Hey, I'm Ashley I'm 25 years old, since I was on here last, a lot has happened to me emotionally and I feel like Im much more experienced to give advice and support when its needed, We tend to go through life thinking we have it bad when it reality we never realize how much worse it could be, So count your blessings EVERYDAY!! Now, I am here to help if needed and I will do the best of my ability to answer honestly without sugar coating it...... Ask Away!!!!
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Age: 25
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Lastnight my boyfriend called me a bitch and said he was kidding and didnt mean it. I told him it hurt my feelings and he said sorry. But i just cant get over it. (link)
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Well you need too because Im sure theres gonna be plenty more of that and eventually your gonna think hes being a dick lol Ive been with my bf for 8 years and I cant tell you how many times we said things like that to one another but let me tell you Im happy as can be.. You dont want to be in a relationship thats so serious and you dont wanna be the kind of gf that gets mad over every little thing trust me on this especially if you love him
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hey im a 15 year old girl from greece.Im kind of worried that i will never find a boyfriend..i mean yes im just 15 too young but when u see your friends having boys and stuff u worrying.I liked some boys..2 of them ver very much but nothing..and i dont thing that im likeable for boys..and im a girl who does not want to be in a relationship just to say it or something so its more difficult because i want to like a lot the boy im going to be in a relationship and never boys im in love or at least i like , likes me back.. (link)
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You are 15 trust me when I tell you, enjoy being young, have fun, make memories you have your whole life to date and make stupid decisions...... Not having guys chase after you yet isn't a bad sign honestly most boys arent focusing on that right now... You need to make sure you know who YOU are as a person before being with someone and thats 1 huge reason relationships don't work while your young because you dont know anything about yourself.....
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im a girl, 3rd in high school...and i like one guy from our school..he is in 4th year, so he is a year older from me...we dont know each other since we re in different grades...i only see him during breaks in hallways..2 days before valentine day i sent him a valentine message (i wrote it bc he´s always surrronded by his friend and i didnt know how to approach him)...saying that i like him..i only wrote my name bc my friend advised me to do so..so he probably doesnt know who wrote him that message...and about week ago i send him friend request on facebook...and i also texted (on fb) that i like him and that it was mee who sent him valentine message...but after 3 days i deleted that text bc i was depressed etc.he diidnt see it but i didnt cancel friend request..im still waiting for him to accpet it...my question is what should i do ? should i keep waiting for him to accept friend request..and will he be able to see that deleted message when he accept my friend reuest....please help me :) ...i dont know what to do (link)
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Yes he will still be able to read it once you deleted it the message is only deleted from your computer, so since he is gonna see it anyway if he hasn't already you might as well own up to it if you like this guy try just saying hi in the hallways or try to start out with a positive attitude and confidence. guys find it sexy when a girl is confident in herself that's all it takes what's done is done, So now you just have to hope for the best
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So I have been dating this dude since October of last year.I fell in love very fast its just IMA Taurus and we love hard n fast.but anyway I been dating him for months now I actually moved in with him and his baby mother and daughter. Long story short me and his baby mother are very cool she found out we was messing with each other she flipped out or whatever but some how me and him persuaded her that we wasn't and now me and him are into it because he is a Taurus like me and I ignored him he put me out we didn't speak now we starting to come around a little bit and I just feel like I don't know what to do BTW his daughter loves and adore me he even got his baby mama acting like me and he is controlling sometimes like he just want everything his way idk I'm just confused like should I try to get back in a relationship with him or not I want him to leave his babymama but I like her too ad a friend you know I just need advice right now (link)
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NO!!!!!!!! stay out of it, why would you want another woman's man especially when they have a daughter together, that's not right, your better then that aren't you??? Come on, you know the guy never leaves his girlfriend/wife for the other woman especially when a child's involved, that guy is just selfish and wants whatever he can get. You don't love him you just love the attention he gives you, use your head even if he did leave the baby momma for you do you honestly think he wouldn't do the same thing to you?? and start sleeping with your friends it's common sense, if you really were a friend I'd leave that man alone plus why would you want to be with someone who is controlling that's something you shouldnt want in a relationship..... find someone else someone who's single and will treat you right and ONLY wants you, I'm sorry I had to be so blunt but sometimes that's all that works it's only right you don't need that, he isn't a good guy he's a dog and dogs don't make for good boyfriends
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Hello I'm a 23 year old woman from America and I think I'm in love with a man I met online.
This isn't what the hard part is for me, the toughest part is that I have two male friends who both claim to be in love with me. I've never been very strong worded but I've shot down all their advances on me and they won't seem to take the hint. Both of these men were with me when my fiance and I split, they were very good to me during this time and I found myself leaning on them. One of the men, let's call him Sean, also put his divorce into action practically the same time I was leaving my fiance. I spent a week with him and did every but 'the deed'. When it came time to go home I asked him his intentions with me and he said he didn't know, that topped with his chameleon personality and knowing that we weren't compatible sexually lead me to telling him that I wasn't interested. The problem with this is that whenever Sean touches me, my heart races and it makes everything so confusing. Whenever he gets me alone he tries to put moves on me until he can try and sweep me away to the bedroom.
Now while all this happens I currently live with the other man (Jacob) as I have since I was kicked out of my home I shared with my fiance. Jacob and I tried dating but I went through a pretty hard depression, which caused him to ignore me for 3 months while I got myself together. Sean has never cared about interfering with this relationship and put a lot of stress on me while I figured out that relationship. I've since ended it with Jacob, but he seems to think there's a chance he can win me back. I can't find it in my heart to forgive someone who just left me at my lowest. Both of them are very sweet and have helped me to an incredible degree, but now I find myself wanting them to back off and simultaneously not being able to pay for an apartment on my own. This is especially hard as I have no other friends in this area.
The wonderful cherry on top here is that while I was down in that slump I met someone online in an MMO I play. We've been 'together' since September and now I feel like I might love him. We've even planned on him coming to visit me before he goes home for the summer. He's from Saudi Arabia and he spends his summers there while he's in college over here. I'm worried about what forming a relationship is going to be like with him but I"m willing to try. I know that I will have to move into my own place but I don't know how to tell these men in a way that will make them realize I'm not interested, even though they're sweet and I have sustained some sort of relationship with each of them, that I'm getting my own place in hopes of having more room to date someone else. I don't want to lose my best friends, but I don't want to ruin their lives or they mine.
How can I tell Sean and Jacob I'm not interested?
Should I give up on maintaining their friendships after all this is said and done?
Thank you for your time.. (link)
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Well first of all I wouldn't exactly say their your friends more like guys who you've been somewhat dating and when that's all said and done you don't remain friends with "exes" So you shouldn't have to spare their feelings obviously if you wanted to be with either one of them you would make it happen, as for this other man, Online is a tricky place if you haven't met him yet maybe you should start there before you declare your love for him, you've been engaged so you know how love feels and what it takes, which is a lot of work, your 23 so I don't have to tell you but I think it's more of a crush then love since you don't really know him know him, my main point is this, you went from being engaged to this Sean guy then to Jacob and now all that's over, you've met this guy, ever think that maybe you don't like being alone?? I'm not saying it in a mean way I'm just trying to say maybe you should try being alone to get to know yourself first before jumping into another relationship, that way you'd know exactly what you want and can devolope a relationship that can last so you'd be happy....
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So i broke up with my boyfriend because we're both 14 and he was kinda sex crazy, we never had sex but he talked about it a lot. He told me he would never force me into anything and he never did but there came a time where we fought a lot and i felt pressured into that kind of stuff. So i broke up with him and it felt good to do but he stills texts me apologizing and it's been about a month. All his friends tell me he's always sad and he tells me that he wants me now and he's changed and the truth is i kind of miss him and i think maybe it could work but then again he hurt me. so idk what to do?? (link)
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In all honesty you should not be worrying about being in a relationship at your age anyhow, there's so much more to being young that you will miss out on by focusing on the needs of someone else, you have all the time in the world to date but right now may not be the time. you need to focus on yourself and not on sex or anything of that nature because once you lose your virginity it's gone and to lose it to someone who you probably won't even remember in a couple years would be silly, take it from me and no I'm not just saying this because your just 14 I'm saying in general, I'm not old I'm just 23 but I've seen a lot and there's things I wish I could take back or have a redo but we can't..... once it's done it's done,
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