Q: hi there,

I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators

Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?

and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?

this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again!

Q: So this guy who I've liked forever is sending some crazy signals. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too but didn't want a GF. He said to wait untill he did. I said I would. Then he tells me how beautiful I am and how he really wants to kiss me. I tell him I wanna wait before kissing him ebcause I wait my first kiss to be with a boyfriend. He said something about how he really wanted to still. Then the next day he was telling my friend how much he loves her and how he wants to date her. I ask him about it and he said that he meant he liked me as a friend. What should I do?

Q: ok well this boy i used to like asked me what i would say if he asked me out. which basically means that he likes me right?. well i told him that we didnt talk alot anymore so i ddnt know. i was talking to another boy that i realli liked at the time but now i dont think me and the boy i like have a chance so how do i let the one who texted me know that he can still talk to me like that because i think he got the hint that i didnt like him anymore.?. sory if its confusing.!

Q: well what is something i could give my bf when i move? i want to make a memory scrapbook thing but something else that he can remember me by. im giving my bffs rings or those little token things but i dont know what to do for him. cause those are more for girls arent they? thanks so much :)

Q: I like this kid...and I think he MIGHT like me back...Well here's the story...I catch him staring at me ALOT and he always talks to me. He's never had a girlfriend but my friend asks him who he likes and if he would ever go out with me and stuff like that. but today when my friend told him to ask me out he said why? does she want me to? no!...well guys does he like me?

Q: Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and we really love each other. But, see, he moved back in January to a town thats really far away from where i live. So, lately my boyfriend and I havent been really connecting like we used to, and its just been awful. I really love him, dont get me wrong, but I've got a huge problem. There's this boy at my school, and he's really my type and he and I have been talking a lot and he wants to date me. I dont want to break up with him but then, hes talking about getting married and he's asked me to marry him and I'm not entirely ready for that. He's my first BIG relationship. I kinda wanna have some different experiences and thats exactly what this other boy is offering...fun, freedom, and no strings. I love my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel smothered...what should i do?

Q: ok so i re-met this guy simon i already kind of knew at my friends 6th period class like 2 wednesdays ago. i thought he got really hot since i last saw him and it was a running joke with my friend erin and i that night that i wanted her to hook me up with simon, and she said she'd have her bf talk to him but i didnt really think she would. so i sorta let it go.

then the wednesday a week later simon randomly adds me on myspace and we start messaging and he asks me if i wanna chill sometime and he asked for my number and i gave it to him. then i asked erin if she had her bf talk to simon and she didnt, so him talking to me was totally his own idea. the thing is that was last wednesday and i havent heard from him in almost a week. do you think hes really gonna call cuz im kinda into him...

Q: Okay so there is this kid i have been liking for a VERY long time. lets call him aaron.

Well me and aaron are REALLY good friends and stuff and i knew he has been liking this girl dana for a while. So one day me and him both went over our friend chris's house. And he was like flirting with me MAJORLY!! always getting so close to me. And then when we all went home chris asked aaron if he liked me and he said idk. and then chris asked aaron if he still liked dana and he said no.

but then like after that he kepty ignoring me in the hallways, and like not talking to me as much idk why. I was first on his myspace top and now im like last and the 2nd girl.

But then like dana told chris to tell aaron she likes him. and chris did and then aaron asked her outtt!!!!!!! =[


but ever since they were going out, he has been talking to me SOOO much and in the hallways he is ALWAYS trying to get my attention now, but i kept ignoring him.. but then today he moved me BACK to number one on his top!! And he is still going out with Dana.

I don't know this whole thing is so confusing. I don't know what he is trying to do. I need to figure out this guy.. Helpp!! =(

Q: ok so i have this friend and he is really nice like you have no idea how sweet he is but anyways,
i think i love him and he knows i know like him but he doesnt want a girlfriend and i know he doesnt bc his best friend told me that he wouldnt go out with anybody unless he really liked the person but the thing is he wants to go to the movies w/ me and make out and finger me, i want to too but idk wat to think about how he feels about me
wat do you think?
wat should i do?
do you think it is stupid of me to go to the movies w/ him?

Q: Have you ever gone out with someone (boyfriend/girlfriend wise) just for the hell of it? I know a lot of people who simply go out with people even though they don't like them; they just like the idea of being liked.

Is this common?
It seems so weird and pointless to me.

Thanks.

Q: so I just looked on my BEST friends myspace(weve been friends for 7 years) and I love her like a sister. anyway,the guy I used to reallly like 2 monhts ago and I was hooking up with commented HER picture and said she was pretty..and I guess he was talking to her on AIM a few nights ago.ugh it just gets to me! has anyone else gone through the same thing or similar? do i have a right to be mad about this?! she says shed never do anything with him and btw dont tlel me to talk to him because i dont anymore.

Q: I have an amazing boyfriend who loves me and cares about me and wants to be with me. The problem is that i still think about my ex sometimes because he was my first real boyfriend. Should I hold off on going into another relationship because of my ex or should I go for it and take a chance on this new relationship?

Q: I really like this new guy at school. Sometimes I feel like he likes me back. But my friend likes him too! We have some much chemistry and everything. Then I ask my friend if she would be mad at me if I dated him. She said no but then she said she wouldnt be a great friend to me! But then I think ok then what if you date him? Will I be great friend to you? She always thinks of herself! What should I do?

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