My name is Nour,I'm 16. I was born and raised in " The Big Apple" I moved to Kuwait recently. I started this column because i've been through a lot of shit lately... i have tried to commit suicide, trusted people who have ruined my life, and i am a disgrace to my family :) I chose my name to be nobody..cause i feel like a nobody, and it sucks a lot :)
so I am willing to answer any questions you have, cause people always say i have the best advice...DON'T WORRY I DON'T JUDGE! people have Judged me too much, but i don't give a shit :) so write and i will answer :)
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
Website: When Sparks FLY
E-mail: nourbizri98@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: America But live in Kuwait
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: November 10, 2013
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I just told them about him today, and I've been dating him for several months. He's quite a bit older than me, but that's not the problem. He also lives very far away (he's come to visit me multiple times). My parents say it's the combination of the two, and they don't like what he does for a living - he doesn't make enough.
I'm 18 years old and just started college. I wanted to visit him over winter break, but my parents said that if I go, they're not paying for my tuition next quarter.
I'm not breaking up with him. What should I do? Do I have other options? Thanks (link)
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What I think you should do is intr
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How do you know if he really isnt in love with you anymore (link)
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If he dosent text you or call you first...if he dosent hang out with you. If he makes excuses to go and do other things. But really I think you should find out why he dosent have feeling towards you so you can understand how to fix it and learn from the future.
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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Is it wrong for a 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old to like eachother more than just friends? (link)
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OFCOURSE it's not wrong but you just have to be aware he might have different intentions...espeacailly sexual intentions. Because your only 16 and you might not want to go there yet, you guys will be disagreeing on stuff and will probably be the result of ending the relationship. Or cause abuse against you but I think you should ask him what are his intentions because communication is really only he answer in this situation.
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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I am a 20 year old girl. I have seen this guy 4 times. Two of them we were hanging out, once in a group, the other we went for coffee. We've only known one another for a short time, but I am quite sure I want to be his friend. But the trouble is, I seem to have quite a crush on him. I'm not sure what to do. He is popular and I am not. I don't want to be obvious about liking him. But I'm afraid to make a fool of myself around him. (link)
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Just be yourself...but you should have put in your question how he acts around you and if he shows any signs of liking you or not :l and if he dose want to be your friend then it doesn't matter if hes popular ,cause if he cares about you then hell hang out with you. But as i said be yourself and start flirting and your not going to make yourself look like a fool because knowing guys they'll think its korky and really cute ;)
Sincerely;
Nobody :)
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So i just transferred high schools and i am a girl who is a Sophomore this year and i went to my very first football game!I don't really get in much relationships because i usally worry more about my school. I was at my very first football game and my friend knew some older people that go to our school. one of her friends (which is a guy) knew the guy that i currently like. Me and him did playful eye contact in the halls then we started to talk over facebook for 4 weeks straight every day after school.He finally asked me for my number and we would text all the time and he would say goodmorning and goodnight he would always tell me how i was a good person and i was so beautiful all the time.We started to grow closer and closer i hung out with him and we kissed but after he sent a text "i want you" i took it the worng way of course and i didnt quiet like what he said because i do not want to have a sexual realtionship wtih him.The nest day at school he didnt talk to me much and ditched me to hang out with other girls which i mean its not that big of a deal but i felt like i was trying to be proved somthing. The he started to hug the girls and i started to hug and talk to more of my guy friends as did he. Then the text started to go away and we wouldent talk anymore he even wrote me a song. then we got in a disagreement about how i wasent sure if he liked me and i was so confussed because he sent me mixed signals. He told me that he liked me and that we should hang out more and that he missed me but then two days later he got a girlfriend but he still gives me the eye contact and when i look up he looks away and he just dosent look as happy as he usally does. He cant look me in the eye and he changed the wways he goes in the halls so he dosent have to see me. i dont understand what i did wrong and i don't know if he likes me still he acts like he likes me and i think he just expected me to be sad over it but i just dont know... (link)
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this happens to every girl in the world i promise you that..and the only thing you can do is confront them. The reason why he isnt talking to you though is probably because you took the "I want you" the wrong way. usually when guys say that they mean they want you as in as a "girlfriend". but dont worry because many girls take that the wrong way. And the fact is, if he STILL makes eye contact with you and wrote a SONG ABOUT YOU, he probably has you in the back of his mind and is dating the girl so you can get jealous. whats a better way to make a girl go crazy about you :P So my advice would be to really go up to him and talk to him about it because you guys wont be able to break the wall between you too( wall=problem) so you guys can understand how you guys feel. Hope everything truly works out
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Me and a really wonderful guy were talking. Just as friends because we relatively just met before that but I developed a little crush on him. It wasn't anything serious at the time but later as we continued to talk, we became closer. He was going through a bad break up at the time when we started getting closer. And I took advantage of the fact that I could really get close to him by helping him out and genuinely supporting him. I never told him I liked him because at the time I wasn't 100% convinced I did like him a lot. He used to message me daily and talk to me all the time. You see, I'm a type of person who likes to get to know someone first before declaring my feelings. And I'm not the most confident person in the world to boldly admit I like someone. I was hoping as we got closer and time progressed and he healed from his pain, that things would be good between us to the point that he too realized he had feelings for me. Next thing I know, he was talking to another girl. I think they were just talking but then they got closer. She out right told him that she liked him, and went a little crazy about it posting it that she was in love, etc. she's got a really annoying bubbly personality. (I'm not saying this because of how I feel. Other people have said the same.) anyway, I was so disappointed when I found out he liked her. Like what the hell did I even mean to you? I help u through all your problems and this is how it ends. The girl is a nice girl and I think she has a good heart. He says she understands him. I'm pretty sure he told me he was glad I understand him. He says he doesn't want a relationship now and that they're just talking and he's not in love with her but it still hurts. She seems like a confident person. Whereas I like to give hints and hope you take it. He told me he's really good at reading people, well clearly not so much. What sucks more is that I see him and the girl a lot and it just breaks my heart each time to think about it. I really liked him and now I'm just sad with regret. I don't want a relationship right now and I told him that (during a regular convo). He told me the same goes for him. But now this is the situation. I don't want to tell him because that will make life for all of us complicated. I want to get over him and move on.:( (link)
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Well... All girls have to deal with broken hearts and sometimes it's hard. But what I think you should do and it works all the time by the way is just stop talking to him..so it just dies down and you get over him... And then you can start talking to him and he'll realize that wow.. She's pretty cool :) and then things will change :) and even though he doesn't want a relationship if you wait awhile maybe he'll change his mind!
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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How do you break up or, tell a guy you dont want to be thier gf without hurting them?? (link)
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With breaks ups its hard not to break someones heart. but if you want to do it right so you guys are still friends then you have to .
1) say that you will always love him and that you will always have a specail place in your heart for him.
2)then say that youve been thinking that you guys need space because your messed up ( grades gone down or parents or on your period)
3) if he keeps arguing be like i need to think about me right now and then just say ill see you around or bye!
hope everything works out :)
Sincerly,
Nobody :)
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So i asked a really close friend of mine out...lets call her V. V rejected me and it was kinda awkward for a week, about 2 weeks later everything was back to normal until we played truth or dare and someone told V to kiss me..so she did. During that week her 2 best-friends were telling me to ask her out again, and kept on saying "what if she likes you?". And finally yesterday there was a dance and she asked me if i could slowdance with her, i accepted and during the slowdance we were really close to each other, nose-to-nose. After the dance she thanked me... Do girls change their mind so easily?? What should i do??
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Well this girl is obviously a good friend... the reason why is because she feels bad because she rejected you. Like FRIENDS can dance together and they can get really close. like i've made out with my best friends ( which are guys) a bunch of time and were still cool :P so its not that bad. but if you really want to know whats going on inn her mind.. i suppose you ask her, cause girls love a guy with confidence ;)
Sincerely,
Nobody :)
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