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*PLEASE* dO nOt WrItE lIkE tHiS wHeN yOu ArE aSkInG fOr AdViCe. I wIlL nOt AnSwEr!! PlEaSe GrOw Up!!!
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alright heres the deal.. i like my best friend.. and he still likes me even though he has a girlfriend.. he cheated on her 3 time and he always says "i love you and if we were going out i woudln't cheat on you" and stuff and i don't know if i shoudl still like him or if i shoudl move on.. he's also always rubbing it in that he's going out with this chick to make me jealous.. and i don't get jealous..
additionally, when i like someone other than him.. he gets completly jealous and starts flipping on me and telling me that i'm an idiot because the guy is gay.. when first off he doesn't even know him.. i told him plently of times that if he woudln't be with his girlfriend i woudl be with him.. but he continues to go out with her.. and i feel really bad
should i get over him or whatnot? i will rate a 5 for any thought (link)
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i would get over him and move on to the other guy. first though, i would tell your friend he is cheating on her.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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I've been single for almost two years because all the guys like the "Popular girls" I really want a bf and cant seem to get one..can anyone help me ?
Ill rate 5's all the way♥
thanks=] (link)
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i dont know if i will help because i am the popular girl and i date the popular boys. but if you really like a guy, drop hints and he may give in.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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I'm just wondering, but what do guys find attractive in a girl? If you're a guy please just tell me the truth. It can be looks, personality, whatever, but please be specific. If you're a girl, tell me what you think or what guys have mentioned to you!
Thank you! (link)
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im a girl but:
looks:butt, boobs, face
personality:fun,likeable,sweet
hope i helped!
kathryn
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Male/16
Ok i had invited 6 of my guy friends over and we were just hanging out in my room. We got sort of bored so we decided to play truth or dare (haha i know). The dares were pretty embarrassing. Everyone had done their dare, so when it was my turn i was in no position to turn mine down. They dared me to make out with my friend Derek until the song they picked out ended. Of course the song they picked was like 4 minutes long. It was odd kissing someone of the same sex, but i kind of liked it. After about a minute we got sort of into it and he started to take of my shirt and kissing my neck. The other guys were laughing so hard. So it was finally over and around 12:00 the guys headed back home. But Derek stayed a little longer. I really wanted to kiss him again so i went for it and, it went a lot farther than i expected...
So the next day he snuck out at like 5 in the morning before my parents were awake and i went back to sleep. I woke up around 8 to head to school and as i was eating breakfast my mom pointed out the hickey i had on my neck. She was like who gave you that, because you didn't have it yesterday and i was like i have to go. So i drove to school totally embarrassed. Just my luck at lunch my gf noticed the hickey and got really pissed and asked me who did it and i didn't know what to say. So now my gf won't talk to me and my mom wants to know what happened. I am also very confused how i feel. I wasn't really attarcted to my gf, but i really did enjoy being with Derek, so does that make me gay? And Derek called and asked if i wanted to go out with him but i don't know if i should. Should i tell my mom and my gf the truth?
Thank you, sorry it was long (link)
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i think that if you were comfortable with Derek, you may be gay. i think you should tell your mom and your girlfriend what really happened. always follow your heart. remember that.
hope it works out for the best!
kathryn
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There's this guy in my class that one of my friends thought I would make a cute couple with, and some of my friends think he likes me. They're always bringing him up and stuff, and they always ask if I like him, but I won't tell them I do because they would torture me even more about it. Not that it really matters because 2 of my friends are already convinced I like him (which I do) but also I like this guy from camp who lives 45 minutes away who I haven't seen or talked to since summer, and he told me he liked me and I told him that I liked him on the last day of camp, so I feel bad liking someone else. Me and the guy in my class talk alot even though we aren't exactly friends, and sometimes I see him looking at me (which for all I know could just be a coincidence) but my friends swear that he likes me. I'm not sure what to do...
Any help would be appreciated, and I'm sorry if this was long/confusing
btw, I'm 14/f (link)
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dont feel guilty that you like another guy. you probably will never see him again anyway. try and make the first move on him. it works 99% of the time. only do this if you are POSITIVE he likes you because if he doesnt, you will make a fool out of yourself. it might have not been a lot of help but that is all i can think of right now. sry! hope i helped though!
kathryn
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I'M SORRY IT'S LONG BUT I'LL RATE AND COMMENT! ok...so i rele reeeeeeeele like this guy...his name is danny. I've liked him eversince he came over to my house cuz we live near eachother. thats when we first noticed eachother (we go to the same school) Ever since then i've had a huge crush on him, and he's only nice to me(so my friend says)girl wise in my class. Idk if thats a sign or not!!!!!!!! and every day i see him he looks at me...no smiling.....no talking....just looks at me....WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!!!!!!!!????????/ does that mean he likes me, or is just looking around alot( every day at my car and in the halls) He doesn't IM me on aim and doesnt tell me anything feeling wise. what does this mean!? he basicly hides behind people to not pass me in the halls or in class too. my friends say he's cocky and to forget him. buti cant!!! hes ALWAYS there....it makes me miserable :( so please please PLEASE tell me what i should do!! thanks~cab (link)
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he So likes you! i was on a website and it said that 89% of guys want girls to make the first move. maybe this is the case with him try doing something to show him that you REALLY like him as you say you do.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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15/f
I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half, and everytime he's at my house he's messing with my younger sister. He's almsot a year oldger than me and she's over a year younger than me. She likes to aggrivate people espicially when I have someone over. And lately he's been acting the same towards her. He'll get up and chase her around the house until she runs outside then he'll sit back down until she comes in the room again and then he'll get a pillow and smack her with it. It's really starting to get on my nerves, what should I do to make this stop? (link)
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i would talk to him and tell him that it is getting on your nerves.
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I've been going out with this guy for ages. He seems perfect. He has a great body etc etc. Thing is i have loads in common with this other guy, and i really like him. I go all girly everytime i see him. I really really like him! Im 15 and my bf is 17. The guy I like is in the year below me. Hes not the best looking either. But when my boyfriend and i have sex all i think about is this other guy. What shall i do? (link)
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just to say this first, having sex at 15 is VERY dangerous. i hope you use a condem. anyways, if you are feeling that you really like this guy, drop some hints that you like him and maybe he will drop some back. if nothing happens just try and really spend more time with your boyfriend. if that doesnt work, talk to the other guy. everything happens for a reason. remember that.
hope i helped and that everything goes ok!
kathryn
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hey guys i need some advice....me and scott have been dating and everytime i try to call him the phone is ALWAYS busy! i know he has a lot of friends that are girls but he talks to like 7 girls on the phone every night he tells me its not even like that..but i'm having doubts then one day he called me and told me his ex girlfriend called him and she bought him a presant and i got mad and he goes " see i knew you would get all bent out of shape about it." ok if some whore is buying my boyfriend presants am i supposed to be happy? i dont know if hes cheating on me and i think he is because the phones always busy and when i try to talk to him about it he gets all mad..what do you guys think please help me out! (link)
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if you dont have that kind of trust in your boyfriend then i dont think that your elationship will last. i do think it is wrong that his ex girlfriend bought him a present though. if you guys have IM, talk about it, straighten things out.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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Me and my boyfriend were just talking and stuff (we've been together for a lil over a month) we went out before in the summer and that lasted almost 4 months but anyways he told me im the only girl he ever loved n stuff and how much i mean to him and he told my best friend one of his wishes and its nothing gross or anything but idk is this a weird wish for a guy to want?
he wants to marry me when we are older... like 6-7 years from now.
Is that weird? (link)
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in my opinion, i think it is wierd. but if you really love this guy, i guess, maybe, it could work. but you have to remember, in 6 or 7 years, you could have met a more wonderful guy! i would wait until you know who you want to marry.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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My bf came over to my place one day while I went to check my mail. I came back with all my mail, a couple of bills, and one letter that had no return address on it. My bf got very suspicous and asked me who could of wrote it. I said I didnt know, and that it was none of him business. He accused me of cheating on him. I got really mad and told him to leave. He said he wouldnt leave until I opened the letter. I told him no, so he grabbed the letter and opened it. It turned out to be my cousin. I told him we were through.
Is what he did illegal? I heard someone say once that it's illegal to open someone elses mail. Does anyone here know? (link)
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yes it is illegal because he took it right from you without your permission.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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