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i am 15 years old and i have a boyfriend and i dont take other peoples boyfriends away (like lostgrl616 thinks i do) man what a great friend she is?but i have a newphew and he is 2 years old and i have one brother and he is getting married in augest which his soon to be wife also has a child and he is also 2years old i like to play softball and hang out with friends and ride my four wheeler look at cars go to the movces shop and i have 9 piercings all im my ears and i want my nose pierced and also my belly button but i hope you can understand a little bit more about me and people call me desirae or desi or des

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I have been off and on with this girl named Lindsey for about a year we really loved eachtoiher but me being a guiy screwed everything up.I broke up with her because she likes another guy i still love her but her and this guy may go out i dont know what to really do i love her and she doesnt know if she loves me or not help me

well if she doesnt love you that is her fault ok and you did they right thing breaking up with her she isnt being fair to you if she says she loves you and likes another guy but i think that you can find a better person then her if you ever need to talk about it im me at behindblueyes409 muh email is behindblueyes409@aol.com i hope i helped and things worked out
desirae -drjwlc4
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My like bff asked me out and I cant picture him as my bf but i dont want to say no but i dont want to say yes so wat do i say?????

hey well u need to just say you like beging friends better then bf and gf because u dont want to hurt him so just say that!!it will work he will understand!!hope i helped rate me
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Ok, i found out my boyfriend may have been doing drugs. he told my friend he did but im hopeing he didnt he told me he didnt dot hings like that.im trying to figure out how to talk to him about this but im not sure how to.
(Erin if you can help me talk to him or holly please do)

well he can be telling you that he doesnt do drugs but then he will tell his friends that he does cause he if tells you he does he thinks that you will beak up with him and he doesnt want you to break up with him so just keep asking him i am sure he wont lie and he could of told your friends he did because he wanted to look cool
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Alright, theres this guy and we were talking and i was like what are you doing this weekend? and he was like nothing.. then he was like you? i was like nothing.. then i was like do you wanna do something this weekend? he was like yeah sure! so we are going to the movies and we are inviting friends and all but.. he seems like his is into me and stuff but on his profile it says "looking for a valentine" i mean hes always like i cant wait to go to the movies so i can hold your hand or i cant wait to go to the movies so i can kiss you and stuff.. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!??!

it means that he wants you to be your valentine but he may ask you when u go to the movies or on valentimes day if you will go out with him hope i helped rate me
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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
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well if that guy hurt you then you need to go for they other guy i am sure that he will treat you right hope i helped
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i want to go further with my boyfriend. we've hugged, kissed, french kissed(not the whole making out), held hands, but i want to do more. privacy is not a problem. but my boyfriend is like yea ill do w/e you want whenever you want. but how do i hint to him that i want to go a little further?

make the first move its not as bad as it seems and then get on top of him when you start making out and then just be like lets take it to thwe next level and whisper it softly to him or tell him something sweet like i love you or sumthing well i hope that i helped and good luck with it
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Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate

well i think that you should tell her bur she is going to need proof and thats not a good boyfriend who is gunna cheat on his girlfriend but you are a good friend cause you dont want her to get hurt any more but i think that you should stay away from him because he could also cheat on you
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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

just be your self i am sure that if you caught him looking at you that he wants you to talk to him to but he is also scared so i think that you need to give it a shot and you may get nervous but if you like the guy then it is worth it be like hey can you help me with this or you can act like you locker is jammed and ask for his help be like yeah can you help me and he will be like yeah sure and then start talking to him why he un jams it or something hope i helped rate me
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okay, so my friend and I need some ideas for valentines day for our boyfriends. we heard they were cooking something really good up, so we need A REALLY GOOD thing sto top thiers. anybody got any ideas?? gracias..i`ll rate you a five no matter what because you tried.

well at first maybe you can be like yeah o this is nice like all sad and then you can act like omg i love it just so they feel bad then you no that you to are joking and then you can possibly take them out to a movie or sumthing since they have made you guys dinner or you can just do sumthing romantic maybe you can go to build a bear and build them a teddey bear saying that you love them well i hope that i helped guys are to hard to buy for they are stubborn
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does n e one know of any good smelling colognes for a guy i like. i need a good one like really nice but thats not really expensive?? not like axe tho thats too cheap.please help me soon

maybe you can get him mambo or luck you for guys and or avitaor or adidas i like all those or even better bod realy ribbbed abs hope i helped rate me
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wut turns a guy on? like any tips i can use while makin out witha guy? like where are their sweet spots?!? or any suggestions on sumthin i can say that would really turn them on and wanna make out??

well some guys like when you are rubbing there stomack and lifting up there shirt and stuff lke that maybe kissing the neck i heard that most guys like the way hickies feels and things like that hope i helped rate me
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This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received?

the most romantic present that i have got was candles and a card and a lil stuffed animal and a cd so maybe you can go to build a bear and build your girlfriend a teddy bear to tell her that you love her
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this girl in my class started this rumer in school saying that i like her even though she knows its not true. know some of my friend snicker when i ask her a question.how can i stop this ?

maybe if there is a girl you like then maybe you can try to hook up with her that is all i can really thinnk of for you to do because sooner or later the rumors will end it happens in school every day so dont really think aboutit that much hope i helped rate me
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ok i have a gf lets call her dani well i asked dani out like a week ago and me and her are ok been talking on the phone online but we haven't gone anywhere and all my friends are like take her to DQ and take her tqo the moviesso i said no. But now im thinking of it shold i take her out and where? and her parents donr know and she doesnt have an older sister or bother to take her anywhere.What should i do tell her to go with a friend and i pay for both or pay for dani and stuff? What should i do!!!???{were both 13 and we love each other}

well maybe you can bring a friend for he friend so then your friend can pay for her friend or if you want to be a really nice guy pay for her friend to but yeah take her to the movies a scary one so that when she gets scared she will jump on you most guys like that well i hope i helped
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My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I really like him still but today he asked out my ex best friend. She said no but told my friend she only said that because of me. She told her that she is thinking about saying yes to him. The thing is, she has always hated him. We broke friends because I spent too much time with him and now she's saying she's thinking about going out with him. We're still kind of friends but not as good as we used to be, she knows how I feel about him. I don't think she even likes him that much, why is she doing this?

she could be doing this because she is jelous and maybe she still wants to be your friend and that she didnt want to hurt you and that she wants to be friends or she thinks that you are going to say something to him so i dont know just i hope that things will work out for you and your friend.rate me
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I used to like this boy and I found out he was a total idiot. I used 2 like b in love with him and I don't even know why. The sad part is I lost him to an "Artificial Plastic Barbie". This girl so plastic its scary. She dyed her hair blonde and its like bleach blonde. She wears globs of eye makeup like you can't imagine to cover up wrinkles she has and thats why I consider her "artificial". I don't kno why he likes her, but now they both talk about me behind my back and say how weird I am and stuff, and I didn't even do anything to them! Now this feeling of love that I used to have has turned into hate. I have never hated anyone really, and I have never hated anyone this strongly. I hate her and him for just liking each other. It bothers me. I can't concentrate in class, I can't sleep, I can't have a normal conversation with my friends anymore without mentioning how much I hate them. I don't want to be this way, but I just am. I really need some help!

~ Doesn't wanna b a hater ~

its fine that you hate him you will get over it he is probley only with her cause she is fake and he wants a piece of ace(@$$)and well i dont think that you should even worry about them just be yourself with your friends i just still think that you have feelings for him which is why you hate him is because you still are in love with him hope i helped
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my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him?

well i think that you should thank him tell him that you like him and then make a move i can tell that he does like you or wants to get to know you more so let him know you i think that things will work out betwwen you to and well make a move and its good that a guy will stick up for you and yeah it does probley mean that he will love you
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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4

well i think that maybe you should move on because he has broke your heart before and think that you can find some one better then him ne way you dont want someone to break your heart do so i think you should move on you will find the right guy
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Okay i have this friend who has a sorta g/f in another state...they only see eahother 6 weeks out of the year (camp)and they rarely ever talk on the phone, only a little bit on the internet. He's been really upset about not seeing her and shiz b/c of the past holiday season and upcoming holiday. I'm want to convince him having a long distance relationship is too hard but i don't want to just tell him flat out its wrong.I know that its not my business to tell him who to date but i just don't want him to be sad anymore. He's always sad and i don't like him being sad...so how do i do that? Someone please help me! Thanx! I appreciate it!

maybe you should just come out and tell him like they will still be friends and he will thatnk you i mean you are only looking out for your friend and he should resect that and i am sure that later on he will hope i helped
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Ok i have been with this guy for like 8 months and i really love him hes only had like 2 other real g/fs and his longest relationship was 5 months..the only thing he did was finger one of them and she asked for it hes never got anything and we have done alot more stuff but i am so jealous of them and i dont know why and both of them are ugly so am i jealous and how do i get over them?

hahahhahahah i know this one grl and she has the same exact sorry as you that is preety crazy and then she aslo likes to cook i mean what kind of world is this shelby YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT HIS EX GIRLFRIENDS IF HE DIDNT LOVE YOU WHY WOULD HE BE WITH YOU FOR THIS LONG ?????YEAH GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEAD YOU ROOSTER AHAHAHAAHAHAHA!!!!!!
BUT YEAH THINK BOUT IT SHELBERZ HE DOESNT LOVE THEM AND WHAT YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN THROUGH IS EVERY THING SO JUST STOP THINKING ABOUT IT I MEAN I DO THE SAME WITH ROBERT ONLY CAUSE THAT WHOLE PICTURE THING REMEBER THAT GRL JESSICA WELL YEAH I AM JELOUSE OF HER CAUSE THEY WENT OUT FOR 7 MONTHS AND SOMETIMES I THINK THAT HE STILL LOVES HER AND NOT ME BUT HE SAYS HE DOESNT SO GO WITH WHAT YOUR BOYFRIEND DOES HOPE I HELPED RATE ME
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