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that pic is fucking hot..EEEK RENEE. how do you pronounce your name? (link)
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its pronounced "reh-nay" and um, thanks. haha.
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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first? (link)
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It depends on how far you would want to go with him, i mean in kissing. If you want to french kiss him, then do it. nothing should hold you back.
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me and my mom always fight about my best friend...i luv her to death....but her mom doesnt let her come to my house bc she has to watch her younger brother so i ALWAYS got o her house!! well my mom thinks im doing bad things over ther shes already talked to her mom n knows that she cant come over but im always welcomed over ther and she still is like such a bitch...well my friend is goin to mexico july 19th and she asked if i can sleep over thursday, friday, saturday and stay on sunday!! my mom totally tripped about that she was like NO NOT THREEE DAY S I DONT CARE IF SHES GOIN TO MEXICO FOR 2 WKS!! idont c da prob for 3 nites down the street basically...wat can i tell her without startin a argument?? i really wanna go and im goin to miss my friend alot!! plz help (link)
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tell her it will make up for the days you wont get to see her and that shes your best friend and of course you will miss her too much, shes being unfair of not letting you do...try asking for 1-2 days and on the 3rd day you can just spend the day with her or something...try to let your mom see shes a good friend and she shouldn't be so angry about it..youre just kids
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hi katy .. i have a problem :-/ there is this kid i rele rele rele like but we've went out 4 times 5 times in the past month .. the longest was recently and it was 2 weeks but he broke up with me bcuz he liked some girl that would give him head and have sex with him :-/ i love him alot .. and he says he loves me .. what do i do??? (link)
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tell him you don't appericiate him breaking up with you just for some girl who doesn't want to wait for someone special, if you really like him...you should tell him that and if you want him back or he wants you, you should talk to him about how high and low the relationship can go ie: kissing, cuddling, etc. and if he wont accept the fact you dont want to have sex with him or give him oral..tell him to forget about it.
it's really all up to you, make the best choice sweety
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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come. (link)
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try going up one level into kiss cheeking and move up as it gets less nervous for the both of you, soon enough it'll come that day when you "kiss kiss" :] hope that helps.
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Hey Alicia, ok I'm really stuck & I need help. This guy named Josh has lived 2 doors down from me for about 5 years, but I just recently met him & we started hanging out. I thought he was cool & everything & I had fun hanging out with him, but slowly he started hinting that he wanted to fool around..By the way, he has a girlfriend..Well we would make out & stuff even tho I knew I shouldn't & he kept wanting to have sex, even tho he knew I was a virgin. Well one night, we were laying on his couch & we started messing around & one thing kinda led to another & we had sex. It wasn't in for very long at all, but I bled, so I knew that I had lost my virginity. He would keep inviting me down to his house & then would want to do it again, so it happened 2 more times, even tho I didn't even really wanna do it, but he kept asking & asking, so I gave in. If it wasn't bad enough that he has a gf, my 'first time' wasn't special or anything. I miss the Josh that I first met. But that was obviously a fake & it kinda disappointes me. Of course I have feelings for him cuz he's the furthest that I've gotten with anyone & I lost my virginity to him, but he's using me. We barely talk anymore, & the very few times he does IM me online, it's just to see if I want to "cum over." How can I get over & forget about him & try to move on? It's not fair that I have feelings for him & all he wants to do is use me because he doesn't get it from his gf or whatever. Please help me. (link)
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well first you should start ignoring this guy, when he asks you to come over..say your busy or you have other plans, or maybe you should tell him straight out that you have feelings for him and you dont appreciate being used. try getting closer to other people and soon enough youll find a guy who really likes you for who you are and not just sex.
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how do i get one of my guy friends to like me? (link)
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invite him over sometime and get to know him better, try flirting with him..as the weeks go by tell him you like him see what he says.
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My best friend started worshipping Orlando Bloom two years ago. I liked him alot to but i didn't want to copy her so i just pretended to love Aragorn(lord of the rings)'. Then my sister began to obsess over Orlando. My sister and Best Friend became rivals and whenever we were together they'd begin on how much they love him. I had to pick sides and i went on my best friends side. After months of this pathetic behavior. I got fed up with him and thought i truly hated him. Like i LOATHED him completely! My sister has her group of friends in love with him too and it's a war over her coping her. Ugh! And as this all happened i grew more respect for Aragorn who did start becoming more hotter to my eyes. I don't hate him as much as i use to but everytime i see him a small fire burns in my heart.
But not only is he everywhere but everyone is in love with him that i know and sometimes it feels like being left out. What can i do against my friends and sisters obsession?? (link)
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Tell them to get over their little kiddy games, orlando is just an actor..there is nothing to obsess over. If you dont want to and you dont want to be bothered, try makin more friends with the same interests as you..other then favorite famous people.
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Dear Alicia,
Hello. I'm 16 and a female. I was wondering if you could help me out...see, I'm dating this guy who I dated several times, but him and I have just grown so far apart from the first time. He thinks we are perfect together but, I don't know if I feel the same. We have fun together, but he always wants to be together, but like you, I love going out and having fun and not worrying about anything. I feel like I'm treating him bad, but, if I break up with him I won't only be losing him as boyfriend, I'll also be losing him as a great friend. I hope you can help me out...Thanks a bunch-*Confused* (link)
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If you dont feel like it's right you shouldn't be living a lie because it will only make him mad. Tell him you seriously want to be friends, that he is one of your best friends and you dont want to hurt him.
(and sorry im not alicia. har)
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i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!
--troubled (link)
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Troubled,
lets see, first things first, talk to *B* about him controlling too much, tell him you really like him but it's effecting everything in your life and you do NOT need that right now, or any time in your lifetime. Tell your friends you talked to him, tell them your sorry but youve fallen head over heels for this kid and they need to be supportive of you and no be so angry at you for being a normal girl. If that doesn't work out, i would say pick your friends, if that guy changes you NOT for the better..you dont need that at all.
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my ex boyfriend, cheated on me..its been a year now and he wants me to forgive him hes leaving notes on my locker, telling me he misses me..i feel like i should forgive him but what do you think first? (link)
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Oh boy, i don't think you should do it, take him back that is. First be friends, see if he is really trustworthy enough to get a chance. If not, still be friends..don't mess him up totally.
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do? (link)
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Be blunt(straight out if you dont know) but tel her youre not doing it to mess up their relationship but you feel sucky when you see them together(i know you do, dont lie)
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Hey alicia..i need help..Theres this guy i like and we were friends for 2 years..but ever since school started we kind of stoped talking...becuz i live on lehighton n he lives in palmerton..so i only get to see him in the summer...witch really buggs me...and i don't kno how to tell him i like him...cuz weneva i talk to him i get all scared and stuff...n i want to ask him out but i'm afraid becuz i don't want him to say no becuz i really like him..i never liked n e one this much! how do i tell him?! please help me! thanx (link)
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Oy, im not alicia but i have an answer anyway :], call him..or if you have the internet and so does he, go online, chat awhile and try to get to the subject of you liking him or asking him if he likes you.
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me and my bf have been together for 3yrs 5moths and 12days. hes the best thing that ever happen to me in my entire life i mean i can talk to him about anythin i trust him with my life. only thing is recently he has been havin some family issues. theres this whole divorce thing with him parents goin on and his dad is ( excuse my lang) but hes an asshole. just a complete asshole. well his dad did some stuff to his mom and my bf is kinda hurt by that but i think he has mixed emotions. hes mad sad all that then my brothers dont make things anybetter because they act like they want to kill him ( because i have over protective bros) i want to help him out with his rents and everythin because i know he would do the same for me and i want to get my brothers off his ass.. HELP! (link)
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Tell your brother to also stop being assholes, tell them about his problem..tell them to stop being harsh at the worst time possible. Ask your boyfriend if hes okay with talking to his parents about hwo he feels about the divorce, let them sit down and let them hear what he has to say, if he doesn't want to, you can talk to him..let him share his feelings with you.
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