My ex and I are VERY close.We hangout all the time ,sometimes alone and sometimes with a group. We had an alone hangout the other day and got into a deep talk. We had both had drinkin that night so we were pretty much freely speaking the truth.He ofcourse started making moves on me and kissing me and all that and while he was doing all that i told him it was wrong because I still see him as more than a friend and he said he still sees me a little more than a friend but less than a girlfriend (whatever that means) He told me that he literally can't describe how he feels towards me and that he cares about me so much and that he sees me as his little sister and that he will protect me no matter what and that he wants me to be happy,and he wishes he could feel the same way about me as he did when we dated . Yet,i dont know how he could see me as his little sister yet want to hookup with me all the time. He told me that we won't hookup anymore because he doesn't want to give me mixed signals but all he does is tell me how im such an amazing girl and he trusts me and all this stuff and i just don't see how he can't see me as more than a friend! I'm always there for him but maybe if we spend a significant amount of time without eachother ,he will realize he really does have feelings towards me..but im not sure.What should i do?! Im crazy about him
okay,take it from me,this guy is a total asshole.hes using you for his needs,if he just sees you as a friend then dont waste your time on him.he aint worth it.and if he thinks of you as a sister but wants to kiss you and bust a move,hes obviously using you,look just im a guy i know how they think,dont waste no more time on him,youll thank me later-Yazeed
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18F.
So I haven't kissed a guy in probably 3yrs .. oh my goshh embarassing. I'm a pretty girl, it's just that I'm afraid. I've kissed guys before, but it didn't meant anything and it was a little peck kiss.
Now there is this guy i've been hanging out with ..and every time we hang out I like don't want to be put in the situation where he could kiss me because I'm scared .. yeah dumb I know. I don't want to mess it up, but I do want to kiss him .. I realy like him and don't want to lose him.
The thing that worries me is there are two kind of kisses, a peck and an "open mouth" if thats what you want to call it haha. I'm scared if we go into kiss we're going to do the exact opposite. Like he'll open him mouth a bit and I'd go in for just a cute peck kiss, and if that happened i'd be so embarassed. I don't think i've even "open mouth" w/no tounge kissed before.
I know i'm making a big deal about it and it shouldn't be this hard or scary, but it's killing me!! Do you guys have any suggestions for me?? Thanks:)
its not stupid.your young and your experimenting,well i mean most giys like to go for a fare closed mouth kiss the first time and as you progress further into the relationship then go into more "open mouth"tounge kissing-Yazeed
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14/f
Yesterday, I went to this street festival where their was live music in Chicago. I was dancing and talking to this cute guy who looked 16-17. Later on we started grinding and just having fun. When I had to leave I kissed him and he gave me his number. We were texting and I decided to ask him his age. Turns out he's 21! So I lied and said I was 17 (I've been told I could pass for 17). He says he wants to see me again but I don't think that will happen since I was just in the city for the weekend. It was all in good fun but I feel kind of weird now.. I know we won't be like a thing and probably won't ever see each other again.
I know it's illegal since I'm a minor but what would you do if you were in my situation. I honestly though he was 16 or 17 but found out too late he was 21.
well you learned a lesson,always find out who your talkin to first, and since it was onlt for the weekend it should be a big deal to just forget about him:D-yazeed
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hey, my boyfriend calls me babe.i wanna give him a nickname too but i cant think of anything.i would prefer something that will match what he calls me.but i cant think of a masculine version for babe.
well my fiance calls me love,its not exactly masculine but its a cute name i think:D -Yazeed
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umm hii umm..! i need help because me nd my ex are still talkin and we both still like eachother cause i asked him and he said he did but like are we ever going to get back together i dont know what to do anymore can you help me..! :(
well its not really such a hot idea to get back together,you guys arent together for a reason,but in time youll see what is honestly worth your time and whats a waste,,,
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so basicly theres this guy who liked me like a million years ago and i wad really meant o him. but now its been a really long time, and we dont really talk anymore, we pretty much just ignore eachother, andi know its crazy but i really like him. for a long long time actually. but the thing is that after we stoped talking he sort of went from being this sorta wierd guy to becoming a huge pimp. but i really like him and idk what to do. please help me?
okay well i dont think you like him..you like the idea of the old him..but people change..and obviously he is one of them...and to get involved with a"pimp" isnt exactly a good idea at all...so i think you should try and find someone who will really be worth your time...i hope i helped:D-Yazeed
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Okay so i like my best friend alot but she has this best friend with benefits/ boyfriend only because them two were force to break up. Well i liked her since i have know her but she still have feeling for him. Being her best friend i feel like im always there for her more than he is, im always with her and i do just about anything for her. We are constantly texting and talking and it kills me that we are not going out cause i would like to. Its even to the point where people thing that we are dating but we are not. So ive told her all of my fellings that i have for her and she was like well i like you but i still have feelings for the other guy and then she starting saying that she felt so bad cause i was feeling down and stuff and that it was her fault that i am depressed. Well idk what to do or think and im constantly thing about her and it kills me so i need people advice on what i should do.
hey man i know exactly how you feel..i actually have a huge crush on my bestfriend...and i mean dont let this guy take her away if your always there for her let her know that your the one for her.show her that your the one who will blow her away...have her go somewhere wit you where you guys can be alone.tell her and tell her that this guy cant treat her how you can...i would do that for the girl i like but i cant its sort of hard at this point but dont do what i did and wait to long...if you want her...bro go get her!:D,I hope i could help
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So! As you all know i have written for your advice about the same guy. It was the age issue. Still not doing to great on that anyways but now for another problem.
At the beginning when we first started talking he told me that he wanted to be friends and NOTHING MORE! Hes never had a serious relationship with a girl, and i think he is just kind of scared, with the whole me being 17 and him being 21 thing..he knows i would do anything for him in the world. So we hung out, partied it up a little. SOBER! we kiss, and hug..he puts his arm around my waste, he lays his head on my shoulder. He "liked" me. you could tell. Well, I have been thinking about giving up because he told me he couldnt hang out. So i texted my friend and told him i was going to give up.he told me not to if i really wanted him..SO IM NOT GIVING UP! but my guy told my friend that we were just meant to be friends, and he took it to far on accident. like what does that mean? Obviously he likes me. What should i tell him? Because i like him more than he knows..People make fun of him so much, calling him a dumb redneck and stuff, and it makes me mad and i holler at people.What do i tell him, other than how i feel??? I LIKE HIM ALOT, AND I NEED HIM!!! AND I KNOW HE LIKES ME!
think about how he feels ....i mean if your younger than he is and he doesnt wanna mention you to his family or friends then hes not meant to be....i mean age is a number and thats it but if hes embarassed over age than imagine what else he will do to impress his family and friends so i mean he is honestly not worth your time...im sorry but i hope i helped-Yazeed
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