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Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months???

No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

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what if uike a girl who dosn't like u?

The best thing i could tell you .. would be to move on.. But if you are truly in love with this girl then I would say work to get her!! ANd dont give up.. If she is available then Ask her out sometime.. See how it goes. Let her get to know the real you. If it doesn`t work then it wasnt meant to be. But go0d luck!*
Melody-

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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

sounds to me like sum1 likes u! lol* but u really cant be sure. If that was the last time u'll ever see it then dont worry about it. But, if u do then just confront him. If he is a jerk and has a jerky answer then just ignore him. Just ask him straight up. I hoped i helped.
\mL/
Melody
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself

well do wat u think u should do. I think that might help. But if u ask me id go for it if u think he likes u. Im sure u have ur own reasons for stuff and ud know best. But id say GO FOR IT!*mELoDY

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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*

LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü

well it's actually really hard. Trust me! lOl*
id say to just ask that guy or, well 1 day look really bad to see if he still seems to notice u! lOl* But yea, a lot of guyz r very intimidated by gurls and they do act like lil punks. But id say that wen u meet the rite guy then u should know how and why he feels a certain way 4 u.
*Melody

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Me & a guy have been friends for like ages, and just this year he seems to take a notice to me, flirt around? and everytime he sees me, he stares?? he recently had a g/f but broke up with her, and i havent talked to him since then, but when i do talk to him, he is just soo sweet & nice... but i dont know if he is leading me on? or does he like me?? i need help... :(

ok you sound like a friend of mine. If u have bn friends for ages then thats great. And if he doesnt have a girlfriend thats great to. If he seems to have taken notice to you, then i say go 4 it. I mean, the worst that could happen would be him saying no. But i'd wait a while b-cuz he did just break up with his girlfriend. But make ur move carefully cuz u dont want to ruin a great friendship. Friendship is more important then a relationship Good Luck!
*MElody

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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP!

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there's this guy that i like how do i get him to notice me?i've tried 4 a long time.he's not that hot but he's got a great personality.he only thinks of me as just a friend.what do i do.

signed,
in lue 4-ever

Dear luv 4-ever,
what can i say? Sum times its harder to find a guy that likes you back. How do you know for a fact that he doesnt like you?? 4 all you know he could. My advice is to just stay yourself and flirt a lil* then wen u think he is starting to like you ask him out. But remember, friendship is more important then a relationship. SO if it doesnt work out, then you know its not ment to be. Being best friends sumtimes is a greater relationship then dating. Trust me. I have a friend who found that out the hard way! But good luck!
*MElody

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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious??

KEEP HIM! i am seeing here that u really like him! and it sounds like love to me. But if u r having this many thoughts about the relationship comin to an end, then talk to him about it. But i wouldnt end it. But u r just 16 (older then me but still) so i wouldnt get to far or deep into the relationship...there is a big chance in every relationship that it'll come to an end...But GOod lUCK,
*MElodY

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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.


thxx

ok here is sum tips:
1)BE UR SELF!
2)find a guy u truly like and it would help if they liked u to.
3)talk to a bunch of guyz till u find 1.
4)ask the guy out.
5)or find a magazine with other tips and tricks in it.

GOOD LucK!
*MElodY

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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think?

well sweetie, usually long distance relationships dont work out. SOrry. But if u really love him then maybe itll work out. Good Luck
*MElody
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~

well i think u need to sit him down and give him a talk about gettin drunk!and tell him next time it happens that u guyz are over 4 good. then ask him wat he meant by "takin a break." Good Luck
*MElody

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I have the worst habit of falling for guys really easy just as long as they're cute and nice. I have the tendancy to not only fall for them but to also obsess over them (read their online journals, get involved with their social life, etc) even when they've never met me before. Also, if I find out that a guy likes me, then I usually fall for him too. It's really annoying. How do I get over this stupid obsession of boys?

dont worry i do to! lol* wellz i dont know wat to tell ya. But try looking past that. And gt to know them dont obsess over them. U cant help who u like just try to find other qualities in a guy!
*Melody

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Ok...So I know this kid...and well i see him a lot...and i've grown to love him...a lot!..is it right for me to do this? and also...he told my friends to ask me if i liked him...so what is that supposed to mean? does he like me back?

*signed* Confused and Questioning

of course its right! if he wants to know if u like him it can meandifferent things.
1.)he could just want to know
2.)he might like u!
3.)he may have heard sum1 say u like him
but good luck!
*melody

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hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever

just easily tell him that u wanna break up cuz u feel ur friendship was stronger wen u were just friends. Its that easy.~Melody
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there is this guy thats been my friend since like, kindergarten. he keeps asking me out but i dont like him like that and i dont wanna hurt his feelings!! i have told him this a million times that i dont want to hurt his feelings and taht i dont like him like that but he just wants to kno why!! and its making me mad!! what do i do? --Chels

tell him why. its simple. He just wants a reasonable answer so just tell him the truth. He should understand

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okay i have this neighbor ill call him bob n his best friend who ill call fred last year bob n i had this thing but now its over -or at least it is with him i know how i feel i know it sounds really immature but i love him. well anyway fred has asked me out and i dont know what to tell him . hes really sweet nice n kinda cute but im in lovw with his beast friend. what can i do

Tell "fred" the truth. Tell him u stil have feelings for "bob" If he really likes u than he will give u time to make ur own decision. ANd im sure it'l be the right 1. GOod luck
*melody

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ok so i have a bf and one of our friends is having this party. he will be there and so will some of my friends that have never met him be4. i really dont want them to meet him becuz:
1) if they think hes hot theyll b all over him
2) if they think hes ugly later they wont shut up
3) either way they will be really annoying and say stuff to him that i wouldnt want them to
i already talked to them they dont care they said i need to calm down etc.

well listen to ur friends! calm down! lol* if they think ur boyfriend is hot then they think he is hot.if He is true to u than it shouldnt matter. If they think he is ugly they think he is ugly. Its there oppinion not yours. If u love him as much as u think u do, than it shouldnt matter.\Good Luck
*MElody

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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused!

no i dont think its bad. But wait till the 10th hun! lol* ne wayz just remember, older guyz are different so watch out 4 em!
Good Luck
*MElody

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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back?

Well start out just trying to be his friend. This might take a while, but if you really like him then try it. After being friends for a while, ask around to see how he feels about you, flirt a little, and normal things. But remember this type of thing takes time and patience so dont rush it! i know this is easier said than done, but just try it. ALso remember this, if it doesnt work out there is tons of other guyz so just move on. If its ment to be then itll happen in its own time.

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