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Hey my name is Ellie :) I'm 16 years old from Staten Island, New York. I'm a pretty laid back and nice person :D or well.. at least I think so lol. So feel free to ask me anything, I'll try my best to answer your questions. If I don't know the answer, I'll do some research and send you all the links I can find to help you. Also feel free to add my aim or msn account, I talk to anyone. Thanks!

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14/female
ok, i dont think a guy had ever liked me,well aleast i never knew it so i want a guy to like me. any tips or ideas?? i know flirting is a sure way but after a while you have to step it up....

Well there are tons of magazines that have articles like "10 easy ways to get a guy to notice you" blah blah. Personally, I think you should just be yourself and do what feels natural to you. Don't try too hard that you're humiliating yourself every time you're around guys, Just go with the flow and things will just seem.. right. You know? But yeah flirting is a sure way to get a guy to like you. It shows that you're interested. Plus if a guy already likes you and you flirt with him then it'll let him know that it's okay to make the move. There are other ways to get a guy to like you as well. Ask questions about him. Like whats his favorite music, movies, tv shows, hang out spots, ect. It's an easy way to find something you two both have in common. From there you should begin to build a friendship which if you play your cards right, will eventually turn into a relationship and so on. So I hope I helped and good luck ;)


- Ellie

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When my b.f. and I started dating, I knew that he had dated several girls before me, and I asked him for all of the pictures he had of him w/ ex's. He willingly obliged, and b/c I tend to be a little bit jealous, I ripped them up, used the toilet on them, and flushed them away. He never asked me if I kept them or destroyed them and I didn't say a thing about what I did. Now one of his ex's killed herself...and he asked me for the pics of him and her back? What do I do now? What do I tell him?

Oh wow... That is brutal. Well you should be completely honest with him. Tell him what you did and apologize for it. Lying will only dig the hole deeper. Just tell him how sorry you are for what you did and that it was only because you were jealous. I'm sure he'll understand. But if he doesn't, Then just let him cool down about it and then try to talk to him about it. I hope everything works out for you two and I hope I helped somewhat lol. Good luck!


- Ellie

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ok so im talking to this guy. he is known to be a player some what. not really a player but like he will talk to girls and jus drop em and go to the next one. i have talked to him before and he did that to me and we are now talking again. but this time it seems like he's changed. like at first he acted the same way but now he seems really genuine and wants to hang out all the time and tells me he likes me and cares about me which he has never told me before.
should i believe him or still believe hes player?
i know thats not much decription but .....

Well time changes and so do people. Maybe he's changed for the better, or maybe he hasn't. It really depends on if you like him enough to go through what he put you through last time. Not saying he will, Just saying that you should do what you think will be better for you. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

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16/m.

K to start off, my girlfriend of two weeks broke up with me about three weeks ago this friday (aka the week after homecoming..). I took it as a low blow because the monday after she broke up with me she had a new boyfriend (WTF?!) I was infuriated, and he isn't the nicest of guys (pot head). ANYWAYS, I got over it and I started to like this girl who has liked me for a while now. And I asked her out and we're currently dating. Im just wondering if it was too early for me to get back into a relationship? I mean the girl Im dating now is amazing and I wouldn't give her up for anyone, but was me rushing into another relationship a bad decision?

Some people move on faster than others. It really just depends on when you feel you're ready to move on to another person. But just make sure it's what you really want and that you're not just doing it to get your ex girlfriend jealous. Using people is never okay. Hope I helped :)


- Ellie

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14/f
I have been dating my boyfriend for about a week now. The only thing is that i have a moustache that is sorta dark and a lot of people notice it i'm sure. It's really embarrising because i don't want him to see it. I can't do anything about it. I'm not gonna wax, shave or bleach it. What do i do? I'm scared that he will be grossed out by it and break up with me. Help!

Well You guys have been dating a week already and I'm sure you've known each other before you started to date, which would mean he's probably noticed it already since you say that it's pretty noticeable. But since he's still dating you and still likes you apparently, You really shouldn't try to change it. He likes you the way you are now, Don't try to impress him or feel that you need to change the way you look just to be with him. Relationships are about loving the person the way you met them and loving them for the person they are now. Just keep in mind that he'll always like you, even if you did bleach or shave or wax (which btw is a pain after you do it the first time, It keeps growing back and it's just annoying). Hope I helped :)

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