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Okay, i'm 13. I like my friends Josh and John.They are both 13 too. John has a girlfriend but Josh doesn't. Sometimes I think Josh likes me because one time when we were on the way home from playing a concert from school it was around 9p.m and I was tired. I sat with Josh and started falling asleep. Josh then started to hold my hand and tell me to lay my head on his shoulder. In school he would give me hugs and sit with me. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me and I'm the kind of person who is shy to say that kind of stuff to guys. What should I do? Does he like me?

aww thats so cute and yes sounds to me like he does. good luck he sounds like a cutie


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i am going to the movies on a double date next saturday and i was wondering what movie we should see. We want it to be romantic and not scary enough to give you nightmares but scary enough to coudle up with your boyfriend? ALso it has to be long because i never see my bf so i want it to be a long movie where i get to spend time w/ him. I rate P.S if it helps we are going to rockville cinemas 13 in rockville

harry potter [the 4th one OBVIOUSLY]

its scary enough so that u can like lean on him or wutever
its romantic so that you can hold his hand or wutever

yea sounds like 'uh yea RIGHT no way thats so stupid! harry potters for like 10 year olds' buts it not. trust me.

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ive been really sad lately and i dont know why i cant explain it...like i dont feel liek doing anything and i dont even feel like talkin to my girl which i talk to her about everything....theres no more passion in anything i do...please help

take a break. maybe a day off from school. i know there is a LOT of pressure && DRAMA at school and EVERYONE needs a break once in a while. like the smartest kid in my school had a breakdown today and just went home. go for it. if your parents wont let you, FAKE SICK DUH!!

dont give up and everything or anyone, its not worth it..life is


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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

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NO!!!!!!!! just kidding

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this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.

The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.

every girl is differnt babes. but im like that person (but i play the cello). umm i like guys that are outgoing and really make me laugh/smile. also sweet guys. not shy ones, thats boring. also guys who tell u wut they feel/how their feeling but not OVERLY.

sorry if thats a little vague but were all different. have a NICE DAY !! :-D

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how can u tell if a girl likes you. i had a gf but i asked her out so i really would not know how girls flirt. so will someone please help me.



i rate 5's

i dont get the whole "i had a gf but i asked her out so i really would not know how girls flirt" thing, but ill tell you how us chicas show it off! lol

-"staring"
-laughing a lot at your jokes
-if theyre like joking around with you
-talk to you as much as possible
-takes your side
-tries to b around you

nething else, drop one in my inbox

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okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys!

sweetkissez answer is PERFECT! lol but yea my parents are 10 years apart!

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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?

I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?

I AGREE! people just throw it out there and dont realize the weight of the word! "i love you" has a LOT of sub-text. youre not judgemental ;)

sides-when a person says i love you to another person for the first time it should be romantic and a big deal!!! but nowadays its like this:
siberboy1:i love u
girlygirl2: love u 2
siberboy1:ok so um i guess ill see you in skewl tomorrow
girlygirl2:i guess so um ok bye
siberboy1: uhh bye
((this are just names i made up))

but yea thats wut i see online its SO dumb!! like i hate when people are just going out with somebody for the sake of saying the have a bf! like WTF. i hate that with a passion! o and then they dont even talk or wutever.

ok well you can see i have a lot to say on this subject so anyone can ask me about it!

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ok there is this older boy that likes me and he told me. I like him to, a lot. the only problem is he is going into 9th grade and im going into 7th. do you think that is too much of an age difference? I mean if we both like each other why should age matter? My mom doesn't think its a good idea for me to date him. I think its good because he is much more mature then boys in my grade and he knows how to treat a girl right. what should i do? how can i go out with him without my mom knowing?

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well girls usually date older guys because they ARE mature! yur mom doesnt think its a good idea thou so dont go behind her back. its really not that much of an age difference! i mean i had a crush on a guy in 9th grade nd he did on me, but we didnt go out im like over it.

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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online??

nooo thats why i dont go on myspace any more and tell everyone not to! sex offenders!! that is probably wut he is! u hear about it all of the time! "hes soooooo nice and would never do something like that" rite? so u decide to meet him and when you do, he kidnaps you, rapes you, etc. it is NOT safe with anyone you dont know!

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My guy friend & I like eachother as more than friends. I'm a bit worried because it'll be my first relationship & I'm not sure what to expect. Can anyone fill me in? Thank you!

xO* bReE

o0o thats so sweet! hehe. ok so dont b worried? if you like him nd he likes you youre not ALLOWED to b worried! :oP so u can expect him to treat you as a little bit (at first) more than just friends. you guys can talk on the phone like all the time (if u havent already be doing this. . .). um he will probably say some over welming things if he REALLY likes un after a while! just say whatever comes to your mind at those!

hope i helped ya!

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theres this gurl i ask out and we went out 4 a day we went out and she beoke up wit me the next day and i really liked her she said she want to get to know mw better and thisother girl ask me out do i wait o her to we can ghet to kknow each other or should i go out with the other girl who ask me out wat should i do????! reel confused!

aAaW! :oP hehe. sorry ok back to the point. you like the first girl RiIiTe? rite. ok so wait! duh go w/who u like not who comes along. it wont b fair to the other girl who asked you out cause you still like the first girl! say no to the 2nd one! the only thing i, dont WAIT for the 1st girl! let time go bye nd just like talk to her. you dont want to seem desperit! thats NOT kewl.

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I have this X-boyfriend. I have the hugest crush on him still and I really didnt want to brake up. I dont know how to tell him. I mean we talk like everyday and we are like Best friends. But I dont know if he will ever really like me again? What should I do?

think of y you did brake up w/ him! nd how long ago was it? if it was more than a week-b like "i think i still have feelings for u" c wut he says! if u talk every day nd hes yur best friend,he wont hurt you if he doesnt feel the same way md if thats true. i mean itll hurt if he doesnt love u back but not AS much! if its been less than a week, give the both of you time!

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

he might like you. i mean i can easily tell if a guy likes me: he loks at me all the time, he flirts w/ me, he asks who i like, he calls me, he trys to b with me ((sit next to me, b at the same places i am. . .)) so if b on the lookout. . .

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I have always wanted a boyfriend. But my public persona says NO. Even though I've wanted a boyf. really bad, guys (almost every, the only ones who aren't either are gay or have a girlfriend)are really mean to me because my ideas are kind of old-fashioned, I like classical music, I dress kind of old-fashioned, and I'm uncontrollable, and incredibly opinionated. I tried liking a guy once, but he just laughed in my face and told the whole grade. If I sort of let down and turn into just a regular girl, people will think i've gone soft and I won't feel like myself! Advicenators, help me!

this is tuf. people might think yur like a poser if you change yur style or wutever. i mean eventually it will happen for u so give it some time ya kno?!

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