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my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.
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Ok my boyfriend and i are ready 2 have sex and neither of us are virgins but instead of plain sex he wants 2 have a threesome at first i was okay with it but then he went and asked my best friend if she wanted 2 be the third person and she said yes and i have always known that she had a crush on him but i never cared until now and i dont know if i should Go through with it now i have no problem with the threesome but having my bff in it i dont know and i dont know if this is her way of getting 2 have sex or give head 2 him but i just dont think i should Go through with it now can somebody pleez give me advice and thanks in advance(f/16)
don't do anything you would feel awkward doing. i wouldn't have a 3 some with my boyfriend AND best friend. i would personally feel more comfortable if the other girl was someone i really didn't know all too well. you don't want to ruin your relationship with both of them, because them having the potential to have sex when she has a crush on him may start a fling between the two. idk, just don't do anything you don't wanna do! good luck.
is Datying and Going out with the same thing? i was told by a friend that they weren't. Help. lol
i think they are. to me "going out" literally means going out on dates and being together in a relationship. hope i helped!
i have had a boyfriend for about two years now and during the time have cheated on him several times. I think I love him but am not completely sure since I keep doing this. btw I think he is catching on and I dont know what to do. Any suggestions on how to cover my a#@???
If you are asking us if you love him, then most likely you don't. When you're in love, you know. I think you're infatuated, and are lusting for other people. If you continue to cheat on him, he may fall more in love with you while you are falling out with him. It may just hurt him more. I think you should tell him the truth before it gets any further, and if you don't wanna do that then I think you should stop cheating on him if you think you could develop a good, loving relationship with him. If you don't think you could ever fall in love with him and continue your relationship then just break up with him.
ok there are two really cute guys at my school and well ive been told a couple times by each of their friends that they like me. but i dont really know who i like more its really confusing. one of the guys we'll call him "Jim" Talks to me all the time and jokes around with me but i dont think he's cute. (i dont judge on looks but i think i should at least find them attractive) but i dont. And well "Bob" the other guy is sweet and completely Adorable and i totally am both physically and mentally attracted to him! but he doesnt really talk that much, we both are kinda quiet unless we are around good conversation starters like "Jim". What do you think i should do?
it sounds like you are more attracted to "Bob". & if y'alls conversations aren't so great now, they will eventually grow into good ones. You just need to find out what you too have in common, and find out his interests so you can strike up good conversation. Find out what he likes to do, and what he does on weekends and see if he wants to do anything sometime. It takes time to get to know a person, but once you fully know that person then things will get a lot easier. Hope that helped!
I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please!
don't do anything too too mean. but revenge is always sweet ;]. start flirting/talking/hanging around with other guys. his friends would be better, because then he may get jealous that you're spending more time with his friends than him. talk about other guys in front of them, or ask another guy to the movies or something. hope that helps! oh and if he is really a good boyfriend, then he wouldn't be talkin' to other girls in the first place! so best of luck to ya!!
Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??
guys are just more blunt about it because to them it makes you higher in social status. to girls it just makes you seem slutty, but they like it and think about it just as much.
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My names Shantae.. I have been dating this guy on and off for about a year now. I have a problem though. My parents totally hate him. He's 17 and he use to have a drug problem. My parents didnt know about it until I got really mad one night and spilled. Now, they dont want me anywheres near him. I'm inlove with this boy. When I see him the only thing I want is him to wrap me in his arms and hold me tight, i want him to tell me everythings going to be okay and he loves me more than anything. Right now, we aren't dating. My parents do not approve of anything about him, and I'm afraid that he's goin to leave me if we get back together because they wont let me see him, what do i do? Please give as much advice as you can PLEASE!!! :(
I've had the same problem. My boyfriend is almost five years older than me, but we love each other and it took a long time for me to make my parents realize that. he may not be the best person, but he's the best person for me right now. that's what i told my parents. i stopped fighting with them about it and just sat them down calmy and told them how much he means to me and that i'm really happy and that they should be happy that i'm happy. if you're boyfriend has changed, tell them that. tell him he's gotten better and he's going to try to be better for you. good luck!
Ok..so this guy im talking to is too romantic for me. Like..hes just feminine i could say..he says overly nice things to me..and he just doesnt seem very down to earth and just fun. Everyone thinks im weird because truth is..i dont like the romantic type..i like the fun..outgoing..dont give a crap type. I guess its a bad thing. Am i weird?
it's totally not weird. i don't like it when my boyfriend gets toooo romantic. because i like them to be a little tough. but i do like it when he does random sweet things for me, just not weird creepy things. just don't let anyone treat you like total crap, there has to be a little sweetness in there somewhere =]. good luck with everything!
-chassie
ok so i have another question to follow up from my first one
i havent decided if im going to make the dirst move yet, but your advice helped me ocnsider it.
if i want im to kiss me first, what are some hints i should drop, but without telling him to kiss me? like i was thinking about putting a song like kiss the girl form the litle mermaid or the song beauty in the breakdow by the scene aesthetic on my myspace. would that be kinda corny, or do you think he would even get it? and and tips on hints for him to kiss me?
i think that would be sweet, if he actually understood what you were trying to get across to him. but when you're together start out by holding hands, and just get closer and closer together. it's really easy to go into a kiss if you like, cuddle before. i always just kinda lay my head on my boyfriends shoulders & look up and just kinda, look at each other for a moment. then he gets it and leans in for a kiss. it really depends if he's able to realize at that moment that you want him to kiss you. and if he doesnt lean in, and you want to make the first move then just gentley lean in and kiss him, not aggressive, just softly. i hope that all made sense. but ya, if ya need any more help just ask!
luv ya, xcHaSsi3.
My boyfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm 14/f. Everyone knew we liked each other and we knew it too, but it was just a matter of him asking me. We talked about it on the phone one night for about 2 hours about how our 2 friends katie and paige said that i wanted him to ask me out. and i did. so he finally did on the phone that night. and i was so excited. ever since hen all i can think about it class is him and when i do i get butterflies over my wholee body and when i think about him i smile. we've been keeping it on the down low becasue paige has a really loud mouth and if she finds out it will be all over school in a matter of 5 minutes.
on the phone that night we talked about how we both like each other and we both knew we liked each other. it was kind of awkward but i loved it.
over the summer i kissed this guy in texas and one night my boyfriend asked me about it, and so now wheneveri talk about going back to texas over the summer he thinks im going to like make out with him. but i don't know if we'll even be together then still. and hes like you only want to go to texas so you can make out with that boy. and i tell him that what happens happens, bu i wouldnt kiss him if we were still together.
so i really like him, and i havent even kissed him yet! i dont know if he wants to kiss me, but all we've done is held hands and hugged. whenever i see him i just want to kiss him, but im scared to make the first move. and i dont want to tell him that i want to kiss him and make it awkward and he mighht tell his friends, which would make it even more awkward.
so i really want to kiss him, but i dotn want to tell him. any advice?
(sorry about the novel! i just had to get all the info out of me!)
i've felt that way before, it's all good! if you really think he likes you as much as you like him, then i don't think there should be a problem with kissing him. i think that's really lame of him to think that you'd come to texas just to kiss some guy when obviously you could just kiss him, haha. but ya, i think if you make the first move, it should be fine. don't worry. but if you do make the first move don't hesitate, just do it. he'll probably like it! i hope all goes well!
xo cHaSsi3.