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i am basically clue less right now. everyone is against me going otu with my boyfriend. i dont know why but i have been with him for 7 months. that is a long time but i have been putting up with it but for the past week or so my bf has been telling how can you claim somthing that you dont see or touch often.. i noe this is kinds of pothedic but i have only seen my bf like 10 times in 7 months. it is makin me thing about everything my best friend has been telling me about how i should leave him and move on. i LOVE my boyfriend to death. i would do anything for him. he is my best friend and lover. it hurts so much knowing that everyone dis aprroves of us. from family to friends. mostly bc i am whtie and he is black but what hurts more is that i feel like i dont even have his trust. he says it isnt me but it is how mcuh he has been hurt in the past that is why he thinks i do stuff wit other guys there. and lately i have been thinkin about it but never can bc i love him so much. i dont know what to do. and what scary is the other day (4 days ago) someone called his cell but he put the house phone down so i wouldnt hear what it said but idk if it was a girl or guy. and it scarys. what do i do? i am sorry this is long but i need advice bc this is burnin me to hold it all in my heart. (link)
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I think you should let him go.this is a quote "if you love someone let them go,if they return to you it was meant to be,if they don't their love was never yours to begin with." so juss think about it if he returs to you the love for you is true.if he doesn't it was never really real.but if u think he's the love of your life stay with him
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you know the guy tuckermen well my mom a long time ago before she meet my father she would go to a bar and get into bed wiht guy because she needed someone to love her but shes canged .i dont wanna be like that but am i seling myself sort i dont think i can do any better and i think im also a negitive person .when i d something i think of bad thigs that will happen if i do that and nothing good and i hate that and my freind kayliegh she 13 too shes into older guys 15 older doesnt madder how old well id ontthink 30 but and i think tukermen has feelings for her and im thinking what about his girlfreind .
how do i stop from sellling myself sort and is my BEST FRIEND a slut???i dont think she is but i really confused and do you have yahoo you seem cool and i think your really good at your advice .im 13 and female if its not overus (link)
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well your mothers past is her past it's her mistakes not yours.your mothers past should also not interfere with yours cause your,your own person.I'm not trying to judge her but why would you try to find love at a bar.if you do that you'll only get hurt in the process.look guys at bars and clubs are just in it,to hit it to quit it.you don't want anybody like that you want somebody to love you for who you are.that doesn't hurt your feelings that doesn't make you cry cause they hurt your feelings.looks aren't every thing in a person I know I might sound stupid but do you want a good looking guy who hurts your feelings and makes you cry cause he's constantly hurting your feelings,or do you want a guy who is not that good looking,but not the uglyest in the world treat you like his queen and makes you actually experience what true love is.a guy who will do anything for you cause he truly loves you.it's ok to be a little negetive because that shows you think of consequences,thats how I am like if I want to do something bad I think of the worst thing that would happen and then when I do.I ask myself if I can deal with it if it does happen,but if you feel like you are to negative try to change it tell your self ok I need to stop this cause it's making me unhappy.well I really don't know your friend to tell if she is a slut maybe she just likes mature guys and thats why she goes out with older guys.and if he likes your friend hes not worth shit cause I bet you your better than her.and yes I do have yahoo and thanks about my advice.o and if I didn't answer a ? just ask me again cause I really didn't have very much time to write you back.I was busy ok well I hope I helped you chick
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Ok theres this boy and i really like him but theres this girl i have known since ever and she is such s butthead cause like everytime i tell her who i like she goes and starts flirting and stuff with him! it makes me so mad! and after awhile she ends up goin out with him and she goes and rubs it in my face i cant take it anymore! and this has happened with every single guy! does anyone have any ideas for me to get noticed or asked out by this guy? (link)
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well first of all don't tell your friend that you like him cause some how she always ends up being with your crushes.well don't be as easy as your friend cause thats how she sounds to me don't be all up on him like she usually is on all your crushes.don't you know that guys want what they can't have.they like a competition.look you have something your friend doesn't have thats respect well if you don't have that you have it now j/p.just don't be like her all over guys cause to tell you the truth to much of that is annoying.
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ok when my grade started i saw this guy named tuckermen and i thought that i was head over heels for him but my friend feels the same all about him and i felt like im competing for him .
and about 2 months ago i found out that he didnt like me only like a kinda friend and i was ok with that and i stop flirting with him everything i cut off all feelings for him.but now i donno i have now started flurting wiht him but i cant help that i do that with every guy now .and everytime he says anything like you still like me dont you i always say NO but im not sure i wanna not like him he called me fat witch i am but im going on a diet to lose wieght and what i hate is i now have started to care what people thought of me and uh i dont care i'd do anything in public who cares what people think but if hes in the croud i couldnt id be making a complete fool of myself and i just wana tel everyone in the would to kiss my ass but uh i dont wanna like him i wanna hate him i wanna tell everyone i still dont like him without lieing but i cant what do i do i cnat stop thinking about him and no one knows at all they think that i think thats tucker is dirt and i wanna think that and for a month ive hated him but why do i think that i still like him i think i love him but im only 13 i couldnt and he doenst fell the same way and im never ganna cange myself for a guy but i cnat help but try i wanna see what will happen and this is wierd and i belive in zodiac things so bear with me
When a down-to-earth Taurus and a dreamy Pisces come together, they often find harmony. Level headed Taurus is more grounded and has a mind for what is important in life. Day-dreaming Pisces can show Taurus how to reach for the stars. Together they have balance. Pisces is the balloon – always floating around in the clouds. Taurus is the string, grounding it back to earth. What would one be without the other?
im the Pisces but what do i do i showed this to kayliegh the one taht likes him and she flipped her lid and tucker has a 9th grader as a girlfriend i think he wouldnt dump her for me .kayliegh seems to be so jelouse and i dont think she wants to trade and ive had dreams about me and him nothing sexual but nice dreams only like kissing and i kno it will never happen and why am i so negitve im goofy around my friends but if im planning to do somthing wroung i think of what will happen so i plan on not to do it and if i plan on doing somthing good i think oof somthing bad thatw ill come out of it and im 13 girl and thank you for reading this im sorry its so long but trust me i cut it down !!!!!!!! HELP i rate high all 5s promiss anything .::katie::. help help help (link)
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ok well why do you want something that every one else does.just forget about him I know it might be hard but it's for the best,trust me.this guy seems like a real jerk if he really cared about you or at least your feelings he shouldn't of said that what a freaken ass.look you don't need this guy and you also don't need an other enemy,so don't hate him cause if you do imagine what he will call you behind your back and you don't want anybody talking mess about you.just ignore him when he talks to you or if you wanna talk to him just cut your replys short when he talks to you like yes,no,ok,thats fine,something like that.then he'll be like man whats up with her is she mad at me,what did I do.did I hurt her feelings.you'll be on his mind if you do something like that. just give him the cold shoulder then people will be like hey may be she's right she doesn't like him anymore.well I hope I helped you at least just a little.If you did like what I told you,you can ask me more question I'll help
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!
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I really don't think you should cause first of all it's only been a month and what if you get him something and he doesn't,then he'll feel bad cause he didn't get you anything and what if ya'll brake up and you end up hating him you'll be like man why did I spend my money on this jerk he was just a waste of time.so just don't just to be on the safe side maybe when it's a little longer you should think about it ok chick
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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?
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well this had happened to me.people were shocked when they found out that I was going out with this guy because I uasually go out with pretty good looking guys,but I didn't care what they thought as long as I knew how I felt about him.The first few weeks of your relationship will be kinda hard but then every one will just get used to seeing ya'll together and they'll get over it.look you shouldn't care what people think of you,after high school you probably will never see them again so all that hard work on trying to put an act will just be a waste of time.well I hoped I helped you just a little.well if you need anything else you can go to my advice column and ask
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So now that me and my boyfriend are broken up, I'm wondering, when I should start to ease into flirting again? I dont want to immeadiatly jump into it since it's shallow and I know I should wait. Plus can anyone name interesting places to meet new guys? (Besides the mall, I dont get to go there often) Thanks & I'll rate. (link)
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well why look for some one,let love find you.why do you want to jump into another relationship so quickly.just wait for some guy that you really like so you won't be wasting your time and you know that you won't be.do you get me.like don't just go for any guy wait for that special one not your soul mate but one that makes you feel all warm and good inside.what I'm trying to say be with a guy you don't just like.be with one you'll know you'll love
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This boy I was going out with says we should be just friends because he thinks we are too young to be going out(we are both 13). So we have been talking more as friends than we have when we were going out but when we talk he seems annoyed of me and whenever i ask to hang out as friends he comes up with an exuse. I dont know why I am really confused. (link)
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I'm sorry chick but it seems like he just wants to be friends.If he wanted to be with you he would me trying to call you and just trying to get your attention if he really did.o you know what may be he does want to be with you,but hes not allowed to date yet.but who knows guys are confusing only they know what there talking about.well just ask him if hes allowed to date if he can't then theres your answer
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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
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well I think that you kinda answered your question if your wondering if you should end the relationship thats saying you should.if you don't want to. tell him your getting bored that ya'll need to do more stuff to get the spark back.and if you really like your boyfriend you'll stop flirting with other guys,but you know why your flirting with other guys because he's not satisfing you enough so if you just fix that little problem everything will be fine.just say something like this"look this is kinda hard for me to say but I feel like our relationship is not the same from when we started to go out I feel like we lost our spark,like I want you to be more affectionate.I want you to be more loving towards me"
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The only boy Id ever want to be with is like eight hours away. I want him. I dont think i could live if I didnt at least talk to him. I called him last night. His voice is magical. Sooo cute. Hes completly gorgeous. And hes so nice. Why cant more guys be just like him ? Its not fair. When I talked to him I hung up right away. But I couldnt help it. Just the sound of his voice left me totally speechless. So you think fourteens to young to be in love ? You think just becasue were so far apart its not love ? You think wrong. He told me he loved me. I believe him. Hes not the kind of person who would just say that to anybody. UGH ! HES SO GODDAMN CUTE ! I hate this year. He is absolutley ah-mazing. Hes friends with my friends cousin. Unfortunatly not close enough friends to be invited on road trips up here. What am I supposed to do. Hes really cute. And he always makes fun of me and stuff.. but not in a mean way. You can tell hes trying to be cute because he always calls me a loser with a :) put after it. Why cant I get him out of my head ? I think about him everynight all night. Im so confused. (link)
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I feel The same way about this guy he's constantly on my mind.He's never out of my mind every morning I wake up I think about him if he's still sleepin or if he's thinking about me too.I don't think were to young to be in love I think thats stupid cause were human to we all have feelings.I think your in love cause that how I feel.I'm crazy about him I just want the whole world to know.well just get the courge to actually have a real conversations with him on the phone don't hang up.just be like hey whats up I just wanted to call to see how you've been it feels like I haven't talked to you in years and I was just wondering what was going on in your life.do something like that I bet you it'll work
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OK, My best friend Melissa (yeah, that's right lol) introduced me to her cousin, Nate who turned out to be a GREAT guy. And then on my birthday, Nate asked me out! So we've been going out, and just recently he came to visit Melissa for Christmas (he lives in Indiana, and i live in Pennsylvannia), and he's still in town. Infact, he was supposted to come over today with Melissa. Now, Tuesday in the morning he's leaving. And i'm really sad, because i LOVE this kid. I have NEVER felt like this. I'm in love, i think! And he has to go back, but i've been thinking about it, and my dad knows alot of people in Indiana, and maybe we could go visit? maybe he could come down more, but i dont know how to ask his parents you know? Cause Nate said the next time he might come down was this SUMMER! I love this guy, and i want to be with him always. So what do i do? Does anyone know how to deal with this???????????????!!!!!! (link)
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well there really isn't anything to do but to wait because you can't go over there without your parents and he can't come till the summer and sorry chick but summers a few months away.just wait for him if you say that you love him.I know it's hard because you don't get to see him as much as you want to,but you'll make it.talk to him on the phone but it will be pretty expensive to,or write to him thats not expensive.tell your friend melissa may be she can help you see him.I hope I helped
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ive been dating my boyfriend for a long time now, a year and a half almost and he still makes excuses to his friends. his friends say he hangs out w/ me too much. when im over and a friend calls, he wont tell them im over. his friends will invite him over and ill be at his house and he will say "let me ask" and he will put the phone down and wait then pick it up and say hes not allowed, he wont ask cuz im over. why doesnt he just tell his friends that hes with me? why does he have to hide it? he is really good at telling lies.... but i KNOW he doesnt lie to me. (link)
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well he's probably embaressed because he thinks his homeboys will rag on him cause he's always with you.it's ok I guess if he did that once in a while but not all the time.I would understand it if he did it once in a while.but talk to him let him know how your feeling about that.when he does that again stop him right then and there and tell him why are you lieing to your friends when your with me.are you embarresed to be with me or what I want to know.ask him something like that.well I hope I helped you at least just a little
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