hey everyone! my name is Alyssa :) .. im here to help you out with any of you problems - just ask me anything and i will answer it right away
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I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents? (link)
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i can understand where your coming from .. you dont have to tell your parents unless you want to .. in this case you sound like you want to tell them .. they should be able to accept the fact that you have a boyfriend .. its your life you go and do what you believe is right .. but i dont see whats wrong either way .. good luck!!
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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what? (link)
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to be completely honest i just went through this and thankfully my friend and i are still friends .... please tell her first before you tell him .. and talk to her about it if you dont then she will tell you that u backstabbed her and you will go through hell .. its better off if you talk to her first and compromise or come up with some type of agreement but she what her feelings are first .. hope i helped! xoxo
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i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one
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gosh i just had that same exact problem .. NO it does not make you a slut .. as long as you arent doing anything that would label you as a slut then no you are not .. and if people think your a slut because you flirt that is ridiculous DONT LISTEN TO THEM! .. its summertime .. you should flirt :) .. as long as your not jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend or flirting really badly with guys while you have a boyfriend then no you are not a slut .. be careful with flirting though it can lead to places that you dont really wanna go to ... hope i helped
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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its sounds to me like your not ready for anything other than making out .. to be completely honest i think you should rethink and be sure hes really not just using you first - but dont worry about him having more experience than you .. if he truly cares he will help you feel more comfortable in how you kiss which isnt really a large problem .. i think you should wait off a little before you get into oral sex - it could hurt your reputation very badly and cause you a lot of stress - see where time takes you and remember there is nothign wrong with making out or kissing but make sure he really does truly like you xox good luck!
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I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
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dont worry you will get a boyfriend sooner or later - there is ALWAYS someone out there for every person .. just dont be so shy and dont be afraid to open up around guys and show them the true you .. be yourself around guys - and if theres a guy you like then try a flirting why not?! .. but dont worry you will find someone!!! hope i helped
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I met a guy who was really nice and we spent like everyday together and just cuddled. Thats wat i had been lookin for for a while so it was great. Im 13 and he was 14 so it was good for meh cuz i like the lil bit older guyz. He was my friendz cuzin and he lived in PA but was visiting. Neways i kinda liked him on and off so it confused us both. I like being with him but his personality wasnt that great so i wasnt sure. When i only kissed him on the cheek and only let him do the same i think it really turned him off so he turned to another one of her friendz and they started goin out. I cryed and cryed and tried to talk to him about it and he was just a jerk. Now even thought he hurt meh and was mean i kinda miss being with him and kinda still like him. Why am i doing this to myself and is it a bad thing? I had pictures of us and i cut it up one day cuz he sayd cumin up was about gettin sumthin but then when i was like so u just used meh he was like umm no i dint say that. If i was gunna use u i wouda gotten sum booty. That stuff just makes meh so mad so i dont no y i bother. Thats y i need u. Plezzz help! (link)
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that was very low of what he did but just remember he wasnt staying for very long - just visiting .. but he did make you believe that you guys were somewhat a "thing" .. and then turned around and went out with another girl because you both only kissed on the cheek and cuddled?? -thats ridiculous - he obviously never truly liked you in the first place .. its sounds to me that he was using you just forget about him - its really that simple - i know it may be hard but try to forget about him and go for guys that will be STAYING in your town and liek you for you no matter what u'll do with them
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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...
~*NINA*~ (link)
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nina - wow well weve all been through the heartbreaks of guys .. but you seem to really have a thing for this one .. think about it this way - he once had a thing for you so there is still hope for the furture - but dont always count on that .. try to move on or if you cant completely erase him out of your life then just keep him in the back of your mind - if you cant find another guy then you know that hes the right one for you but you HAVE TO TRY!! .. ;) and dont let this ruin you having fun - go out and have fun and just be yourself if he cant except you or like you for you then hes just another jerk - best wishes
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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am??? (link)
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i understand how your feeling .. i was being named as a slut for a while .. i had three boyfriends and jumped from one to the other verry quickly .. well im sure first of all your very pretty so you shouldnt have to be ashamed of that .. maybe dress down some .. you dont have to wear such flashy outfits that show skin and that are so tight you can barely breathe (even tho you gotta love those outfits sometimes ;]) .. if any of your guy friends ever try and touch you and your not comfortable just smack them and you know if they keep insisting they dont respect you ... be yourself around them .. dont try to flirt to much and DONT BE BOY CRAZY ! ahh thats the worst .. be YOURSELF and if guys still try to touch you or do things with you they obviously DONT RESPECT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE .. so they arent your true friends or good guys - and also DONT hook up with guys if your not going out with them or planning on it because that just leads to trouble .. i hope i helped xoxo
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