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My name is Ashley. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, shopping, beaches, summer, writing, going out, getting cute ;), makeup, clothes, gymnastics, dancing, tanning, being with family, aol, parties, hanging out with my boyfriend, music (rap, r&b, reggaeton, and alot of others), lipgloss, and so much more haha! Im 5'3, blondeish/brown hair and green eyes. Anything else.. comment.
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ok im thinkin of having my boyfriend and 2 other friends who are also a couple, come over to watch a movie or 2 tomorrow. i think we wanna do a comedy and then romance. any ideas? 14/f (link)
The Notebook deff.! I cry everyy timee i watch it. Its the best love movie ever! N i agree with the other person that said horror movies will get you closer, like Saw, The Exorcists, The Grudge, ect. hope i helped


ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
I think you should talk to him about it, just you dont have people do it. And even though he has a girlfriend he obviously likes you a little at least cause he did stuff with you.. and for that reason he cant be to satisfied with his current g/f either. Hope i helped xo-ashley


i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental? (link)
Nope your not judgemental it will just take a lil for you to get used to the new hair cut then everything will be the same again.


Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks! (link)
Yeahh thats a good idea, if not you can make a scrapbook like just the same, but the powerpoints good! Hope i helped. xo -ashley


okay so i like this boy names josh and he is really sweet and nice and just perfect! well so i think. and we went to this place for school and he was always tellin me how pretty i was and how he loved to spend time with me and we even started to cuddle twords the end of the day. and well we went back to school and i barley ever see him at school maybe like 2 times when we're walkin down the hall but thats it! and we say hi to eachother and maybe talk for 1 minute but then we are off to class again! well tonight there is a party and he and i will both b there and im just wondering if he even still likes me... should i try and dance with him? and flirt with him? cuz its been 2 weeks since we were on that feild trip thing... so can if you can help me thatd b great!
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Talk 2 him at the party, if he really likes you it will go on from there. Hope i helped. xo -ashley


ok when i was 13 i dated my boyfriend nows best friend... i am now 16... he was my first love... i was in love with nathan (my boyfriend nows best friend) for almost 4 years....i have just recently got over him... i got over him when i was 15... i am now 16... paul(my boyfriend now) doesnt understand how much work it took to get over nathan... now paul still talks to nathan.. but i need nathan out of my life and paul is bringing him back into it... i dont know what to do to keep paul but also keep nathan out of my life... i dont want to tell him to chose cuz thats not right.... please help!!!!!!
i do rate! (link)
Well.. this is a hard situation. If Nathan is causeing some problems in your relationship maybe you should talk to Paul about how nathan is and i think Paul will understand. I was kind of in that 'hard to get over' situation before and its hard i know, so you dont need that back in your life because you got over it and are with Paul now so just make sure he knows all of that. I dunno this one`s a little hard to explain coment if u need nemore help wit this! Hope i helped. xo-ashley


hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do (link)
Im very sorry about her, that must be really hard. But its not like your replaceing her because she will always be there in your heart even though shes not here she`ll always be there. So maybe you should start seeing other girls.. you seem young arent u? Anyways just always remember her but you can see other girls. Hope i helped. xo-ashley


my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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Well maybe you should tell him you's need to take a break while he figures out if he really wants to be with you by finding ways to make his parents let you's be together. If he is allowed to at a later date then good but if not its good that you's will be friends at least. Its better than nothing. But make sure u talk everything out with him. hope i helped. xo-ashley


Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what? (link)
Well i would question your friend about this. Dont argue about it because if the relationship does end you will have lost a friend. But it seems like she likes you if its amazing and you's have been going out for a while. So i wouldnt worry too much about her likeing/doing stuff with anyone especially because its your friend. So i'd just ask him. hope i helped. xo-ashley


so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high (link)
I think that he deffinatly likes you. Hes not being friendly, because not just any guy would wait 50days for a girl he likes to go out with her. Hes a keeper and seems really sweet! xo-ashley


i've had a "friend with benefits" for almost a year now. we didnt really have feelings for eachother but now i have feelings for him and im the one who got attached. i don't know if i should just continue being fwb or i should stop because of my feelings? Whats the best thing to do? (link)
You should deffinatly tell him. If you've been friends with benefits for almost a year and he has kept with 'it' i guess u can say umm that must mean he has some sort of feelings for you! Hope i helped. xo- ashley


I am 16 and in high school. I like this guy who is a year older than me. I really like him and for awhile he led me to believe he liked me too. My school ring dance is coming up and I asked him to go with me. He said that he had to probably work so I said ok. Monday night I went out with him and two other guys to Hooters. (lol)I rode with his best friend and I asked him what was up with him. He told me that Chris (changed his name)was just Chris and he didn't know what to tell me. I try not to bother Chris to much so it doesn't look like I'm desperate or anything, but I really like him. His friend told me that he's "talking" to another girl at his school (we go to different schools). I didn't know if I should believe him but the whole time we were at Hooters Chris acted like I wasn't there and completely ignored me. I am out of ideas on what to do. If he hasn't figured out I like him by now then I don't know what to do. Can anybody tell me what to do? I know most people are gonna say get over him but I really like him and I have tried to get over him...please tell me what to do. (link)
Well i think you should just tell him how you feel, even though he might have an idea you like he'll probably like to hear it from you personally and not other people or his friends. hope i helped. xo-ashley




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