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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age?

I didnt get my first kiss until I was 15 either. Most guys like teaching

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Can you be in love with someone, and not be physically attracted to them?

Totaly!

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How do I ask a guy for his number (and/or give him my number) without it sounding like I like him? I want it to sound like I want his number just cuz hes my friend. (But I really do like him.) Sorry if that was confusing! :)

if its the end of the school year for yall, just casually ask him for his number so that yall can keep in touch over summer!

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hi okay there is this guy i like and we dont talk to each other but we were like best friends when we were 2-4ish and somehow i got his sn and i really want to talk to him but like how should i start off...should i say i've had ur sn on buddy list but i didnt know how it was so i was figurin out or is dat to corny or will it end da conversation short? HELP!asap

Hey. Just IM him and tell him who you are and that you found his screen name and ask him how hes been!

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why is it that everytime a guy i like starts to like me back, i stop liking him completely?

The thrill of wondering goes away. When that happens, theres nothing to be excited about anymore, so your crush fades out. Its a phase you go through, and will eventually get over.

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

Presents& Let her know how much she means to you

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my b.f doesnt want me chatting online becuase he thinks its nothing but trouble, but thats where i met him, even though he doesnt chat anymore, do u think hes trying to train me to obey him if i listen to him and stop chatting, i really like this guy and would give up yahoo for him.

I think that he is just a little insecure. Maybe he has had a past girlfriend find another guy on the internet. About the training you to obey him part, I dont think he is " training you" but I think that it's not healthy for him to be telling you what to do. Guys come and go. Even though you really like him, you have to accept that he's not going to be there forever. Whats the problem with the internet? He needs to trust you..

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well im a freshman and im in this boys class i really like him and hes in 11th grade.. he always talks to me and is realy realy nice and always just looks back at me and smiles. last thursday night i went to a football game and he was there and sat next to me. friday in school he was like why didnt you even say hi to meee? and i said sorry and then he said why are you shy around me and i relized i liekd him, that was why!.. i started talking to him alot more and he talked to me on monday morning he came in class and talked to me right away and asked if i had a sister because he saw a girl that looked just like me.. my cousin said that thats kind of weird, she thinks he just wanted to talk to me, and its a weird pickup line i dunno lol.. he also said he lives nextdoor to my grandmother .. he still talks and always smiles to me in the hallway and i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me cuz hes always with other girls too... how can i get him to know i like him? thanks.. if you think i should tell him i like him tomorrow to his face or in a note, what should i say in the note or to his face? im so nervouss i might even have my friend tell him but.. i dont know.. thanks alott

Hey! Well it sounds to me like he likes you, so you probably have nothing to worry about. I would have one of my friends tell him, and tell him myself too. If your not shy, then when hes talking to you, just say something like "hey, you know I think your a cool guy and I really like you" and see what happens from there. But, if you are shy, then just write him a letter saying that you do like him, but keep it short, most guys dont like long letters. good luck! let me know what happens

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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life?

He didnt ruin your life, hes just protecting you, and thats the right thing for him to do. You will probably thank him later.....really

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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing?

YES!!!!!

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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line.

you look hot........ I wanna kiss you.......

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ok here is my problem. I've always loved penguins, but lately I've been feeling a sexual attraction to them. now I think that's as sick as the next person, but there's just something about penguins. what do I do?

Go to the zoo, like right now, and sneak off behind the rocks and have your way with one of them.

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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit?

A drunk persons words are a sober persons thoughts. I dunoo getting drunk makes things easier to say.

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where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help?

Around the persons neck, run your hands thru their hair, down their back. Whatever you do, dont just keep them flat at your sides

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anybody ever heard of teenagers going on blind dates to do something fun??

Yeah I did it, and it sucked

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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all

sensitive, but not too sensitive

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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

It's not wrong, but I dont do it :P

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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:

I dont think there is an instant way to get rid of them, I would just use LOTS of concealer

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when are the earliest signs of pregnancy and what are they??? how can you avoid a birth IF NESSECARY??

Youll miss your period. Crave weird foods, tighter stomach, Morning sickness, just stuff like that. The only way to avoid birth is abortion.

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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

Sometimes it's good, but other times it is soo annoying because you just want your space.

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