what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering
Cheating on someone is touching or doing anything sexual with someone while having a bf/gf. Some people would also consider cheating as considering to hook up with someone other than your bf/gf. Cheating is not a good thing! it breaks trust and it hurts the both of you!!
*kaylyn*
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I am a very flirtacious person. I flirt and mess around with all my friends who are guys. My boyfriend tends to get slightly jealous when I flirt with the guys we hang around with and even though he knows it doesn't mean anything, he still gets annoyed. I understand this and we talked about it but I can't help my personality. How can I be less flirtacious?
INtead of flirting with the other guys just flirt with your boy friend itll be hard at first but youll get used to it. I mean you can talk to the other guys and everything just try not to flirt as much!!
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me n this guy like eachother...but hes moving far away at the end of the year...my friends are mad at me cuz im spending a lot w/ him...wat should i do?
Try not to get too atached to him before he leaves because then you will be really really sad. So id say just be friends with him and hang out with him and all your friends together!
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ME and my boyfirend are planning to get married next year and he's in Alabama and i'm a way in job corp (like school) well he was away for awhile and this other guy came i didn't want a relationship i just wanted to ....you know! well we did and i didn't want any strings attack now he's stocking me and i fell bad should i tell my boyfriend or keep it to myself i still love him more than anything And i know it was wrong. And as for the other guy he's fallin in love with me and i can't stand him.
Well im sure you feel really guilty but the best thing to do is tell your boyfriend. YOu made a mistake but you need to tell your boyfriend the truth because yall are soon to be married. You would feel really guilty if you kept it from him when your about to get married so id say tell him!
GOoD luck!
Trust me its alot better telling your man the truth than lying to him.
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I am a 15/f and i like this 15/m. His name is Bryan. we btoh like each other, but have no signs of dating at all yet. now the only problem is is that he wants to do stuff i dont want to do right now. I don't like when he gets mad at me just b/c i wont do it but i dont want to do it right away, i mean we are really good friends, and i guess u could say, "Good Friends, Lots of Benifits." i just dont kno what to do, should i ask him out, or ignore it and deal with it. He knows i like him, but he seems to ignore the fact that he does as well. Is he embarrased?
Please Help Me!!!
Thanks
DirtRider
Hey! ask him if hes just using you or if he really does like you. Tell him how you feel! b/c if you like him then its really not a cool feeling of being used!
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I went out with a boy for 2 years and i loved him alot. About a week ago he broke up with me bc he was scared of what he was going to do while he was away. Now im on a couple of websites and i met this kid whos really sweet and we have soo much in common and i am really starting to like him. now i have 2 questions, do you think it is too early to start going out with someone? and he leaves like an hour away from me .. what should i do?
please helppp
HonEsltY- i Doubt a long relationship like that will work unless you could see him sometimes! i think you should consider goin back to your ex! you still have to have feelings forhim! just call him and talka bout everything and why he doesnt trust yoU!
GooD luck!
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my boyfriend has been going out for about 3 months my best friend saw him kiss someone else i asked him about it and he said he did not kiss someone who should i belive he has cheated on me 1 time for 3 days but he said he could not do that to me again but the girl my friend said he kissed was the girl he ceated on me with and also should i dump him
It sounds like your friends telling the truth b.c why would she lie about that?? ANd your boyfriend has a history of cheating. Id say keep asking him about it and if he keeps denying it tell him that someone saw him kissing someone and that you dont need to be lied to. GoOd luck!!
*KaYLyn*
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Ok well I'm having a little trouble deciding if I should go back out with my ex again or not..we went out for 1 month and then it changed I didn't feel the same way about him..but we hang out sometimes and he flirts..he tells me he still likes me and wants to go out again..its been going on since may when we broke up? any suggestions?
well if you really like him then id say go for him! but if your not feelin him then just tell him that you like just being friends! he will move on eventually!
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Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?
Hey the same thing happened to me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and half. In the beginning he used to go to clubs and everything and it didnt bother me too much but in a way it sorta did just the thought of him dancing with other girls. Well i told him that it sorta bothered me and he said that it would bother him too. So instead of going clubbing he and i and all our friends would just hang out. and if they all wanted to go then wed all go together! soo just tell him how you feel.
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Well, there's this guy I really like. His name is Brent I don't care if you all know. Lol. He's really fun to be around and sooo sweet! I love talkin to him or just being with him. He likes me too. I know this for a fact cause him and all of his friends tell me and he flirts like crazy. Well, he wants to see me some more then he's gonna ask me out according to his best friend. See, I really wanna go out with him but I'm afraid if I do I might not be everything he looks for in a girlfriend and it won't work out and we'll end up hating each other and I couldn't live with that cause I like him as a best friend as well as something more. I know I should just go for it and see what happens and that's probably what I'll do I just need to know, if we do start dating and end up breaking up....how can we keep our friendship the way it has always been?
Hey! well being friends before you two actually get together is a really good thing! usually being friends before the relationship ends up lasting longer. Dont worry about him not thinking your good enough as a girlfriend because he already thinks your a good friend and he must like alot of things about you because yall are about to be together! if yall do break up promise eachother that yall will always stay friends and that it wont ruin your friendship!
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ok... i met this guy [we'll call him john] about a month ago, give or take. well we kissed and everything and he liked me and i liked him. but his ex came into the picture and hedecided tobe with her. he was mean to me becuz if he showed how he really felt, it would make him more confused. long story short, they broke up and me n him ended up together and thats how i found out y hewas so mean bc he todl me. ok well we broke up bc she came into the picture again. and now hes bein mean again. idk if he still lvoes me or not. and i dont kno if i should just give up n move on or stay around. ive tried gettin ova him but i see him in school everyday and its hard [him n his gf dont see eachother in school bc they live in different STATES] HELP PLEASE !!!!!
15.f.mi
I think you should just forget him as much as possible and try and move on. You dont need a guy thats going to like you one minute but break up with you in a hot second for his ex. No telling how long he would keep on doing this. Just dont worry about him and try meeting other guys! I know itll be hard but its better than to keep getting hurt.
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how on gods green earth do you kiss??? some instructions wher to put my hands, and what to do with my tounge would help!! hurry i have a date in 2 hours
Hey well.... just follow the guys lead! Put your hands arms around his neck and during the kiss just move them to his face and his stomache!!!
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I recently met a guy at school. EVERY SINGLE TIME I see him in the hallway he says hi. And today, he walked me to my bus. Those are the good signals I'm getting from him. But today, he said hi but walked right past me in the hallway-and he wasn't really in a hurry. I would think if he liked me he would talk to me. And today, he didn't sit near me at lunch. I am getting mixed signals! What do you think?
Well maybe he likes you but is to shy or doesnt want you to know so hes backing down on his signals! BuT you never know! i would talk to him and just see how things go if he acts interested than that could be a realll good thing!
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How do you get someone to like you? Its sounds like a dumb question but i dont know what to do. Whenever i am around a guy and i like him, i have a funny way of showing it. I have never had much luck and never really had a boyfriend who was serious. Do you know what i can do?
Hey well you cant really get someone to like you its up to them to like you or not! but just flirt and be yourself! Make eye contact and dont be shy! Give them signs that your interested and then maybe they will feel the same way!!
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I was just wonderin, what are some obvious hints or nost popular hints that a guy likes you?
WEll heres a few: He stares At you- he says hi to you alot- he asks you to hang out- he flirts- makes eye contact- he smiles- his friends tell him he says good stuff about you! ThosE are pretty good signs that the guy likes you!!!!
*kaylyn*
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okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??
Right now your just soo excited and everything that your with this person but its only been 2 days. I Think right now its probably lust but later on once youve been goin together then you can determine wheter you love him or not!
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There is this boy that i love oh so much and we've been dating for a long time and we both go to different schools. there's this other girl though, that flirts with him alot and im scared of him liking her. what should i do??
Just try and trust him and tell him your feelings and how your feeling- but if you love him then you should know yall both love eachother and that he wouldnt do that to you and you wouldnt do that to him! unless hes like cheated on you or something then you have reason to think that!
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when i was with my boyfriend he said that the song "sunshine" was our song because i was always listenin to it so he started to like it and hes like "baby thats our song okay.." well we broke up Aug.30.04 but we still say "i love you" and things like that but when i hear that song it makes me want him to be mine again and for him to hold me like he used to..what can i do about this?!
well either move on and find a different kind to try and get rid of the feelings and get over him or you can tell him how you feel and maybe get back with him
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I am a freshman in high school...There is this guy in school that I like... his name is nick and well some people say that he likes me tOo. We are talkin all the time and we are each others hoes... yea not really funny but its an inside joke... AnyWayZ. I like him and so does my friend paige but that really doesnt matter... but this girl breanna is like threatin'n me like if I go out with him she is gunna beat me up and I dont know what to do... we are always together and we both told her to leave us alone and she wont... I dont wanna get her mad at me and make her wanna beat my butt... but I like him.... what should I do!
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Erika
hey the other girls sounds like shes all talk! she wont do anything! shes jealous! who cares wut she says go for the guy and forget wut the threats!
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I went out with a guy for about 9 months last year and it was the BEST thing that ever happened he was unbelievable, and I can't even tell you why we broke up because I don't even know why, I was being stupid thinking I didn't like him when I did. I have a problem of deciding to start a relationship because I always am afraid I will meet someone else during one and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but it never happens..i dunno i am just paranoid? It's been abouttt..6 months since we broke up, do you think it's okay to get back together?
Yah its fine to get back together. IF yall both still like eachother then why not! just dont worry about all that other stuff and enjoy being with him! Yall obviously have alot of feelings for eachother or you wouldnt have gone out for 9 months and then 6 months later still have feelings. So i think you should go for it!
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