope i helped you!!! =]
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Female 16
Ok there is this boy that I like he is in a grade lower than me and he is ayear younger. Now he likes this other girl that I have known like forever and I told him that they should go out. He wants me to talk to her and see if she will go out with him but I don't really talk to her. I like him alot. What do I do?
Ok
lets see.
this is really tough... and i have been in the same situation before, but the guy was older than me.
what i would do is i would talk to the girl and just see if she likes him. if she does like him i would tell him that if he liked her, he would ask her out. its not nice of him to tell YOU to find out if she will go out with him- its rude.
but if she DOESNT like him, then nicely tell him. He won't like it if you're mean about it and that will ruin any chances of you two goin out in the future.
and the age difference?
its more a deal now than in 4 years.
so age shouldnt matter.
if you REALLY like him , i would just tell him.
then when you look back on your hs or ms life when your older, you can say that you did the best you could. i hope i helped you out a LITTLE bit!!
madison
age 16
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so i have been going out with my girlfrined for about 3 months now, and i wanted to know if anyone knew what kind of questions i can ask her to get to know her better and vise versa...like whats your favorite color to personal ones like whats your dirtyest dream
lets see.
the key in a good relationship is honesty... so be aware that whatever questions YOU ask HER, she will want you to answer.
so you can talk to them about their favorite colors, music they like, where they want to go to college, their dream vacation, how many kids they want to have, the farthest they've gone, and some girls acutally like to talk about sports. i do but a lot more dont.
but it really just depends on what she is like.
is she more preppy...
then you can ask her things like about her clothes or shoppin
more athletic?
favorite sports and sports teams.
i hope i helped you a little bit. anymroe questions and just let me know!!
madison
age 16
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ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
sorry its so long
Honestly he probably was coming to your house for the wrong reason...he probably got nervous and decided to come another day. Dont be mad at him...give him time. Guys have a defferent thingking process. Hope I helped! rate me please
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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship
I dont think there is...Love is blind afterall. The color of your skin shouldnt keep you from being with the one you love. Hope I helped...
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By the time people are around 20, do you recon they expect sex as part of a relationship?
Guys expect to have sex in the relationshhip from the first girl they see. No...the good guys...the ones who will make good husbands...dont expect sex to be a major factor in a relationship. Give it time. Dont waste yourself on someone you wouldnt marry. Save yourself for the one you love. ~*~mAdDiE~*~
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There's this girl in my p.e. class, and I think she might like me. She hugs me every day, and she seemed really excited today when she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. We always joke around, and she's kissed my neck before, just playing around though. The question is, do you think she likes me, should I ask her out, and a random question I'm throwing in: I just got braces, how would making out with someone work?
It appears that she does like you...take a chance and ask her out...you never know. Make sure you dont french kiss too long with a person who has braces...You could become stuck with your tounge down her throat! IT HAS HAPPENED BEFORE!! HOPE I HELPED!! RATE ME
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age 15
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i really like this guy, but he said i need to talk to him more... what are some ideas to talk to him about.. like on the ohone.. i honeslty think we've coverd every topic!! but any ideas would be great!! thanks in advance!!
Here are some things:
*Sports (always good)
*Recent movies (you might get a date with this one)
*People at school
*Future Talk (wannabe job, salary...)
*His family
*Four-wheeling
*CARS!!! (you'll have to do some researching)
*THe weather (it never fails)
*Plans to do over the summer
*What his phone number spells
*What you phone number spells
*Pets
*Favorite type of morotcycle
and if he's a realli good guy:
*the latest star gossip
*Cute purses
*Things you have in common
*Things you dont have in common
Well...Hope I helped you with some ideas... RATE ME PLEASE!! ~*~mAdDiE~*~
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okay; here we go. i have been dating this guy *Q for about nine months now. We tend to disagree constantly. He hates when i am by my friends or talks to another guy. My friends view him as controlling, and over-protective; which i am starting to see. It is just so hard for me to end it. I was thinking of writing a note to him, because i'd get too emotion on the phone or in person. &&__ how he is he'd try to change my mind into staying together. but i really don't want that, i have just been scared to admit it. {{sorry if this sounds wordy, its really hard to explain}} I just would appreciate it if you guys had any ideas to make the breakup note not soo mean, but to the point where he gets the idea. any ideas would be great :-D
Just say that you that the longer you two are going the farther away you feel from him...tell him that you still like him but not in that way anymore. He WILL be mad, maybe even angry, but in the future he wont be controlling to YOU. Hope I helped.RATE ME!!
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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help!
I admire you because you care so much about your friend. However, you can't MAKE her do anything...she's got to do it on her own. Let Kelly know how you feel. If she realizes how much you care about what she does then she might change her ways. Kelly is lucky to have a good person like you as a friend...too bad all guys arent like you.
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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?
thnx in advance
Okay...I know this is a lot but it is REALLI TRU!! I hope I helped some and it sounds like ot me this guy DOES like you..but just in case...ask yourself these questions (PS. RATE ME!):
FLIRTING SIGNS
~*~Girls~*~
1. His snow ball hits you, (but not in the face).
2. He threw away his laser pointer after you told him
you think they promote random acts of violence.
3. After asking you to sign his year book, he wrote,
"How come we never hang out?" in yours.
4. He yelled, "Hi!, to your mom that day she
picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Run Away Bride"
with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to
go and didn't want to go alone.
6. Forgot your gloves? You can wear his.
7. His voice gets softer (Hey, you) when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You where invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes.
Which makes you laugh even harder.
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
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Hello, Im havin some guy problems see i started datin this guy named jason* and we lasted for about 3 months but we never talked to much around each other, and i moved so we broke up but then i came back and i still had a lot of feeling for him and we talk a lot now.i wanna get back together with him and he knows i still like him but doesn't do anything. i don't think he wants to date again because he knows before it was kinda werid when we were together but now we now one another better and aren't bashful around eachother. but i dunno what to do cause i really LOVE him but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about it i mean he flirts and stuff but thats it. like he wants to to come over and do stuff but he doesn't seem to wanna date and hes not the type of guy to do that...so i dont know how i can get him back or if i should move on?
Sign confused girl from tennesse*
He's respecting you. Most guys would be all over you...which would make even a hooker uncomfortable. Give this guy a break. He's going slow to let you know that he respects you. He will speed up his pace when he's comfortable. Give him time. Hope I helped!! RATE ME!! ~*~mAdDiE~*~
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ok, i love my girl friend, and i have loved her since the day i first saw her, and because i have loved her for so long (i first saw her 12 years ago) when i finnally got to be with her (just 3 months ago) i guess i went really into things cause i felt (causa my love for her) that we've been going out for 12 years, but i didnt get to do anything...so i guess i rushed into things when we were first going out... All we have done was i hold her during movies, and i put my head on her shoulder, and then every once in a while i kiss her on her cheek or neck. And now, she said that she wants to take it slower, but i dont really know how to go TOO much slower, i mean, i first kissed her on the cheek when we were going out for 2 1/2 months. So does anyone have any advice on what i can do so i can show my affection, but not doing "too much"??
Brilliant QUestion!! You can hold hands, wrap your legs around the other's leg, tell her you love her, and go see a chick flick with her (I know it is torture...but hey...no guy hasn't seen a chik flick in his life), go shopping with her, text message her just to say that you love her. There are many ways actually, it just depends on what you are willing to do...Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to b/c then she may feel too uncomfortable. You sound like a really good boyfriend because you respect her. All guys should be like that. Well...hope I helped some!
~*~mAdDiE~*~
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I'm dating this guy that I totally like, but he never really talks to me. He says that he loves me, but I'm not so sure. Also, I talk to this one guy alot, and he likes me. Should I go with the guy who likes me, or stay with my man? I feel like staying with him will just be because I'm doing what I'm expected to do, not what I want.
14-f
I think that you should move on the the guy that says he likes you. Give this other guy a chance. Obviously you man and you aren't gonna work out in the long run if you have problems communicating when
you're only 14. Also, look at the age. Older guys seem to be more mature while younger guys are less mature and are shyer. Just give the other guy the chance. If it doesn't work out, then it is ok. You can be friends with benefits (or just friends! :)
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Hey!!! Okay Theres This Guy At My School And I Really Like Him A Lot I Mean Me And Him Flirt All The Time We've Held Hand And All That Good Stuff (Still Not Dating) But He Flirts With A Lot Of Girls At School...Like The Hoeish Ones And I Don't Know It Bothers Me...But He Flirts With This One Girl Every Single Day And Its Just Getting Old!!!
...14-f
Who is this girl? What is she like? Why does she bother you so much? Maybe they aren't flirting...maybe they are simply friends. You never know. Is this girl one of your friends? If she is...tell her the way she is acting bothers you...and she'll more than likely will. I would. Boys come and go but your true friends stay with you forever. If she isnt one of your friends...then just ignore it. Boys will be boys whether you like it or not!! Boys flirt with EVERY girl till they are about 18. Hope I helped.
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ok, everybody has a different deffintion of love, and i want to know what you think about it. it can be serious, or just goofy. i dont care, but i wanna know that you all think of it. and do you believe in love at first site?? thnx
How can there be love at first sight when love isn't supposed to be based on looks? Just wondering.
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