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whenever i get around my NEW [like yesterday]boyfriend.. i don't know what to say. we can never start a conversation. we sit next to each other and say nothing. what should i do. how do i break the ice? i really like him and i want to stay with him. i dont want him to think i dont like him. I DO NOT want to BREAK UP with him
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HELP i give high rating! 5's!
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Alright well if he's in any of your classes just start a conversation maybe about like a quiz or something or maybe any sports you or him play. Just be like "So how's (sport) been?" or "What did you get on the science test?"
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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omg so sorry i know that this is like THE ONLY QUESTION PEOPLE ASK HERE but what should i get my friends and my bf for christmas. i have like NO MONEY and NO IDEAS.
thanks so much for putting up with this question yet again
ps-'go look at this question that was already answered' cant cause i have like no time. thanks so much bye (link)
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Well if you don't have a lot of money get your friends like little things f/ stores like Bath & Body Works that aren't too expensive and for your boyfriend I don't know b/c I'm having the same problem there. Hope I helped with at least part of your problem.
Allieboo
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ok so me and my boyfriend have been through alot this year and i was telling my friend about it all today and we reached the fact that im better off w/out him and that i can handle but see if it werent for me he wouldnt still be alive(long story) so i feel like he needs me and i dunno what to do like i know im better off w/out him but i still care about him and i dont wanna lose him but i really cant be with him i just cant so i was wondering what yall think i should do to help get over him thanks! (link)
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Well staying friends doesn't work but I think maybe you shoudln't break up but instead go on a break and see how much better off you are without him. If you are a lot better off then maybe you should um stay on a permanent break but maybe you'll figure out that you aren't better off without him. Give it a try ok?
Allieboo
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Long story short... Im kayla and i recently started going out with this boy Damien. On october 23. About 3 days after i met him we started hitting it off(hooking up) hes best friends (or was) with these 3 guys JC-18, Paul-24
and chris-18. Jc started talking stuff on me saying that im a h** and all this other stuff and he doesnt even know me. He just thinks he does. Chris is just plain mean and goes along with JC. And paul? well hes just immature anyways. Ever since ive been going out with Damien hes been not hanging out with them. Because i told him not to. and now when they see Damien and me together they call him wipped. Damien was upset when i told him to stop hanging out with them and he cried. O and im 14 and D's 16. He seems like hes in love with me. But now since i made him stop hanging out with his friends he wont let me hang out with mine. So now i think its just gunna be me and him in our own little world. and i dont like that. but i also dont like him hanging around with JC PAul and chris? What can i do to get him to let me hang out with my friends. Please help! i rate 5 for good and polite answers.
Thanx so much
X0-Love-0X Kayla (link)
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Honestly I don't think it's worth it. I think maybe you and Damien should take a little break.. I hope this helps..
allieboo
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well i am 13/f and i like 2 boys. ones joey and i've known him for a little while but not really my friend but something about hims really sexy if you know what i mean. and the other guys casey and me and him have been like best friends since 7th grade, we've been REALLY good friends but we've been like "involved" just never went out. they both like me but who should i get more interested in (easy 5's) please help (link)
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Go for Joey.. I mean like I'm sure Casey's nice but best friends turning into boyfriends just doesn't work out.
I hope I helped and I hope you made the right choice.
Allieboo
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okay. me and this boy named will, LOVE each other. we fight everyday but always say sorry. but today, one of his friends says love=trust. he asked me if i trusted him, i said yeah just not with heather (his ex girl friend for a YEAR AND A HALF) so that gives me a reason not to. but i trust him. then he was like then you dont love me, and i was like yes i do.. then he was like i love you so much but its going anywhere, we fight everyday. and then i was like yeah but you said we fight because we care and he was like well i was roung we fight because I care not you. then he said whatever forget you. thats where i started to cry! =( now me and him are in a HUGE fight over that. i really love him. but now i think its over with us. =( do you think it is? what should i do? should i still love him or let what we had go ?
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Mmm.. sounds like its over but if your really in love he'll come back to you. I've been in this situation. Let it go for a couple weeks and he'll realize he misses you and loves you especially if you tell him you've moved on. Then he'll realize how much he misses you when he can't have you and if you end up starting up with him again he's gonna be a lot better about fighting and stuff. Don't let everything you had with him go.. just kind of put it away for a little bit and still love him.
I hope I helped..
This sounds like a tough situation so good luck.
Allieboo
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Quick recap-in love with a best friend of 5 years and want ot go farther than just friends. i have been very forward and recently i confirmed his suspicion that i like him (didn't say love-don't want to freak him out). after that, he started avoiding me. other friends have talked to him and say he likes me, but he doesn't act it. I am not shy at all so asking him out isn't a problem, but i don't want to if he is thourghly not interested. if i can't be his girlfriend, i want to at least be his friend again. what should i do? we are both 15. (link)
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Trust me best friends and dating does not work out. I've learned this over and over again. I've gone out with 5 guys who are like very good friends with me and everytime I have to break up with them because it just doesn't feel right. If you like him this much give him a try I suppose but you'll probably learn how things go and usually it doesn't work out after you date or tell him you like him with being friends.. I dunno
I say give it a try if you like him this much maybe your a little different than I am with guys.
I hope I helped.
Allieboo
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can anyone tell me what the appropriate amount of time would be until i should start dating again? there's this guy i really like.. but me and my bf just broke up today and we'd been going out since october 30, 05. please help! how long should i wait? (link)
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Well as long as your over him date as soon as you can. Even if you still like him if you get a new boyfriend he's gonna be jelous. I hope I helped.
Allieboo
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k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!
P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!! (link)
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If I were in your shoes I would kind of like date him in secret until things get serious then tell your parents. I think it's so wrong how they are racist like that. So are my parents. I went out with a mixed guy once and it had to be a secret.. I dunno..
I hoped I helped somehow..
Allieboo
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so i like this boy who's kind of my friend. everytime i see him, i freeze up and i can't even say hi. i really don't know what to do. i guess he thinks of me as a friend. i always get really nervous around him (link)
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Ok it's awkward if he's your friend. Trust me I've learned from experience that you can't go out with your friend.. it just doesn't work unless you liked him before you two were friends.. it's better to have a boyfriend who you aren't relle friends with.. I dunno I hope this helps you.
Love,
Allieboo
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If a guy wants to kiss a girl for the first time, what r some cute romantic things he can do leading up to the kiss? (link)
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Well it depends if the guy n the girl are going out.
If they are going out then he can hug her and old her hand alot to build up. For the first kiss it shouldn't be on the cheek. It's more romantic on the lips. The guy can ask to kiss her too which is one of the cutest things he can do.
If they aren't going out make sure she likes him. If she doesn't she's gonna get the creeps if he tries to kiss her. He should ask her out first..
I hope I helped.
Allieboo
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In what situation should you ask someone out? Should you hope for them to be your lifelong partner? Should you simply hope for a few fun months? Should you go for it only because you're desperate? Does every relationship need to be meaningful and long-lasting?
I ask because I'm uncertain whether to ask someone out, of course. I find him attractive and he can be pretty funny, but I don't think it'd last for a long time. I think the things pushing me towards him are my desperation for a relationship and the fact that he is pretty attractive, but otherwise there is no amazing spark. Are those good enough grounds to initiate a relationship? (link)
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It seems to me like you worry too much... just let it go however it goes. Ask him out. You can't be waiting around and hoping all your life so go for it and see what happens from there.
Hope I helped.
Allieboo
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My ex and I broke up a little while ago. It was my decision. It was mostly because he lives a while away and I only get to see him on weekends. Well a fiew days ago this kid asked me out.. it was really un expected and I didnt know what to say so I just said yes. I like my boyfriend right now and it feels good to have someone hold me every day, but i feel like my ex is THE one for me. And I think I love him. Id feel bad if i broke up with my bf for my ex cause he just asked me out and it would be really weird cause he is in my class... what should I do? (link)
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I know how that feels.. I think you should go back to your ex if you think he is the one for you... let him know you miss him n still love him before its too late.. I hope I helped.
Allieboo
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I have been dating my boyfriend for alittle over a month and we are starting to fall for eachother alot. Last night he told me that he was scared because I have so much power over him and that he was scared that I might lead him somewhere wrong. What does this mean? I really don't understand! (link)
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It's just his way of saying he loves you.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months. 2 out of the 2 months we have been going out he has been grounded.(grades he && he doesnt try to bring them up) i really like him but its not working out what do i do. i like him so much but we only get to see each other at school and i like him so mucb but the fact we never get to see each otehr out side of school is hard what should i do break up? stick with him? or take a break. i dont want things to be awkward between us at school uhh i hate high school
*will rate high (link)
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Ok well heres your options.. you can help him with his grades or else your gonna have to make a decision. Ask him if he cares about you enuff that he'd try to bring up his grades so you could spend time together. If he won't do that he's not worth your time hun.
Hope I helped.
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