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hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
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hey Jess,
you could say something like this:
[his name here], can i talk to you, I 've heard things and I'm a little confused. can you be COMPLETLY honost.. Have you been seeing another girl? I'm not mad, we just need to figure this out..
then take it from ther i hope i helped
JAckie
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Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I are friends now. And we had a talk about my love life. He wanted to know so I told him. I brought up that one of my crushes is kind of offstandish towards me and he replied "one day he'll wake up and see the morning blossom." Then later he asked which one of my crushes I want to die with. What does all of that mean? (link)
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Lets see your crush is still in to you, subconciously. He still cares about you, He wants to know more about your life. No effence or anything and I dont know him or anything but maybe if hes a little crazy over you n u wont take him back maybe he wonts to kill you along with your crush? stay away from him a little bit at a time dont take it too quickly, he might figure somethings up.
I hoped I helped Xox
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well everyone in my school has a bf! even my ugly bff has one and hes hott! i dont no what to do b/c it seems like no guys like me. i wouldnt say im ugly but im not exactly pretty. what could i do to attracted guys???? thx (link)
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well first of all you never want them to see that your despret or too needy, calm down and be ur self. smile alot no one wants ome one who acts like a looser so be a winner smile andlaugh alot they will notice your beautiful smile. in time you will have a line of guys waiting for a date with you. good luck
if thers anything else u need or any questions put one in my inbox! :) please rate me
hope i helped
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I went to a football game last night with my friend Mary. We met up with her friend Anurag and then Drew [my homecoming date]. We were all having fun talking and laughing when we went to go sit down. Drew left for a bit behind the bleachers because he said that "He had to check on something", so we let him. It grew like an hour and he STILL hadnt come back. So me and Mary went to go find him. We went behind the bleachers and found Drew with another girl. Her hands were in his pockets with his in as well. She was practically up on him, really close anways. I asked him what was up with that. And he's like "Oh well i was just warming her up". I couldn't believe he had just done it right in front of me...it seemed like he tore my heart out and ripped it in half. He was my FIRST love, and i was his first too. I can't just let him go no matter what! My heart says no, but my mind says yes. I need some advice on what to do about all of this. I can't stop thinking about it..=( I rate high as well! Thanks for your help (link)
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ok, since he was your first love and u were his, your bond can get really tight but you guys have to work on it. sit him down and talk to him about what he did and what he can do to redeem your love(pay back!!!) them lay down some ground rules and finally forgive him. by the way u describe your compassion twards eachother it wwill work out, try not to let you eyes off him for too long in the beginning, and let other giirlls know hes your and to mback off. defent whats yours you can do it
you go giirl!
hope i helped good luck :)
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This year at My new Middle School* I met this really Cute boy .. + He's in like all my Classes and we became really good friends.. well about a couple days ago He asked me out and i said yeah! But Then i found out that he only had one gurlfriend but they went out for awhile but they never did anything so his friend told me he thinks he never kissed! Well I dont JuSs wanna be a couple that talks i wanna kiss and hold hands and that lil Stuff! So should i JuSs make the move or should i tell his friend to get him to do it ?! Oh but he does hug* lol!! Alright.. Please Help Me Out (link)
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you go giirl!!!
make the first move there is no use for you both to be shy, if you like him that much there is no shame on acting on it! ahow him what your made of. This way you can finally control your relationship, it will go at your pase. you DOnt even need get his friend involved anymor its up to u, go get 'em giirl!
hope i helpes:) please rate me
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Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my ex boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!
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Hey girl, I know what you mean. It's a great feeling to be with him. But you need to try to be strong. You don't need him! When ever you think you want to be with him, remember the pain that he caused you when you realized he cheeted. Find some one who will treet you.
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Its almost 1 year for me and my bf and I have noo clue what to get him. Hes 14. Any suggestions? (link)
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ok, here we go, you have had quite a while to get to know him and his hobbies, i know they change but try to find his longest lasting intrest. He may have hinted what he wants somewhere along th way and its your job to pick that up. If he likes football take him to a game if hes into vidiogames take him to the arcade ur treat and let him play to his hearts desire.
hope it helped:)
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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman) (link)
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ask a couple of random girls out on one date each, then choose whitch one you enjoyed most see how far you got with each one, did u kiss? more? less? this will show you how instrested she is in you give ur fave a try if ur into her keep her!
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