Hi my name is saavik. My name is weird and many people dunno weather im a guy or girl wqell for the record im a 13 year old girl. I think i give pretty good advice but i hate it when people ask stupid fucking questions and then get mad when people laff or dont take them seriously so dont ask me stupid questions bc ill make u look like a real ass but besides that i can help u with A L M O S T anything so ask away
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth! (link)
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Well i cant give you the TRUTH!! because i am not there and nor do i kno this boy. But he might like you. Which i know is what u would like to hear. But he may just wanna be friends or he might not even like you at all and just might want to talk to someone. There are a lot of possibilities. I cant give u the right one because i am not there but in my mind i am seeing him still likin or liking you again. Good luck
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there's this really hot grl in skool that i relized. i see her like everyday. we both smile at each other.i have not clue about her, i don't know her name or anything?what should i do? (link)
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awww thats so cute. Well i guess the first thing to do is try to find an easy way to talk to her. One thing you can do is when you see her walk past her and "accidently" drop a few of your things. lol she'll probably help you pick them up and you can go thanks, um whats your name and when she answers you you tell her your name. After that things will happen on their own :)
good luck
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hey! awesome site!
I'm 13 and at my school there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.His friends and my friend have been snooping around him and asking him all these questions. He said that he WAS going to ask me out but hasn't yet. He acts really shy around me and when i try to talk to him he kinda says a few words and leaves.I can tell that he likes me but he's gone to Mexico for this week and the next! I need to know, what should i do! I like him A LOT and have known him since kindergarten! Help me PLEASE! (link)
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Well if you both like eachother why does he have to ask you out? you can ask him you know, guys are kinda releived when the girl they like asks them out, guys can be such pussys sometimes ya kno lol
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okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx (link)
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Wow, your kinda in a rut. Well you told him how you feel which was the best thing you can do. Try talking to him again and explain to him that you know his past relationships haven't been all that great but with you it would be different. and you have really strong feelings for him but you dont like the way how he takes things out on you as much as you like him. Tell him you want to be more than a fuckmate, tell him you wanna be like his girlfriend.
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Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f) (link)
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well tell him that as much as you would like to spend time with him that it just isnt possible right now because you arent even aloud to have a boyfriend in the first place. But since you guys are in middle skool ask him if he wants to skip a class or two with you...that can be someime yall can spend together hehe and try to meet up with him at the mall or go to the movies by yourself well thats what you tell ur parents but u meet him there later
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On Valentine's Day, I got a note in my locker that had a poem in it, and it was signed Secret Admirer. At first, I thought it was just this guy, right? And I go around laughing about it. And then I get a second note today, which tells me that the person is a girl. She says that she really likes me, but if I don't like girls, no hard feelings. I know who it is, because I asked a couple people and I just got this feeling. The person who wrote it is a really close friend of mine, and I feel awkward around her now, even though she doesn't know that I know. What should I do? And I can't even rule out the possibility that I might be gay, even though I think I'm straight. I might be bi. I don't know. What do people think? (link)
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if u dont feel atracted to her then you rnt bi and are strate but u need to tell her you kno it was her and you dont like her that way but no matter what you will always be her bes friend. but being bi well there is nothing wrong with that i didnt think i was bi but my friend asked me out and i said yes, just to expiriment, and turns out im bi, so its up to you
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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP! (link)
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tell her, but why did u brake up with her in the first place
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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ?? (link)
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why does it matter if he is gay
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I'm in 8th grade and haven't really thought about this guy much..i've just noticted him. He keeps on telling me that this other guy is flirting with me, but the other guy hardly talks to me. maby eits a joke. I'm starting to like this guy though. I sit next to him in computers, but I don't know what to talk about anymore. We used to talk and laugh all the time. I really want him to ask me out. How do I lead him on?
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start a casual talk or start to talk about your teacher. then later be like so you like anyone and if he says no and then asks you who you like make him guess until he guesses right.
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Take this in mind before you help me!
-I HAVE TOLD HIM MY FEELINGS
-We have went out before
-WE are bestfriends now
Okay?!
I used to go out with my now bestfriend.. But I broke up with him after about 2 months into it.. But now its like.. 9 or 10 months later and i still like him.. alot.. cant stop thinking about him always wondering wahts on his mind kinda bull crap and he is off liking other girls.. and i tell him everything.. and thats why im here.. i cant tell him this one thing.. and thats.. Im thiknig about telling him i think we shouldnt be friends naymore.. cuz im sick and tierd of being hurt.. him always talking about another girl and crap.. knowing i cant have him.. its hard to explain but thats what i want to do.. but then theres this thing about how if i did tell him to just leave me alone , that i would miss him even more and prolly end up going crazy.. So what would u do? Tell him to leave me alone.. or just deal with the hurting .. (link)
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Neither, he doesnt klnow he is hurting you bout talkin other girls. guys are morons. But since yoo said yoo told him your feelins be like hey you know i really like you and your my best friend but it irritates me when you talk about other girls. he will understand
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Okay. Well I like this guy but I have never met him. My friend has though. It's still weird though, likeing someone I have never met, but I really do like him. I dont know what i should do. Should I like him? Or am i just being weird? We talk alot. On the phone and on the internet. And its not like hes just some random person i know nothing about. He's friends with one of my good friends. It wouldnt be hard to go and meet him. But i just dont know if i should like him right now. (link)
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you cant just stop likeing someone and turn the feeling for them off it doesnt work like that. go meet him
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my friend doesn't really like this guy who i like but she's leading him on. she said to my face she's doing this on purpose. he likes me and we are like best friends but my friend askes him to dances a month early so i can't ask. What should i do?
female 16 (link)
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Tell your friend because she doesnt kno and i kno she doesnt wanna hurt you tell her how you feel and maybe she can help you make sure that this guy will say yes to you.
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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?
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Explain to her if she says no that there are very good qualities in him that you like and name them, tell him you really like him and that later on she can get to kno him better :)
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I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks. (link)
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If you are happy then stay in that relationship. But how can you be happy if you say you kinda wish you werent happy. But my first boyfriend was when i was in kindergarten. But the right time to actually "date" is when you feel really compforatable with guys/girls. If you think of them a lot and count down the days till you see a movie with him, you are ready, if it isnt a big deal having a b.f and dont really pay much attention about him then i would say you are not ready. But if you are happy, stay happy, and stay with this guy.
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ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me? (link)
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looking at girls butts, bein in the locker room and lookin at chicks in their undies and thongs and well imagining doing things with girls. I am bi and im 13 i can help u if you need anything so drop me one in the inbox.
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I want to kiss my boyfriend but I'm really nervous so I want to start with a kiss on the cheek. What are somes tips? Like as far a lipgloss and such. And, What should I do? I know it's sounds stupid, but, I don't know how! What about afterwards? What if we both get embarassed?Please help in any way! No stupid or rude remarks please! I really need help.
*-That's Rachel-* (link)
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I would say no colored lip gloss lol, guys hate that usually but, after you see him give him a hug and leen your head twards his cheek pucker up and kiss, things will take there course from there, i have more information if you need it, you just gotta drop one in the inbox.
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I have a bf. And he's great adn all but he never calls me. When we're together we don't talk much, we basically just kiss and walk around together. It's only been two weeks wiht him but everybody says he never stays long with girls and usually dumps them after a week. (which is true because I happen to be one of those 1-weeker girls) but I really think hes changed. He looks at me like he likes me but recently I havent seen much of him adn I'm afriad I'll get dumed on valentines. I'm so paranoid adn I jsut need advice. I'm sorry it's long
What do you think of my situation?? What would you do or say?? (link)
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He isnt worth it. Im sorry to say that but to me it seems that way, he cant hold a long relationship and if he cant take 10-30 minutes out of his day to call and talk to you or evenm strike up a convo while with you, well thats sad, being dumped by him isnt the bad thing the bad thing is you wasted your time on him. Next guy that you get make sure hes better to you ok
good luck and im very sorry if you didnt like my answer
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Everyone sayd first loves never die well i believe that.. I met my first love when i was 12 and i haven't forgot about him since im 17 now ! Everytime i date a different guy all i think about is him.. When i was 15 we started dating again.. But his parents made us break up because he was too old for me or so they said..Anywayz now i haven't seen him since and i can't stop thinking about him ! What should i do because i don't have his # or address?? (link)
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look for him on classmates.com but if you still cant find him, keep loving him but thats all you can do if you have no way of contacting him. And its true ur first love, u will always love, but there is another guy waiting for you out there, your prince charming, and all you need to do is find him. Good luck hun
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Well I dated this guy for 2 and 1/2 years, and he dumped me in october! I still like him so much, and everyone tells em to get over him but its really hard. He doesn't like me at all, or he acts like he doesnt. Im really depressed and i cry alot, i dont know how to get over him! (link)
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Datin someone for that long and then being dumped can hurt like a bitch. I dated a guy for 3 years and he dumped me in july of 2004. It was really hard to get over him because he du,ped me for someone else. And i still love him and a part of me always will. But try seeing another person the faster you get someone else in your life and see them a lot the more faster you shall get over this other guy.nit will be relly hard at first but over time things will get better. remember this: things always get worse before they get better. Please drop me one in my inbox and let me kno how things go
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ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. considering valentines day is today, i got my boyfriend the video game that he wanted. he came over to my house after school and all he did was sit and talk about his game. and he left me on valentine's day to play his game.. would he be considered a shitty b/f? (link)
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No, he got so caught up on the ghreat gift you got him he wanted to make sure you knew that he loved it but then again on the other han it was kinda rude that all he talked about was his game but then again thats how guys can get...really selfish. But he still needs to be trained, tell him tomorrow "you know im glad you really like your gift, but why is it thats all you would talk about" and go in on how it made u feel and then at the end of ur little speech tell him how much you liked his gift, if he got you one...which he should have!
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