hey my name is becky. I love to give advice and i hate to be rude and mean. And i am not emo or goth or anything like that just because my page is black. I am somthimes shy and i have no problem admiting it. I speak my mind with almost no problem and if i really hate something i will make it know that i do. Im usualy a very nice person but every once in a while i go crazy! anyways...
i hate preppy bitches who think they know everything and think they're perfect so if your one of those people get lost. I also hate president bush because hes a dumbshit and if you like him then well you must be pretty F***ed up in the head.
cya later!
~becky~
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today i just found out that a guy i liked last year liked me back and he asked me out. i said yes, because i felt i wanted a boyfreind and i thought i liked him alot. of course 20 minutes later my concience caught up with me and i started doubting my liking for him and now im scared i dont like him at all. he's a really good guy and im scared im going to lose him if i tell him about it. last year my boyfriend and i broke up and it took me a long time to get over it and i just don't want to get hurt again... i dont know if i should tell him or just go on a date with him and see if i really like him. im not sure. also i havnt told my family yet because they always make fun of me for having a boyfreind.
what should i do!? (link)
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Go on a date and see what happens. if you dont you'll be missing out on a lot. chances are you will get hurt more than once in your life time but how will you ever find the right person and learn from your mistakes if you never try. and dont worry about your family because they dont know him (probably) so they shouldnt say anything.
I hope i helped and good luck!
~becky~
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alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::((((( (link)
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i think he was just saying stuff because he was mad and unrealistic. or he is planing on revenge on you if you break up with him and it can be physical or emotional either way ir wont turn out pretty if thats what he ment but most likely he just wasnt thinking
~becky~
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I'm 13/m There's this girl who I really like, and she likes me, but i don't know how to tak the next step, because I don't want us to break up and end up hating each other. Should I ask her or just let us be friends? need help plz reply (link)
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Just ask her out if your sure she likes you and every couple fights and breaks up once in there relationship weather its for a little while or permanantly but if you do happen to break up dont be one of those jerks that talks shit about the girl after or pretends like she dosent matter after your over. Just act like a friend.
Hope my advice helped
~Becky~
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I have a serious problem and its been going on for years now! When it comes to a guy it seems that i want what i cant have. And when ever i get him i usualy don`t want him anymore no matter how nice or sweet he is. I just end up pushing him away! I don`t know what to do to stop this! HELP PLEASE!? (link)
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well it sounds to me that by the time you have the guy you want but cant have your over him. i say stop crushing on the guys that you cant have because it'll take to long for you to get them. Find the guys that are avalible and are what your looking for
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basically, my boyfriends best friend hates my guts. i tried being nice to him, but then i got in a conversation with him about religion and he said something really rude after..basically, he told me that he doesn't think i really like my boyfriend and i'm just with him because "i can't get anyone else". but thats NOT TRUE. i like my boyfriend ALOT and i would never be with someone if i didn't like that..but yeah..i didn't get the chance to say anything back to him, so now i'm pretty sure he hates my guts.
what can i do to at least try to have him be nice to me? he doesn't like me at all and i really don't want it to be that way. he's my boyfriend's bestfriend and i want him to respect me as a person..and not think that about me.
idk if that was confusing or not..but help? (link)
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Wow his friend is mean. well i guess you already knew that. anyways just ignore him until he has the guts to treat you with some desency (
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mk. well there's this guy i guess you can say who's kinda shy. I went out with him [if you want to call it that] in 5th grade. Then again in 6th. But 7th i never talked to him and here we are 8th grade he's asked me out twice. I went out with him once. Then! he asked me out again. And i just said i'd like to be friends for a little longer. Well he's real sweet and stuff but i'm just afraid he's not gonna talk to me...and you don't always see him as the "boyfriend" type like hugging, kissing , holding hands n stuff. Formal's coming up and his friends keep telling me that he's gonna ask me and he's sweet but i really just wanna go with my best friend. lol BUT over this past weekend we talked like ALL night and i think i started to like him...and i really don't know what to do anymore...anyone have any ideas where i can figure out if i really like him or if it's just cause i don't wanna hurt him?
please and thank youu! (link)
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well if hes going to ask you out to the formal and you want to go with your friends then just tell him no but promise to dance with him at least once on a slow song. Other than that just let everything unfold by itself
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14 / f / 8th grade
i think this guy is hot, & i thought he liked me, you
know? cause on friday march the 31st, he was talking
to me about how he has to take a bunch of quizzes &
tests that day because he was leaving for vacation.
well when i saw him, yesterday, i said, "wow you got so
tan!" & he looked down at his desk, smiled, & said,
"thankss." he would talk to me almost everyday in that
class, & even today he asked me about this question
on the homework. well, his friend sits next to him in
class & me, him, his friend, and my friend were put in a
group to make a poster. so, his friend is kinda mean to
me.. & kept saying things like, "come on, (my
name here)! get with the program" & shit. he's so
popular. the guy, though, kinda went along with it.
he was like, laughing & stuff and i was like really
pissed off.
is this common? how do i deal with it? do you think
he likes me? should i just ignore him & move on? (link)
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Well the guy sounds nice when hes alone with you but mean when he's with his friends. It could just be a dare (i've had that happen to me before) But either way he sounds like a big jerk I say dont waste your time on him because if he really liked you then he wouldnt care. ( i didnt mean to sound rude or anything) So i say just forget about him and find sumone else that treats you right. Remember looks arent everything
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okay so i have a question, and a big problem.
me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 months now, but we never talk. were both pretty popular and we talk all the time to our friends and like out loud in class and stuff, but never to eachother. we had a school dance last week on friday and we danced with eachother on every slow song and we talked during them, which i was really happy about. but we haven't ever talked during school, and we have 2 classes with eachother so we've had plenty of chances. i think it's because we are both like super shy around eachother cause we no we like eachother. idk.
so anyway, my bff wants me to brake up with him, and i think it's a good idea since we never talk, but if i couldn't talk to him, how would i ever talk to him to brake up with him? and if we do brake up i would still be madly in love with him, so that's not a possibility.
so i was gonna give him a note that said 'either brake up with me or kiss me'. we have never kissed before so it's a big deal. i no he would kiss me because he was talking to my friend about it. but i'm still really nervous because i don't want him to think i'm pushy or mean or anything. is that a good idea and do you have any tips for me on how to talk to him or give him the note? thanks so much. sorry it's so long....! (link)
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Dont send him a not that says brake up with me or kiss me cuz that just sounds really harsh and cold. I would suggest making an effort to try to talk to him in the classes you do have after a while he should get the hint. if he dosent then break up with him and you wouldnt have to worry about feeling bad cuz you gave him a chance.
oh yea and if your to shy to talk to him just remember that your relationship might be on the line.
well Good Luck!
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My closest female friend is always with me. We spend alot of time together. More recently when we are alone we just talk and look giddly at eachother. When laughing, she tends to lean on me and if a song or somthing comes on and we're not talking, she'll lay her head across on my lap (we're in a car). She may even move my hand so that I am holding her, and she gently takes my hand. When we are talking like this or just looking at eachother we are very close (physically). I dont know if she would want me to kiss her, in fact I think about it all the time! Whenever there is an awkward silence and we just gaze at eachother instead of doing anything we just laugh giddly. I am so unsure of what she wants. I know what I want ;-). I would have no problem hooking up with her at the every impulse or at least whenever I read the situation that asks for it. But I don't know if that is what she wants too. I don't want this to be awkward but the constant punding of my head with this confusing situation is driving me crazy! I can't just say, "hey want me to kiss you" because that would destroy any mood at the moment, and who knows! Maybe she is just expecting me to kiss her, and know what she wanted. what does she want, why won't she just say "kiss me" if she really wanted me to. Does that mean she wants to keep the relationship the way it is currently?! Should I just make the move at her and see what happens (We have hooked up before, but she always initiates). It's not that i'm afraid or anything, I just have no 'friggen clue what she wants!
*please also, don't say talk to her about it. because i've tried this. doesn't turn out properly.
so - do i make the move when i think she wants me to kiss her? even though she really hasnt made any suggestion that she wants it
any help at all is much appreciated (link)
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well by the sound of it she does and no offence but u must be really clueless if u havent figured this out yet. She does want to kiss you because any normal friends that r gurls & guys wouldnt be that close.
Good Luck!
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Hey what qualities do girls look for in guys. I have some basic ideas but just wondered. (link)
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Well the ones the other people listed work... somtimes. it actually depends on the girl because not every girl likes guys with the characteristics the other ppl listed. but mostly girls like a guy whos not afraid to ask questions and guys who are themselves. Also guys who casually make themselves know.
Just dont be a jerk because thats the complete opposite of what anygirl wants. Hope my advice helped.
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