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Hey! My name is Loryn. I love to help people. A lot of crazy stuff happened to me in school, with friends, and guys. If you have any problems about them just ask me because I am sure with all the stuff I've been through I can defonitly help you. Whether its with school, guys, friends, or just making you a profile or giving you quotes and stuff for your screename online. I will give you the best advice that I can possibly give you.
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Lor ♥

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Hi my name is Erica..im 15 and soon to be 16. well i like this guy and he i guess would like me if i was a little older.. he is afraid that he would get in trouble for stachatory rape if we were to get together or if he wouldnt we would probably be together and thats what i really want i really like him a lot ....but i always thought as long as your parents and stuff were alright with you being with the person and everything that it didnt really matter...what should i do??? and does it matter if we were to get together (im gonna be 16 soon and he is 19) if our parents are alright with it ???

if you really like each other then of course its okay. you guys are only 4/3 years apart thats not that bad and he wont get in trouble. if you guys really like each other you should def. date. and your right if your parents are okay of it its even better. but if you really like someone you shouldn't hold back. hope i helped =]

xoox

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dear loryn,
so there's this guy named james which you know. he told fuzzy that he wanted to talk to me and all james says to me is hi when i say hi first. and i really like him so ya know. please help me bcuz i love him dearly!

Love your BFFL,
katie j

well if you really like him and all.. just go for it... ask him if he likes you... you have a really good chance and he probably will like you back. you should try to make a good friendship with him and be there for him and stuff so he will notice you more and stuff. if you need any more help just ask. i hope i helped

♥

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Okay i have a problem. See I really like this guy named Matt. About 2 months ago Matt went out with one of my good really close friends... Allison is her name. Then they broke up over a misunderstanding and now they hate each other.... Well, Matt always talks to me and he flirts with me today he even came over to sit at my table at lunch and that isn't even the first time. He says he like this girl named tori but i don't think she really likes him or he even has a chance. He says he's going to ask her out next year meaning the first day of 06' (when we get back from winter break). I try to like flirt with him occasionally to try to make him like like me because I like him Sooo much! But i can't tell anyone besides my bestfriend because people will hate me for liking him. If he did ever ask me out what would I say because Allison hates him to death and so do a bunch of other people like if i went out with Matt then i might lose more than half of my friends that's how much he's hated. The only reason people hate him is because like he went out with people and then the people he went out with and then broke up with then all that girl's friends hate him and them... so yeah. I don't know what to do....

Please help
>3

you should be comfortable with going out with any guy you want. it seems that you like this guy a lot, so i would just definitly take the chance of just telling him how you feel. if your friends are really your friends they will respect you for going out with him and will probably learn to respect him as well. but what your doing is a really good idea. just flirt with him a lot to make him like you. make him see you smiling and laughing with your friends. have a lot of self-convidence of him saying that he likes you. believe its going to happen because if you are just saying "hes never gonna like me" that is whats gonna happen. sorry if this sounds a little corny =/ if you want more help direct it to my inbox =]

hope i helped =]
xoxo ♥

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ok, so i like this boy. he's a friend of mine, and i guess you can say that we know each other pretty well. we have fun when we're together, and that's what matters to me. i started liking him about a month ago, and ever since then, i felt like he likes me back, but i don't wanna assume that he does. i only told two of my closest friends that. one of them told me that she kinda thought that i do, and the other one asked if she can tell the person i like that i like him. at first i said no, because last year when i friend of mine liked him, and she told him, they never really spoke to each other. i don't want that to happen to us, because i really do think that friendship is better than a serious relationship. i don't want us to not have the friendship we have now to vanish just because of a crush. i wanna know SO BAD who he likes though. not for the sake of knowing if he likes me or not [[well, prob. partly because of that]], but mostly because i wanna know if he still likes my friend that he's been liking ever since last year. what do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP ME!

well, if you really dont want him to no then maybe you should try ask him who he likes like idk secretly. what i would do is i would ask my closest friend to say something like "do you like [your name] because i think you guys would make like an awesome couple" something like that because if you really like him you cant just let this slip away. you have a good chance of him liking you so take a chance and if it turns out he doesnt like you back, you guys will still be friends because like you said, you guys known each other for a long time.

hope i helped ♥

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im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
**sleepiesheep**

the best thing you can do is just tell him how you feel about things. from what you were saying you can see he really cares about you so he will slow down if you want him to.

♥ good luck!!

♥ Lor
xx oo

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well..idk if u would know what to do but well my boyfriend which i love alot..when his friends are around him and hes on the phone with me he talks to his friends more than me what should i do??
signed..anomous

well i also have a boyfriend...and he doesnt treat me like that, either tell him how you feel but still be kind so he doesnt get pissed at you! or dump him!!! even if you like him alot you can totally find a better. nicer, hotter guy that doesnt treat you like CRAP!


- from my friend brooke
(sorry if you dont like it but thats how i feel!!)

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On friday nite there waz a dance. And i really like this kid. And i kinda thought he liked me...only ya not true. why is because he likes this one girl in my grade who is a real bitch. anyway the boy i like apparently likes her. I was heart broken when i saw him ask her out. But i waz heart broken beacause i saw them hug, snuggle, dance , and that crap. Only one probelm...i sit next to this boy in my lang.arts class...shud i ignore him? I dont know wat to do!! i need you advice!

im so sorry to hear that =[ i dont think you should ignore him though. the best thing you can do is just still try to be friends with him, you know? the last thing you want is to make another enemy expecially when you really care for that person. but dont be totally " like omg " lol show your kind of hurt soo he'll notice it.. maybe things will change

hope i helped =]

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well, i really like this kid jake. me and my friend kinda "stalk" him..haha hes in my classes and he actually knows my name! haha well hes kinda popular and i dont think he will ever notice me..please help

lol well if hes in a lot of your classes just try to talk to him, maybe even flirt with him. show off who you are so he'll do the same. it doesnt matter if hes more popular than you because if he does like you he will make his move. lol

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well, this is kinda hard to give me advice for..but im still curious--well, my boyfriend broke up with me after a year!..and i really really miss him..he wont get out of my head!! so..how do u get someone out of your head..even if u still r in love? -CuRiOuS

Curious,
Well getting over someone can be really hard. well, it is really hard. but there had to be a reason he broke up with you. maybe it as because you hurt him. but trying to get him jealous is something that you really schouldnt do. its just gonna make him feel like he made the right choice with braking up with you because of what your doing. of course you miss him and a year is a really long time. but you can never decide whats going to happen in your life but you can decide what you can do about it. there is no way you couldnt of stoped him from braking up with you but you can date new people, try to make the best of things, spend time with your closest friends, and as hard as it is try to forget about him.
hope i helped xoox

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im not sure if im exsperincing a real feeling for a "guy" friend of mine or if im just doing it to like someone. I'm afraid to ask him to do something because i don't want to ruin out friendship but I'm afraid that if i don't say anything than I may miss a good chance. i want to try to like him but i don't want to ruin our frienship, which i value more.very confused here..please help!

heres the oldest trick in the book:

Get a friend.. a friend who knows the guy and is willing to tlak to him. tell your friend whats going on, how you feel and stuff if she doesnt already know. tell your friend to do teh following: talk to the guy in a joking matter by saying "so0- who do you like ? i think you should like (( what ever your name is )) you guys would e so cute together" ask your friend what he said and what his reaction was if he answers with shyness or shockness he might like you and tell your friend to keep making a joke of it and it might turn real

hope i helped =\

xoox

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ok well i have liked this kid for like ever...we actually only since 5th grade but it still is alot...and im in 7th grade now...so anyway back to the point...the kid i like has gone out wit some of mi friends but it has bothered me before until now. He and one of mi best friends are going out! what should i do about my friend? i know she doesnt think theres anything wrong...but i know there is...what should i do??! i need ADVICE!

im so sorry to hear that =[ as hard as it is.. when he is finally free from this "girlfriend" of his you should tell him how you feel becasue if you dont he'll just keep going out with other girls and you never know what'll happen. if you get rejected its just not meant to be... i no how hard it is to get over someone but take a step each day and sooner or later you'll get involved with different guys. and if you do end up together- well =] that'll be awesome lol
ily

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okay well theres this guy at school. he really really likes me and i dont know what too do. i mean hes really nice and all but not too be shallow but hes not all that attractive. i would date him because hes such a nice guy but when i think about doing anything with him. like sexual stuff. i completely get turned off but its not like that with other guys. what should i do? whats going on?

its so weird how i am going through the same thing !! it really sucks because i know how it feels how it is to get rejected so i didn't know how to brake it to him. did he ask you out? or did he just say he liked you? because if he asked you out i would just say like "i think your such a nice guy and i kind of just want to be friends with you" that might sound corney and stupid but when i said that in my situation it really worked for me because now we are even closer then we were before so dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. the worst thing you can do is lie. hope i helped =]

xox

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Okay, so, i really extremely like this guy. & he really likes me. but my best friend likes him too. it totally sucks. he's always flirting with me & stuff, & i really like that=) i really want him to ask me out..the only reason why i think he wont is because of the situation i'm in & he's afraid i might say no..but i will OBVIOUSLY say yes

yeah that situation sucks lol. he is shy, like i no he really is. but if you tell him that you really like him and that you would say yes to him and he will ask you out and you will live happily ever after... hah jk =] just show him you really like him and stuff idk really.. just do waht you did beofre hahaha

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im that little girl in the corner. The boy i like is the popular boy. What should i do?
confused in the corner

you try to get him to notice you and stuff. talk to him more so he gets to no you... you kinda didnt tell me much so i dont have much to say but i all you should do is just show him who you are.

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hey,,well umm theres this kid i lik rlly lik nd he broke up with his gf lik last week i think nd hes lik always lookin at me nd askin me for hugs wenever he see me nd once he lik blew me a kiss - but that was wen he was wit his gf- nd im not rlly sure if he liks me or if hes just messin wit ma head,,, idk wut to do should i ask him if he liks me but i dont wanna feel stupid if he says no, lik im scared that he'll say that,,, idk im tryin to think of a way to find out if he liks me or not, so i wont risk makin a fool out of maself,,,,,,,,

try to test him to see if he likes you.. flirt with hima dn see how he reacts.. even if he reacts at all. from what you say about him i think he likes you =] dont be so worried just try to be yourself and sooner or later he will ask you out =] lol

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What do you do when the person you love isn't mad at you but you know your involved but you are too shy to hug him?

just hug him =] pretend its me or something you know you'll love it =] lol its all over now just try to hang loose with all teh other guys for now you know lol

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Yeah but I really want to talk to him over the 2 days we have off..but i dunno wut 2 do..i - ugh!! i luv him and he dosnt even care..its so hard to hear that from my friend because i luv him..i really just want him 2 call me sumtime..but i gess its 2 much 2 ask 4..if i call him and see if he wants to hang out..?? i dunno thanx 4 the help u rele r helpin

omg... i love you to death.. i no how hard it is with him but you are the best for having to go through it all. you should try to do the best you can to show him how much you care for him... you erally ahve to work up your courage and just give him a hug, show him you like him.. the reason he flirts with other girls is to get you jealous, you no it worked. win him back lol !!! jk!! but really he only does these things to maek you like him more and more and you should show how much you like him.. because we both no its a lot. but he doesnt. dont be shy around him. he's your boyfriend you have to feel comfortable with him, call hima s much as you would call your best friend. hug him as nautrally as saying hi. talk to him like you gosssip with friends. get closer !! sooner or later.. you'll fall in love =]

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Hey. Well there's this guy (you know) and I'm really worried he likes *her*..My friend tell's me that he flirts with her in seventh and eight period. I tried to call him..but I get too scared to actually talk to him..because I don't really know how to ask him if he likes her..what can or should i do?!?

if you think your boyfriend likes another girl its the best thing to do is NOT to go up to him and ask him if he likes her.. like do you think he would tell you? lol so i think what you should do is try to test him to see if he is telling you teh whole truth. i mean i no he does flirt around sometimes but remember he did pick you over every other girl and he didnt just pick out of a hat.. he really does care for you. i dont think you should let this flirting bussiness get in the way with your relationship.. if he is flirting with your friends you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, just dont straight out ask... do you like her, and believe and no that he doesnt becasue well.. he doesnt lol !!

call him, ask how his day is going see if he wants to hang out try to show him you really like him and you guys will get closer and make your realtionship better. hug him, flirt wit him, and he'll stop flirting with other girls becasue he knows he shouldnt be

if he doesnt stop... and he keeps treating yo this why.. think to yourslef why are you going out with someone who treats you this badly. if yourrelationship doesnt get better maybe sometimes you to learn if its worth it the hard way. brake up. you guys have been togetether a long time and he shoudl be treating you better.

i hope i help you =/

lyl xoxo

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well i need some help?

see there is this guy i have liked since i met him and i just found out like a few months ago he liked me to. so i was so glad but then he kind of got a gf and he kind of ignored me so i kind of moved on. well hes been calling me everyday telling me he loves me and im the girl for him and i just fall in love with him all over again, but then he tells me he likes all these other girls and so im not sure he knows what he wants well last nite he asked me if i liked him and if i would go out with him i said no and he asked why i told him he didnt know what he wanted, so lets just be friends and he said he did he wants me and he hates being only friends but i dont think so im just scared that when i go out with him he mite get tired of me and go with someone else thats what he does with other girls he likes them and then he doesnt like him and he wants me again so what should i do go out with him or just stay friends???

My opinion is you should stay as friends. Friends is the best thing you can be with anyone. Even if it is for someone you really like. If you went out with him there aren't promises that he won't hurt you. So why would you ruin a friendship that can last forever on something that might not last as long as you hope.

i hope i help you

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Ok so there is this guy that i like but he doesnt even no that im alive but i realy like him and ive liked him since 3rd grade when i moved to my school. i realy want to tell him how i feel but im scared of rejection and once again be more dorky then i am if its even possible!can u help me Withs alot of lovin J.H

i am really shy to. but i think you should try to get him to notice you a little more. are you in any classes with him? try to sit next to him and get noticed. pass by him in the hallways try to smiles at him and get to no him and let him get to no you. you shouldnt be afraid of rejection... your right, it is a scary thing but your never gonnna no how he feels until you talk to him. if he doesnt like you back its his loss not yours becasue you no your something real special
hope i helped ;]

xox

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