hi everyone! Welcome to my advice column. Im KIERA (kee-er-rah) im 19 years old who lives in Newark Nj ( I hate it here)from NY ( or as i love to say)Highschool graduate with a passion for fashion, writing, and of course ADVICE ..I am an inspiring Life Coach, and here to be for you all as well as a ALL around friend. PLEASE feel free to ask me ANYTHING including personal questions about myself or about you,including SEX RELATED, FAMILY ISSUES, FRIEND ADVICE, MENTAL HEALTH, PREGNANCY, DEATH, EDUCATION AND OR JOBS... Im open to everything!!!Im here for YOU and to share my experiences and words of words and courage with you. With Kisses, Kiera XOXOXO
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So my boyfriend and I broke up for about 2 months now and I was begging him to be back with me for a while.. We were together for almost 2 years and we've broken up once before but got back together after 3 months of me trying to see him and convince him. Well lately ive been in no contact with him for a month now and he's always checked my snapchat stories ever since. Suddenly yesterday when i posted a picture of me on instagram of my trophy from tae kwon do competition he liked it right away. What does that like mean? I still have feelings for him but im trying not to hurt myself with high hopes but its hard still. The purpose of me in NC is just for me to heal a bit, improve myself, and ultimately make him miss me.
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You should never do anything to try and make somebody fall back in love with you or notice you in anyway, if you guys keep breaking up then it's obvious something there that isn't meant to be And him liking your picture just simply means he liked it I don't want you to get your hopes up high like you said it's best to play it cool and if he wants to continue the relationship he will contact you. Keep me posted , with love kiera xoxox
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Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do? (link)
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You should sit her down and talk about what EXACTLY is the issue between you both that causes the fighting Write them down even whatever it takes to discuss this. After , try to find ways to NOT fight, not to disrespect & be rude an nasty to each other. Talk and communicate more and never never let each other go a day/days without talking that doesn't do anything but cause a bigger wedge between you too. Good luck & Please keep me posted !
With Love, Kiera xoxo
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So I was at a track meet and saw this guy I've never talked to from another school. My friends noticed he was looking over my way quite a few times. Later I realized we were following each other on twitter, so I'm going to DM (Direct Message) him. What should I say? I know he's a pretty shy guy. Thanks! (link)
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if you are going to dm HIM and knows he\'s shy and yo u kind of are too simply make regular conversation.. maybe a \" Hi, i saw you at the track meet how\'s it going\' or \" Hey i saw you at the track meet and didnt get a chance to say hi somehow we\'re following each other on twitter what a coincidence\" minor flirting try not to over due it. later on in the convo mention he\'s cute etc etc. GOOD LUCK
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I am i girl and i am a young teen. And i am 13 . I have this friend n we watch porn together.. Dont hate. We have been THAT horny that we hump n grind, but with clothes on.. Normally. A couple of time we have done it naked under a cover , n another time we like played with each other not put our finger up just did circles around the top of each others fanny. I enjoyed it tbh n she did to but weve never kissed n we r into boys still. But i REALLY want someone to like finger me but what i would really like is someone to lick me out .. But im definitly not gunna ask her that would be embarrassing . But ive got this other friend that watched porn with me before but not full on porn . N we decieded to play dares but we didnt no what dare each other so i searched it on youtube. I wanted it to come up with like kissing but it didnt. And i havmt had my first kiss yet(emebarrassing..)But i want to be able to kiss somebody. Im sorry for being long i just need some advice so pleeeaase help me :) thankyou xxxx (link)
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AT 13 its experimenting what you like and dont. You say you both are into boys still then you are NOT a full on lesbian you can be concidered Bi-sexual (liking both girls and boys) if you are sexually attracted to girls and want to go further think it through and talk to your friend about it first dont pressure her to do anything, I being a Lesbian myself am glad to give you this advice at 13 i too was experimenting and there\'s nothing wrong with that. If you want to kiss this girl then ask before doing so to not cause any friction between you too. GOOD LUCK , with KISSES, KIERA XOXOXOX
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yesterday I did not actually have sex with ma galfrand and ma dick was not really inside but it was somewhere near and I did not ejaculate is t possible for her to get preg please help (link)
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IF your penis was NOT INSIDE her and you both did NOT have sexual intercourse then NO it is not possible for her to be pregnant if your sperm did NOT enter her Vagina GOOD LUCK!
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Is it possible & worth cleaning the slate & restarting a 15yr relationship when he has cheated & lied about it to your face for 6yrs that you know of! And you ALWAYS believed him when you ask him questions,and he also tries to avoid or stay on the question. Basically BROKE my trust & faith in him! And other issues in relationship but KNOWS he cares & have tried to breakup before but ALWAYS drawn back! THERE IS A COSMIC LIKE CONNECTION BETWEEN US lim 35 he is 37 (link)
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NO! if for 15 years 6 of them he has put you through all of that then let it go. Regardless if you love him and care about him vice versa DOESNT mean you both are meant to be. He broke the trust and faith , sometimes thats a deal breaker , at 35&37 you both should just move on to see what else could possibly be out there. I think you should weigh your options GOOD LUCK!
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I'm 19 and he's 27. We've been dating for 4 months, we're in love and I can't picture my future without him. Though, I'm afraid problems will occur regarding our age difference. Not so much what people think and say, more of me worrying if it will cause problems between us.
Whenever we go grocery shopping, he can't buy alcohol with me. I can't go with him to any event that is serving alcohol. It makes me feel utterly indifferent, I have 3 more years until I can drink. That's just one problem that has occurred regarding the age difference.
I would just like know, do any of you fellow Yahoo users know of any cliche and or very real situations that can occur because of a vast age difference in a relationship? I'm not looking for relief, I would just like to know of what could come and prepare for it. (link)
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what could possibly happen is that he will 1. get annoyed by not being able to go places with you because of age 2. start to feel embarrassed because of your age or 3. allow his friends/family to make him think you are the wrong girl for him.......... in my Opinion your age is no issue. drinking should not be the main topic of a relationship, if he wants to drink or go out for drinks take his friends and just understand that you cannot. if he loves you and really wants this relationship to work he\'ll he okay. GOOD LUCK. With Kisses, Kiera XOXOX
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Ok so i need advice so me and my gf been together for bout 3 years well on and off and we have a beautiful 2 year old son i love him to death well me and gf have talked about getting married and etc.. but i feel da same way but idk like we argue a hell of alot and she dont trust me and i dont trust her but its not really dat i recently talked to my ex that i dated in 2009 to 2011 and we was sooo in love but it was long distance so we never seen each other in person but we video chatted all da time so now that i got a good job and able to pay for da trip see her now and idk what to to be honest she was da only girl i ever trusted and she knew better den anybody and we had so much in common but now all i think about is what if i had seen her just once in person how wud it been like wen i talked to her tonight we both just lit up and just talked bout how we used to be and we broke up cause we was far away but i wanna know if i should go or not like i know if i tell my gf she just gonna get emotional but i just wanr this thought to be gone out my head please help (link)
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If you really love and care about your current gf, then try to make THAT relationship work first.. try to trust each other and express how you feel about getting married etc. As far as the EX goes.. she\'s an EX for a reason even though it was because it was long distance it wasnt meant to last, and I get it you have thoughts of what if\'s but look at it this way IF you and your EX was to work out like you say you would not have your 3 year old son, so i think it is not so good to dwell on the past however if you speak to your GF and tell her that you simply want to just meet this girl then go from there. DO NOT do anything behind your GF back that can possibly hurt your relationship. GOOD LUCK...with Kisses, KIERA xoxox
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