i want to kiss my boyfriend, but i dont know if he wants to
Question Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 5:02 pm
My boyfriend and i have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm 14/f. Everyone knew we liked each other and we knew it too, but it was just a matter of him asking me. We talked about it on the phone one night for about 2 hours about how our 2 friends katie and paige said that i wanted him to ask me out. and i did. so he finally did on the phone that night. and i was so excited. ever since hen all i can think about it class is him and when i do i get butterflies over my wholee body and when i think about him i smile. we've been keeping it on the down low becasue paige has a really loud mouth and if she finds out it will be all over school in a matter of 5 minutes.
on the phone that night we talked about how we both like each other and we both knew we liked each other. it was kind of awkward but i loved it.
over the summer i kissed this guy in texas and one night my boyfriend asked me about it, and so now wheneveri talk about going back to texas over the summer he thinks im going to like make out with him. but i don't know if we'll even be together then still. and hes like you only want to go to texas so you can make out with that boy. and i tell him that what happens happens, bu i wouldnt kiss him if we were still together.
so i really like him, and i havent even kissed him yet! i dont know if he wants to kiss me, but all we've done is held hands and hugged. whenever i see him i just want to kiss him, but im scared to make the first move. and i dont want to tell him that i want to kiss him and make it awkward and he mighht tell his friends, which would make it even more awkward.
so i really want to kiss him, but i dotn want to tell him. any advice?
(sorry about the novel! i just had to get all the info out of me!)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cHaSsi3x answered Monday March 26 2007, 12:00 am: i've felt that way before, it's all good! if you really think he likes you as much as you like him, then i don't think there should be a problem with kissing him. i think that's really lame of him to think that you'd come to texas just to kiss some guy when obviously you could just kiss him, haha. but ya, i think if you make the first move, it should be fine. don't worry. but if you do make the first move don't hesitate, just do it. he'll probably like it! i hope all goes well!
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