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how can i help him to open up?


Question Posted Monday January 2 2006, 9:11 pm

i love my bf, but he is the biggest prude that ever existed. honestly, i've dealt with it this far but it's starting to really frustrate me now. i'm not sex obsessed but i want things to be a little more intimate with us, and our conversations are always so clean and superficial. i know he respects me and i appreciate that but i'm getting a little bored with things. when i spoke to him about it he says "he doesn't mind if we talk suggestively" but that just made me feel like it was only me who wanted it and was pushing it onto him. i'm starting to believe he doesn't trust me and doesn't feel comfortable with me.. even though we've been friends for years. btw, its an online thing we have. what can I do about this?

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HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Monday January 2 2006, 10:01 pm:
Wait...so its one of those online relationships? Maybe thats why. If it is and you guys dont know eachother in person then maybe he feels awkward talking to you about it.

If you guys do know eachother in person then you need to talk to him in person not online. Be nice about it and just ask him why he doesnt wanna talk about 'a little more'

Sorry I cant help you more then that because I dont know the whole situation but good luck!

Ashley♥

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sunshine_behind_clouds_x3 answered Monday January 2 2006, 9:54 pm:
ask him how he feels about you guys. like if your just friends or more than that. or if you really wanna move things along the next time he drops you off some where just give him a pop kiss it usually works.
-sunshine

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