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I like him
Okay i have a problem. See I really like this guy named Matt. About 2 months ago Matt went out with one of my good really close friends... Allison is her name. Then they broke up over a misunderstanding and now they hate each other.... Well, Matt always talks to me and he flirts with me today he even came over to sit at my table at lunch and that isn't even the first time. He says he like this girl named tori but i don't think she really likes him or he even has a chance. He says he's going to ask her out next year meaning the first day of 06' (when we get back from winter break). I try to like flirt with him occasionally to try to make him like like me because I like him Sooo much! But i can't tell anyone besides my bestfriend because people will hate me for liking him. If he did ever ask me out what would I say because Allison hates him to death and so do a bunch of other people like if i went out with Matt then i might lose more than half of my friends that's how much he's hated. The only reason people hate him is because like he went out with people and then the people he went out with and then broke up with then all that girl's friends hate him and them... so yeah. I don't know what to do....
Please help
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you should be comfortable with going out with any guy you want. it seems that you like this guy a lot, so i would just definitly take the chance of just telling him how you feel. if your friends are really your friends they will respect you for going out with him and will probably learn to respect him as well. but what your doing is a really good idea. just flirt with him a lot to make him like you. make him see you smiling and laughing with your friends. have a lot of self-convidence of him saying that he likes you. believe its going to happen because if you are just saying "hes never gonna like me" that is whats gonna happen. sorry if this sounds a little corny =/ if you want more help direct it to my inbox =]
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hay! well no boy is ever worth losing friends over. so i guess you're gonna have to ask yourself here, are you exaggerating a little maybe? i mean are you really gonna lose friends over being with him? i mean number one my opinion is that if a friend would hate you or stop being your friend over something stupid like that then they are not a very good friend. but that is besides the point. do you really think they will stop hanging out with you and stuff? and if so then the answer is no, you probably shouldnt go out with jus because if things havent worked out so well between him and other girls chances are that things arent going to last forever between you two either. so i wouldnt risk it but thats just me.
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