*~*HEY!!! My name is Emily ((ems))!!! I love to give advice!!! You can always come to me about anything and I will always answer your questions!!! I never think questions are stupid so feel free to come to me with anything. I really like to shop and I love fashion. And...I love Spencer forever!!!! Luv ya'll!!!*~*
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everybody tells me that i am very pretty. guys notice, but they are so hung up on the popular snobby girls. i hate it. its like all they want is to be popular. they don't even care about personality. what should i do!?!?!?! please help!
guys are wierd! (link)
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sorry it took so long to answer your question. i think what you need to do is pay alot of attention to the guys. flirt with them, and if there's a guy that you like pay attention to him. if the only thing a guy cares about is if your popular, then i don't think you should be paying attention to him anyways. the guys that will really care for you and respect you are the one's that like you for your personality. i'm sure there's a guy at your school that likes you, you just can't see it. be more open minded and even if the guy isn't that cute or popular himself, those are the one's that are nicer. because their not hung over their looks. my boyfriend isn't that cute, but he loves me and i love him. i couldn't be any happier. i hope i helped!
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okay..well there is this boy i like...his name is mike..an well i was talking to him online not to long ago...an we pretty much just met. he probly only saw me like 2 times..an well i told him i like him just last week an we were talkin online the other day an he said he liked me too...an yeah but he wants us to meet up somewhere...an im okay with that its just that....what should i do...i mean he only saw me about 2 times this year an we onyl talk alot online...so yeah..what should i say to him....?? HELP ME PLEASE...i rate VERY good (link)
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if he likes you it doesn't matter if you look stupid in front of him. just talk to him like you would one of your friends. i USED to have a little trouble talking to guys but i just got used to it. be flirty and if your not ready to completely go by yourself bring a friend along, he shouldn't care. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED (link)
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YOU DONT GO!!!! don't be stupid, don't risk it. nobody wants you to get hurt or anything. so block him and NEVER talk 2 him aain. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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hey me and my gfg go to the movies alot and i wanna make out wit her but i dont know if she would care what should i do?weve been dateinfor l ike 3-4 months (link)
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i think that you should ask her. if you are to afraid just go ahead and make the move. because if she really loves you she would probably not care. she might also because she cares so much about you. that she doesnt want nothing too look forward to in the future of yalls relationship.
~*~3m!Ly~*~
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i am in love with my best friendz boyfriend lets just call him "spencer". I love him so much but she has no idea how i feel. When I am around her i feel like i am betraying her. I havnt told anyone how i feel. Should I tell him? Or should i tell her that i cant live without him? i am so confused. What should i do?
~inlovwithmybestfriendsbf~ (link)
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well...it's not very nice to love your best friends boyfriend, but I know you can't help who you like. but i think you should tell her but it might not do you any good. and the weirdest part about this whole thing is...my bf's name is spencer. but talk to your friend about it. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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I like this guy Dylan. N i finally told him and it turns out he likes me! Wahoo right? Wrong. He doesn't date. He got hurt really bad in a past relationship and gave dating up. He doesn't like talking about it, so I dont push. We are really good friends but I can't help but want it to be me. He says if he would take it back he would, but he would have to change who he is and that would kill him. (link)
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i hate to say it. but love is really hard to get over. just keep talking to him and see what happens. if he said he loves you he'll come around. the only way i can think of to get over somebody is to find someone else. but even then you probubly will always love him. if you have anymore questions just ask me and i'll try my best to help you. hope everything works out!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help! (link)
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i wouldn't do it while all youre friends are there. maybe hold his hand or give him a kiss on the cheek. i hope i helped!
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~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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i used to have that problem but i don't anymore. just flirt with them and stuff like that. i go to a private school and there is a really big snob there, except she's a slut, and all the guys hate her. just don't act like those sluts and snobs and act like yourself, but flirt with them more. how i got my bf was really weird. for some reason i started to like him. and he wasn't excactly the most popular guy, while i would call myself popular. when i started paying more attention to him and less to other guys, and it turned out he liked me too. so that's how i got a guy. so keep your options open and flirt with the guys. but don't act like a snob or a slut. i know you've this a million times before, but just be yourself. they'll eventually except you for the good person you are. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...
IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?
Please answer, don't leave me in suspense! (link)
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it just makes him a normal guy. he didn't kiss a guy so it doesn't make him gay or anything. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?! (link)
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you might just be getting bored of the relationship. but if you love him as much as you say you do then try doing something you've never done before. you don't want to wreck a good relationship. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
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well if he's been flirting with you then that probubly means he still likes you. but he has a girlfriend. talk to him about it. its hard to find out from friends cuz you don't know if they'll always tell you the truth. the only thing i can tell you is to talk to him. he's probubly just trying to get over you or make you jelous with this other girl. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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oh. well i have a friend, and we both have gotten wicked close in the past two years. we hang out with each other and all our friends and its usually at her house. but all of a sudden i started talking to her brother a lot. he talks to me online and stuff and we make plans together. i dont want anything to go on between us because i know that if something goes wrong then i might lose her friendship, which is really tough to get anyway. me and her family [including her brother] have plans this week and he said he was going to show me how to play the guitar. what should i say to him? cuz i really do like him. thanks x0x0 * jp (link)
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I think you should go for it. If your friend is a true friend then she shouldn't care who you like, even if it is her brother. Keep getting to know him better. I don't think she is going to care. I hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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Okay i go out with this guy ... we have been together for a little less than a month but I have liked him since like september .. Well i dont know like since i got on break for school i just havent wanted to talk to him at all .. I mean he got me a really cute christmas present and hes sweet and everything but I'm not sure if we ya know like "click" ... I want to break up with him i think but tha last time i broke up with a guy we had been together for 5 months and i just felt i didnt like him n stuff but now hes happy with his new g/f and i regret it badly and i dont want to break up with my current b/f and regret it too ... what should I do? Please help -XoX- (link)
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give him more time. maybe somthing he says or does will change your mind. and if you keep waiting and nothing ever happens, make sure to explain that you still want to be friends and tell him why ur breaking up with him. but for now i think you should wait a little bit longer and see what happens. you find love in the weirdest places, and i should be the person to know. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
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don't end things with this guy because this girl is jelous of wut you have. i know a girl excactly like that and if she ever think's about getting near my bf im just gonna smack her or sumthing. it doesn't sound very nice, but grl's like that are terrible. just ignore her. eventually she'll realize that there isn't a chance of getting her old bf back, and that he's more interested in you. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance. (link)
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i dunno. this is a tough one. if she knows you like him then i don't think she should ask him out in the first place. talk to your friend about it. tell her how much u like him. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!! (link)
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Yes i deffinitly think you should ask him out again! And I would do it in person so it means more to him. I hope I helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it and says mean stuff about me to his gf. what is going on here? i still like him...does he still like me? (link)
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I don't think you should waste your time on him. He doesn't know what he's doing and you deserve better than that. You need somebody who will treat you with respect. There are alot of better guys out there. I hope I helped!
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>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
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Yeah he likes you. Keep flirting with him or ask him to go to another movie with you. Maybe ya'll would go out!!! Just keep doing what your doing because it seems to be working! I hoped I helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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Some years ago, I really liked this guy . The thing is that now I want to get over him . It was always a game of getting him jealous or making me jealous, and that's so pitiful and childish . I fell into that game cause I have liked, maybe loved, this guy for at least two years . I want to get over him and I am at the door step of doing that . So back to present reality . He has a girl, who he treats bad and all, and I have no one . He follows other girls , pays no attention to the girl he's with, and acts like he has a stick up the @## and it's so annoying me . No one deserves to be treated that way . I can't help but worry if things would've been different or would do the same to me . Guys help me out. What do you think, and why do some guys do this ? He continues the jealousy and looking game and I can't stand it . I want to move on , but somethings keeping me here at the doorstep . I want to be free but I can't fully do it . Why? Oh, please help me . I'll rate truthfully . (link)
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If he's going to treat people like that, then your to good for him. Even if you loved him, nobody likes to be treated like that. I think you should move on. It might seem hard but you need to find somebody that will treat you with respect. I hope I helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again? (link)
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YES!!! i definitly think you should get back together with him. My boyfriend broke up with me to for the same reason. And we got back together recently. Now he wants to talk more and spend more time with each other. So just call him morer and say Hi when you see him. Get to know him better! Hope I helped!
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>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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