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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean

1) making out is using more tounge action.

2) bi is when you like girls and boys

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there is this girl i like that doesnt know i like her...ive only told 1 person that i like her and thats my best friend...how do i tell her i like her besides getting sum1 else 2 tell her...wut im tryin 2 say is im 2 shy around her and stuff and each time i try 2 talk 2 her i get choked up...got ne advice?

really you should just tell her yourself or if ur too shy tell like more people and see if it gets around. cause she might like you too! lots of times when someone finds out someone likes them they end up liking them too

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hi, im 13/m i have this gf we started going out like 2 months ago and its been really cool and i really like her alot but now i found out shes been smokin pot and drinken and shes only 13 though it was her first time it was kinda shocking cuz i expectede more from her i still like her but i sont kno if i wanna handle this i dont know what to do should i keep going out with her.

tell her you really dont like this and if she keeps it up you'll break up with her. if she likes u enough she'll worry about the relationship and she wont. if its really bothering, maybe its best you 2 arent together

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Last night i went to the movies with this guy i like. He didnt make a move on me so i desided to just hold his hand. Well after the movie he walked me to my car and i kissed his cheack good night. He texted me later and told me how hott i looked. I'm not really sure if he likes me or is just kinda using me. I want to be more than just friends with him, i want to be his girlfriend. But i dont know how to, what should i say to him or ask him to move to the next level?

dont make him think your too fast, but maybe he just shy. he could be the type of guy whos okay to tell you stuff when its not to your face but when hes around you hes really nervous. get someone to tell him you like him or something and maybe he'll ask you out!!..

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hey. i'm falling very hard in love with this one boy. hes a different skin color but thats not the point. well.. we just met about a month and a half ago and every since we've done alot of stuff together. we go to the movies together and out to eat. and he always cuddles with me and holds my hand etc. anyways -- he knows i'm falling hard for him, but i think i'm jsut anotehr girl he likes to flirt with. how can i tell him that i want it to be more than just flirting.. i want to be with him..

first off, skin color does not matter!.. but if hes like that with you then he deffinitly likes you!! honestly, you should just tell him how you feel it may be hard but get someone else like a friend to do it for you then. the worst that could happen is he'll say he doesnt like you (which i doubt that). really good things could happen just from getting out something so simple as to how you feel about someone -- trust me !!

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i cheated on my bf, i know bad thing big mistake and i told him i was sorry then we were ok .. but then a few weeks after we broke up and were still friends but now 6 months after he hates me, talks bad about me alll the time and says i did alll this stuff with the guy i cheated on him with but i didnt and i dont know why hes sayin these things, he should just get over it, after all it was 6 months ago!! .. but he wont he keeps on talkin about it and now were not friends anymore .. but i still want to be his friend and be able to talk to him and stuff but how can i when he hates me and doenst even wanna talk to me

HES SO NOT OVER YOU ... lol. sry but 95% of the time when your ex talks about you after a break up they still like you !!! and all they want to do is piss you off but for now you just gotta ignore it and pretend like you dont care and if your friends are true they'll know that you didnt really do those things that he says. if you play it like you dont care, he'll start to come around again.

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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!

aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon

when he calls tell him your mom needs you to help her with something and give him a certain time to call back. when that time comes, go in the shower or have a sibling pick up the fone and say your busy. jus tell him u have other things to do than be on the fone all day.

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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?

no dont give in, dont ask them they need 2 be the man and ask you !!

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Hey well theres this one girl who is my bestest friend and shes really nice and pretty but when ever like we go tho the movies together she is always like huggin on her boyfriend and she is alway cancling thing with me to go do something with her boyfrind i hate it we like talk on the phone and stuff but i never get to do anything together cuz she is always doin thing with her boyfriend
signed Confused

well if she just started going out she most likely will. ask her to squeeze in time for you, but take it from a girl -- when they go out with someone they like they love to spend time and do stuff with them whenever they can. if you 2 are best friends, then ask her when shes free.

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when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz..

guys should ask out the girls cause if they like you and they dont well there a pussy :-X lol.

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