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I'm 13 and I play the flute. I'm on a swim team! Love hanging out with my friends,going to movies, and anything else! haha lol
E-mail: ashleyswimmer@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 13
AIM: cntrygrl2010
Member Since: November 26, 2004
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Last Update: January 1, 2005
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
Ok. First of all most all guys are shy at first. So don't worry! I thought the same thing too.. To make him more comfortable around u just kinda start up conversation. if you want him to kiss you or hold your hand, well some guys r shy about that at first. but you should make the first move bc it breaks the ice. If you want it to last "communication" is the key. If you want to see him outside of school maybe go to a community activity,movie, or something like that.
Hope I helped! good luck


i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
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if you like this guy you shouldn't listen to what other people are saying. sometimes people think or say bad stuff about other people when they don't even know them at all. So if you like him and he likes u yall should give it a chance. Don't listen to what people say. Good Luck!


My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We're getting pretty close. But my best guy friend..who's slept over my house a lot and he's always calling me and always around me..well, now he says that he keeps getting tempted to kiss me and he wants to hook up even if he has to share me. i think its crazy. but i dunno what to tell him. hes really fun and ive had questions whether i like him or not. but i really like my boyfriend and i wanna be with him so bad. what should i tell my best friend? (link)
You should ask yourself is it worth leaving your boyfriend for your best friend?
You should follow your heart and if you like 1 and not the other than thats fine. Just make sure you make the right decision. If you don't want your boyfriend tell him you just want to be friends rite now. And u can also say that to your best friend. but if u want to go out with ur best friend make sure it's the rite thing! I went out with my best friend and we rn't the same ne more! So just follow your heart. Hope I helped! Good Luck


I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do? (link)
What your boyfriend wants is normal. Every boy wants it. If you aren't ready tell him that and if he understands thats great! If not you may want to reconsider things. If you think this guy will hurt you he's not worth your time. Hope I helped! Good luck!




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