Hey wastup im aidan....im becoming a pro tennis player right now so i might be busy...i will answer your questions as soon as I can...I've been through a ton of stuff in my life so I can relate to a lot of questions....so go ahead....ask away...
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Age: 14
AIM: aidant1234@aim.com
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i have this friend sierra well shes been my best friend ever sence kindergarden and i started dateing this boy robert and i love him so much i think shes geles and robert asked me if i would go to a carnivel with him and i said yes but now sierra wont talk to me eney more what should i do (link)
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you have to ask yourself if its worth it...is going out with this guy worth losing your friend....however, if seirra was really your friend she would respect anyone you go out with and not get jealous...
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im 14 yrs old and i have never had a girlfriend out even got my first kiss. I was wondering what is rong with me?? al my friends have and i havent i feel like such a geek (link)
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There are steps to getting this stuff right....
1: Find a girl you really like.
2: Sit near her table at lunch.
3: Ask your friends about her. (It'll help you pick up information about her that you might not have known before).
4: See if she has a facebook.
5: If your scared to talk to her face to face, go on facebook and talk to her.
tell me how it goes....my e-mail is aidanrtalcott@gmail.com
trust me on this....ive gone out with girls that ive never dreamed i would go out with....if you play your cards right, you can score anyone
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hi, im 15 female.. a freshamn and i have a few questions for you... frist.. i have a boyfriend ive been going out woth im for almost a week but we havent even talked yet.. he asked me out though myspace but i said yes becuase i know him and liked him. but since we havent talked im starting to think he dosnt like me or it was a joke ( somthing that has happened to me bfor) or maybe he has finaly dicovered how lame i am... what should i do??? and secondly i have this friend.. he is my age and is like my best friend and like a brother to me.. and i think i like him.. i know he likes me because every one tells me he dose and he always gives me hugs and stuff.. but i have a bf and i dont know what to do becasue i tryed dating him when we were in grade skool and it was really acward and didnt last long.. what should i do>? thanks in advance (link)
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I'm a freshman aswell...you can do two things....first, you can start talking to the first guy and see if you like him more that the other kid, or you can dump this guy and go out with the other kid. My reccomendation is to first get to know this guy. If you dont know what he is like, how do you know that you wouldnt like him. So first get to know him, then if you dont like his personality or you just like the other kid more, just dump your current boyfriend and ask out the other kid...u can email me too aidanrtalcott@gmail.com...good luck
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i started dating this guy on memorial day we broke up for about 2 weeks now we are gettin back together does that mean we start back at day 1 today or continue sayin we have been dating for 6 months (link)
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Well, I did the same thing. I was dating for a little while and then we broke up and got right back together. Now, we continued from before because how can you start over. You already know a lot about the person and you've probably already kissed him. So just continue along and pretend you never broke up.
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when spraying perfume, how/where should you spray it on yourself so that when you hug a guy, he will smell it? (link)
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You should spray it on your shoulders because when you hug he puts his head there..
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Hi, my realationship is somehow difficult and complicated. It's hard to explain.
I met this girl 4 months ago. We officially went to bf and gf after 2 weeks or so. We had a great time, till I had to go back to europe. Before I left we decided that she moves to me to Europe to stay with me and learn german,...,...
The first couple weeks went great. She told me that she loves me all the time and that I'm so different and I'm the one. After like 6 weeks everything changed, she did not call that often anymore, she did not say I love you anymore. I know a long distance relationship is not easy, so I decided to fly over. She was very very happy to see me, she was so nice to me in front of all her friends. But the 2nd night she told me she loves me, but she is not in love with me, what does that mean? I know she is really really afraid of commitment, her earlyer b'friends did hurt her a lot when they broke up and they cheated on her and stuff. So I can understand that it is not easy for her. She told me she never going to trust a guy again. Also she told me she saw her ex boyfriend again and she does not know what she feels about him. I did not know what to say and we went on for the next day. We had another great week together, she always introduces me as her boyfriend and she tells me im cute and stuff. I could feel that she likes me. Before I left she also gave me her cloths for Europe with me and I met her mother and brother for dinner. Why would she introduce me to her family if she s not in love with me? I just do not know what to think, I'm somewhat confused. Maybe someone can give me some advice or advice. I can not talk about it with her, she blocks all the time.
She also told me she is really really afraid that when she is moving over that it will not work out and she doesn't know if she is ready to live with me, it's a huge comitment for her.
I mean I think there are signs that tell me, she is not loving you and she wants to break up. On the other hand she does always things that keep you on believe, oh, maybe she really cares and just doesn't want to show it because she doesn't want to get hurt when she goes 100% for it.
Thankfull for any advice, I will add some more input later.
Greetings from Switzerland
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Well...you have to take it slow if she wants to..If you love her a lot you will be willing to make that commitment..she is afraid but let her know that you will always be there for her and that you are different than all the other guys..when you lose all hope...you just have to say to her"i love you and i dont think you love me so I dont know if this will work out" she will probably spill all the beans if you say that. i really hope this works out for you...good luck
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Ok well Theres this one boy named peter and I kinda like because we have alot in common and hes very nice and all but the problem is that he lives in ohio two states away from and I really want to know him...I even think I like him like love.How could know him more so that he would know me more?? (link)
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Alright...you have many ways to keep in touch...first off...if you dont feel comfortable telling him somthing write to him...its old fashioned but if you love him it is romantic...Over the phone is great because you can hear his voice and he can hear yours...this improves the relationship..theres also screen names...you can always chat on that...if you have a video camera on you computer thats perfect because thats almost like being there together...they sell those things pretty cheap too so its not a big problem. send him pictures and ake sure you get some from him too...true love is strong...not even a couple states can pull it apart...good luck...write back..
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Look, i like this boy right but he doesnt know i like him im 13 and hese 16.. lets just leave age to the side please,, well i was talkin to my guy friend which is his guy friend too our skool is like family..we al know eachtoher now i have strong feelings for the boy i realy like,so my guy friend was talkin to me and he guessed it and i was like.. howd you know?he said cause i see you chillin wit him alot, and im like yeah, the way he treats me or the way i treat him,hese like the way you treat him i was like yeah.. so i took other peoples advice on this too and i was like can you ask him if he likes me back? alot of people i know said that my guy friend should ask him but not to make it so obviouse, so i asked my guy friend (which i trust alot) and he told me he'd do it for me, and he wil take care of it, the reason why i told him to ask the guy i like if he liked me back, is because i wanted to know because sometimes id feel he liked me bac and if i found out he doesnt like me,most probably ill get over him faster,cause ive always had a part of me that thought he liked me anyway my question is..if it turns out that you know he doesnt like me back, can you gimie some tips on how to be happy about it and to know i can do better,and to make me feel strong?
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Well....ur 13...im thirteen also...If I go out with a girl I'm not looking for marrige...your still in middle school..if it doesnt work out just say to ur self....im only thirteen....there r gonna be other guys ya know? but if you dont ask him out he might have said yes....so just ask him out...wats the worst that can happen...u get turned down rite?? so then you find another and its all good...
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Well, i went to a party on friday night with my friend and my friend introduced me to one of her friends named "joe." Well, i thought joe was a pretty nice guy and was really cute. My friend told him that and he said he thought i was pretty but he liked someone else. He said he wanted to talk to me and get to know me at school tomorrow and see how i am so he can see if he would like me or not. I get really nervous around guys, especially guys who know i like them. I really want to make a good first impression but i don't want to sound nervous or embarresed when he comes to talk to me. That's just my natural reaction. He also told my friend that he didn't like girls who wouldn't talk to him or who were really shy. I am kinda shy around new people and i don't know how i am going to act not shy around him because i know i will. What do i do? How do i make a good first impression? Is there any way i can make myself less nervous? Thanks for your tips and advice! (link)
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Alright...well even though your shy...if you really want a shot at this guy your going to have to be ready to answer questions...dont choke....when you choke...you cant breath so when you see him breath slowly....also....try to get a list of questions that bring up a good conversation...this is because once you get into a good conversation with him...youll feel more relaxed...
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There is this boy in school who I asked out but he said no because it was to earley for us but now i can't stop think ing about him but i don't want to stop thinking about him I want him to be all mine for ever boy friend and girlfriend but i need him to notice me plees need help boy trobles (link)
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Im a guy. In middle school these days all were into is shorts skirts and tight shirts....you need to act pretty, look pretty, and feel pretty...and heres a good plan....if come the first day of skool and he likes you....play hard to get fer 2 days....make him beg....
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Hii,
Well since your a guyy :)
Can you answer thiss?
I was wondering if a guy liked a girll...
And he heard she liked guys that like to play hard to gett,
Would he purposely try to not talk to you as muchh?
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Well..Im a guy and I would sort of keep pushing. But if I were u I wouldn't recommend playing hard to get. Because at some point, the guys gonna give up and also he may think that you just dont like him. Maybe ask a friend to tell him about you or sumthing like that...
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so there is this one guy i like he is 14 as am i and i really like him i think he likes me but i dont know. I wanna ask him to homecoming and i wanna go out with him and stuff. My problem is that i am really shy and dont like talking to guys and really hardly trust anyone espically guys ive never had a bf i know lame right. im afaid if we do become really close and stuff he'll laugh and not like me cauze ive never really kissed and one before. I want to impress this guy and want to know what to do to impress him. we are walking together in his sisters wedding so that may be a good time to talk to him but him and his family will be over next weekend also i dont know what to do. pleaze help the hopless (link)
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Look, I'm in 8th grade and I've only asked a couple girls out in my life. I'm very shy as well. But you just have to find a time where you see him alone and ask him. Just think, if you dont, he might have said yes and that would be a big missed opportunity.
You should go up to him and say, "Hey I was just wondering if you wanted to go to the dance with me" Again try to ask him when you two r alone. Call him and ask to get pizza er sumthing....
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Here's the story. Me and a girl, lets call her Emily, had a thing for each other for about a week. We have totally different personalitys, such as, we dont have A LOT of common things, and she's not really into what i am, but the thing is she still likes me. I called her about 3 times a day.. She thought i was a little annoying, so she told her friend to tell me that i was 'clingy'. I got a little angry.. kinda.. and i kinda made a bet with Emily's friend that i wouldn't talk to her for 3 days.. 3 Day's passed by, and I've ignored every single call/text/IM, that she sent me. I know that was a stupid idea, and now she doesn't like me anymore. Any idea advice someone can give me? I really really need help.. (link)
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Alright if you like a girl, dont stop liking her until you lose interest. Dont make bets that involve your girlfriend because itll put the relationship in danger. You know all of this. Now, you have to get her some roses or any flowers that are red. You got to go to her and explain the whole thing and beg for forgiveness. I know because I went out with a girl and a similar thing happened to me. I got back together with her by doing that. good luck. write back.
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