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I've been in love with a man for the last 3 years. I've never felt such strong feelings for a guy in my life. I believe that he loves me too. The problem is that he's married. I've never crossed the line with him. We've never even kissed but have exchanged loving glances. He knows how I feel and that I've been suffering in silence. We have so much in common and have similiar values.
He has a very rocky marriage. Everyone knows he and his wife arent happy. They work together at a cafe and they fight like cats and dogs. They have nothing in common and I've heard that she has several addictions, including drugs and gambling. They have no kids together but she has two grown children from her first marriage. They don't respect my friend and steal from him. She is abusive to him and takes his money to gamble or spend on cigaretes.
He is a gentleman and a christian and would never ask me to have an affair. I've already told him I don't believe in extra marital affairs because my dad cheated on my mom. But he has never indicated that he wanted to leave her for me. He is very shy and reserved, and sometimes I think he's in denial of his feelings for me, or scared of his feelings for me.
I am young (mid 20's) and have lots of guys after me. But I don't want to date any one because I am in love with my married friend. I don't want to have an affair either. I feel a lot of guilt because after my dad cheated on my mom I vowed to never do what my dad did. What should I do? (link)
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okay sooo... think of it like this. what if those kids do respect him and you just don't know it or think it. i mean i found out that my parents had gotten a divorce when i was little b/c my dad cheated. that was about 7 or 8 years about and i jsut found out. i was young so i understand why they didn't tell me but they still haven't i read it from my older sisters diary that i found. i cried. think of what would happen if they found out. they would start to hate you or worse. try and ruin everything you have with him. don't show the feelings really strong just be there for him.
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today at my sister's house i called my boyfriend and we'll my other sister was having the phone all to herself so when he was talking to his mother my stepsister had hangup on him and after 4 calls he said don't call back. We'll i need to know should i call back in like a week or try to explain it when i get to school. but i have no idea if he is talking to my step sister or he was talking to me. i need help
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ummm.... thats a tuffy! lets see... try and talk to him about it. Maybe he was trying to do something and you kept interupting him. well i guess i will talk to you later!
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just monday my boyfriend and me had a fight.You see on sunday i called him and his sister answered and she was telling me that my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend ericka had a relationship ever since we were going out but she ever found out about are relationship and the next day he was telling me that he was not cheating on me. But i did not believe so i asked his friend that he never lies to if he was telling the truth so he was but because of his past it interfere our relationship and on tuesday he wrote a letter saying that he still liked me and never would cheat on me at the end of the letter he asked if i trust him and i said yes so ever since that day me and him are still going out but now i am still having thoughts if he is still liking any of his ex's but now he is backing away from his friends that are gurls and his ex's. I am wondering if i did the right thing. (link)
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honey dump him or you'll wind up getting hurt even worse. been there and done that!
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okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy? (link)
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its not weird.. i have a friend who is a senior in high school and still hasn't had her first kiss. its fine... i mean you could just be waiting for the right guy. he will come around soon.
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Ok here it is my best friend has a sister who is older but pretty, smart, and funny. Im totly attracted to her. See im 16 and she is 21, we always talk and im always complimenting her on how good she looks. What should i do? I really like her and i do not think age really matters! (link)
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umm... lets see... tell her u like her, tho it is illegal for her to do anything with you. all b/c of your age difference. just tell her how you feel. who knows she could like you. plus if u r a hottie then totally go for her!!
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ok...i went out with this guy for a while on and off then finally we just stopped going out...then one of my friends went out wit him and i wasnt that comfortable at first but then got used to it but still thoguht about him..they broke up for a couple days and i started liking him again..but they got back together..and i still have feelings for him...whut should i do!? (link)
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well.... did she ask you if it was ok to date him?? if not that is so not being a good friend at all. if she was truly your friend she would've asked you. tell him your feelings. girls don't realize it but guys change their minds more than girls do!!
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theres this girl i like and she has a boyfriend . me and her were supposedly supposed to go out but we never did. what should i do about that ...... THeres also this other girl shes smart pretty and seems like my type but i dont know if she has a boyfriend can you help me out with both of these i think i know the outcome of the first one (link)
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OMG!!! eric... who says you don't have a chance with freaking stephanie??? and idk who the other girl is. UGH!!! gee... boi you always have the romance issues besides tiffany. lol. gee lets see... ummm....
1.) Tell the other girl that you like her and stuff. and also tell steph. make sure they both know and then which one comes running first.
ummm... i aint in a mood right now. kinda sad but theres your advice.
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I have a girlfriend right now and i like her, but im not sure if i like her like that right now. theres this other girl that i like and shes not my girlfriend what should i do (link)
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WOAH!! lets see..... i am going through the same thing right now but i LOVE my boyfriend but i like someone else. i would tell you to break up with your girlfriend but it is all up to you. personally if i were a guy, and guys are stupid(no offense), i would break up with my girlfriend.
yall don't even seem like gf and bf to me b/c yall don't sit together and don't talk to each other.
you just might even be better off without each other. you know?
2nd of all???
does this other girl know that you like her? do you know if she has a bf? does she like you?? you need to find out these things if you are going to break up with your gf. you don't wanna do something stupid and ask that girl out and come to find that she doesn't like you.
hope i helped!!!
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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long! (link)
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It more the likely wont work out. sorry....
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I'm in a very long distance realtionship. But I know I love him. Do you think it will work out? (link)
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TIFFANY.... honey... i went through the same. but NOPE it didn't work out. i don't know tyronne and it seems that he just doesn't wanna talk to you at all b.c he never picks up his phone or when he does he says call back in 15 minutes and then falls asleep
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how do you get a girl to fallin love w/ you/ like you? & how do you know if she does like you/ love you? does she like act diffrent then around other people or what..???? (link)
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depends on the girl.... some girls just fall for everything that is romantic just like me. yep! and some girls will play hard to get. if the chick likes you she is deffintely going to act different around you!! trust me take some advice from a girl. i know these things....
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like whats the best way to ask out a girl? what do you say? what do you do leading up to it? (link)
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johnny.... if this chick really likes you you don't have to make this so amazing. first i would tell her my true feelings. she if she likes you that way. and if she does ask her out. and treat her right. if you don't wanna do that then just ask the girl out through a note or in person. leading up to it: that is your job. don't be mean to her or her friends and you might just have a better chance.
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I need help with this girl that i like but she doesnt notice me. how do i get her to notice me?
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well, you could always send her some flowers or something really sweet. like me... i would die for a teddy bear or a sweet gesture like the one on Laguna Beach when Stephen asked Kristin to the whole prom thing. that was cute. and if you don't know what happened here is the story: he wrote her a note and like misspelled her name and made it seem like someone she didn't know. and then he left rose petals down her sidewalk and like when she was calling her friend to tell her what happened he came through the back door and like wrote will you go with me to the prom on his stomache and she said yes to him. just think of something really sweet. any girl will fall for it.
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