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Question Posted Thursday October 16 2008, 11:36 am

When my b.f. and I started dating, I knew that he had dated several girls before me, and I asked him for all of the pictures he had of him w/ ex's. He willingly obliged, and b/c I tend to be a little bit jealous, I ripped them up, used the toilet on them, and flushed them away. He never asked me if I kept them or destroyed them and I didn't say a thing about what I did. Now one of his ex's killed herself...and he asked me for the pics of him and her back? What do I do now? What do I tell him?


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Exquisitechick answered Thursday October 16 2008, 4:27 pm:
Well first off you need to realize that what you did was extremely childish and uncalled for. Once, you realize that, you have two choices..

You can either tell him the truth, and explain why you did it.

OR

You can just tell him that you misplaced them and you dont remember what happened to them, and that your sorry.

Being that this is a tough situation, those are your only options...other than making up another story.

GOOD LUCK!

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Sunshine_Ellie answered Thursday October 16 2008, 2:43 pm:
Oh wow... That is brutal. Well you should be completely honest with him. Tell him what you did and apologize for it. Lying will only dig the hole deeper. Just tell him how sorry you are for what you did and that it was only because you were jealous. I'm sure he'll understand. But if he doesn't, Then just let him cool down about it and then try to talk to him about it. I hope everything works out for you two and I hope I helped somewhat lol. Good luck!


- Ellie

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