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Hey! Well I'm Kaytea and I am here to give you guys advice. I love giving people advice and it has always been my dream so I hope that you send me the things you want solved because I have been through it all! So go ahead and ask me some questions.

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well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?

if this guy is showing signs that he likes you then you say well i like you too. Good Luck!
-sunshine

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hey, well...i like this guy. he has a girlfriend. but we're kinda friends and he always flirts with me. i want to be closer to him but im not that good at talking to people and making new friends. wat should i do?

well the fact that your friends with him is great. now once a great friend told me to just ask him if he likes you and then if he doesn't well then he doesn't .. but if he does just be all cool with it and say yeah me too do wanna go out. so just go for it and try to be more fun and outgoing and maybe look it too .. but remember to always be yourself no matter what.
-sunshine

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Ive always been kinda a bitch, and stuck up to people. now im relizing that itsnot getting me anywhere friend wise and i really wanna change, but its so hard cause thats what im used to, i really wanna change and i wanna make more friends by being nice and losing that stuck up bitch reputation..wanna help

i know exactly how you feel. it happened to me. well first NO GOSSIPING! and try to have more self confidence then well bragging. if that doesnt work just do something so shocking and so nice people will think your great. good luck.
-sunshine

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Alright, Im 13 and a girl, I weigh 100 lbs, and I am about 5'6. My question is, am I overweight, underweight or average?

well you are certainley perfect bcuz i myself way i 120 area so consider yourself perfect and since you are tall no one will ever know. im short so ya know. but anyway i'm just telling you that you are perfect
-sunshine

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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.

thanks. i rate 5's

a lot of the matrix products out there are good for straightening and what you do is put it in after you shower and then blowdry your hair and straighten away. after that put in some gel and hairspray to ensure non-frizziness and then go out and do whatever
-sunshine

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there is this girl...and she knows like EVERYONE..even the guy that i think is hott..but im way to scared to go up to him. i hate her for this..i hate seeing them two talk. but i havent talked to this guy yet..so it would be kinda weird just go up and talk to him..but this girl ugh she like isnt afraid to talk to anyone..she is very outgoing and the worst part is she is very gorgeous..im soo jealous! i really wish i could be like her but ive tried to be outgoing and not care what people think..but its just not me! I CANT KEEP LIVING LIKE THIS THO! i need to come outta my shell and just be talkative and not care what people think..ughhhh what do i do!? everytime i talk to a guy i get all red and dont even talk much..im known as the quiet, shy, innocent girl
I WILL RATE HIGH!!!

dear, i will rate high!
i think that you should start doing something that you think is cool or that you are proud of and start conversations with people and if you have a local hot spot then start going there with your friends and start to meet new people. i only wish you the best
-sunshine

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Greg & I used to be best friends. And bf/gf. Then we broke up 9 months later. (A few weeks ago.) I'd love to still be friends with him but he acts like he hates me. I'm really upset because now he's going out with my other best friend, Amy, who SWORE she didn't like him as more than a friend and lied millions of times about how she couldn't imagine dating him, etc. I don't know who I'm more upset with. My traitor/backstabber 'friend' or my ex-boyfriend/ex-best friend who ditched me (after 9 great months of being close) for my stupid friend. She is all over him in front of me and he is all over her. It rips me in two. They've both forsaken me for each other. I want to die. Now I don't have any friends and it kills me to see them together. I love Greg so much and this hurts so bad. I have no idea what to do. I hate this. I wish they didn't like each other or something. It destroys me and they know it and they don't care. Greg & I used to mean everything to each other.I don't understand what happened. I don't really know for sure what my question is, but I need some kind of advice to keep me from killing myself over this. Sometime besides, "you'll get over it" because NO, I WON'T get over it. Not when it's there in front of me practically all day taunting me. I constantly want to cry. I hate my 'friend' and I feel like hating Greg too but it's impossible because I still love him with my entire heart. And NO, I can't make new friends because I go to an extremely small school & I'm far from interested in bonding with any of the people around here. HELP!

well if you still love him then tell him what did i do to you because i love you with my entire heart if that is how you feel. well i hope it works out well
-sunshine

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i love my bf, but he is the biggest prude that ever existed. honestly, i've dealt with it this far but it's starting to really frustrate me now. i'm not sex obsessed but i want things to be a little more intimate with us, and our conversations are always so clean and superficial. i know he respects me and i appreciate that but i'm getting a little bored with things. when i spoke to him about it he says "he doesn't mind if we talk suggestively" but that just made me feel like it was only me who wanted it and was pushing it onto him. i'm starting to believe he doesn't trust me and doesn't feel comfortable with me.. even though we've been friends for years. btw, its an online thing we have. what can I do about this?

thanks

ask him how he feels about you guys. like if your just friends or more than that. or if you really wanna move things along the next time he drops you off some where just give him a pop kiss it usually works.
-sunshine

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