Hey y'all! Im Erica. I'm a varsity baskettball cheerleader for Chattahoochee High. (Go Cougars!) I like starbucks, rain (acually just water in general), shopping, going to movies, hanging out with friends, strawberries, the wind, summer vacation, and traveling! :D
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im a guy and my friend thats a girl hasn't been talking to me much, but then about a day ago she just randomly got all mad at me about this thing i had with another girl and she called me and yelled at me for like 10 minutes. shes really mad about something i did with this girl, which isnt even that bad, and isnt talkingto me at all now. first of all, do you know whats wrong with my friend? second, is there anything i should do to get my friend back... id rather have her than the girl and i dont know whether i should apologize or what. any ideas? (link)
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its pretty obveous what's wrong with your friend...shes really jealous. she probably has feelings for you that you may or may not have known about and when she found out you had something with another girl, it probably hit her really hard. i could be wrong, but that's the way it seems.
there are alot of things you could do to get your friend bad. including calling her and apoligizing, asking her how she feels and why she got upset, telling her you wouled rather have her than the other girl (but maybe didn't know she was an option?)
good luck :)
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alright well i dont relly like n e one right now, but this really nice guy likes me a lot and he seems like he cares. hes decent looking and all, do you think i should go out with him? what do u think i shud do? (link)
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if you don't really like him dont go out with him. that would be leading him on and thats never a good thing to do. don't even go out with him in the mindset "i don't like him now, maybe with time i will" stay friends for now and if and when you start having more feelings for him, then go ahead and date him. :)
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hey i think your the most beautiful girl ive ever met, and im starting to like you, what do you think i should do? lol (link)
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i think you should def. let me know who you are and then we'll see. ;)
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Now that you are single, who is the next lucky guy? (link)
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haha that is a good question. but i dont yet have an answer. i'll get back to you on that.
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do you believe that if you try hard enough you can get someone to like you or do you think that people just like eachother and if not, too bad? (link)
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I think thats its possible to get people to like you. you can't try too hard...but just by being yourself, maybe the other person will grow to like you in time. :)
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building on that last guys question, whats the biggest turn on that drives you crazy? (link)
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haha ummm...when a guy isnt afraid to be a little affectionate in public. like if im standing there and he comes and puts his arms around me from behind or picks me up and hugs me... lol. little things like that.
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what kind of things would sweep a girl off her feet without being stalkerish; just something to get her attention if you dont know her really well (link)
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be nice, make your presense known. make sure she can't miss you. be really nice, go and talk to her. be a little flirty. offer up your jacket if she's cold, and when she tries to refuse it, don't let her. let her catch you watching her, and when she does catch you, smile. you have to stand out in the crowd. set yourself apart by being really nice and sweet to her. hope it works out :)
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(guy) i just met this girl right before xmas break and she is the most amazing person ive ever met. she plays the same sport as me and shes hardcore christian (me 2) and shes funny and cool and extremely beautiful and everything. right now were just friends but everyone likes her and is going for her but she always tells me shes not into those kids cause theyre all full of themselves...and advice on when/how i could get her to go out? (link)
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Try asking her to do something that both of y'all would enjoy. I dont know if your church has a youth group that meets regularily, but maybe try inviting her to go with you sometime or if your youth group does outings, invite her on one of those. Let her know that you're intereseted by dropping small hints and see how she responds to them. Be yourself and show her how you feel and ask her to do something both of y'all are interested in. Another thing you could try is find tickets to the sport both of y'all do (if that's an option, i dont know what y'all do) If you're ready to ask her out now, go for it because if you wait too long she may think y'all are "just friends" and go out with someone else. good luck. :)
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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try thinking about the reasons y'all broke up or the negatives of y'alls relationship. it might help you get over him. when you only remember the good things, you start missing him but by reminscing on the more negative things, you will remember why y'all broke up and why it may not have worked out. :)
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i know it's early to be worrying about this, but having an idea will help me sleep at night. really. haha.
i've been with my boyfriend for two months now. i've never had a boyfriend for valentine's day. do i give him anything? if so, what?
also, what would you expect to get FROM a guy?
thanks so much. (link)
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if y'all are still going out, you should give him something. but it doesnt need to be anything expensive. make him a build-a-bear or something like that if theres something like that around where you live. another good idea is to make one of those no-sew fleece blankets. :)
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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x (link)
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If he smokes, you will most definetly taste cigarette when y'all kiss but thats about it, you won't get any type of cancer from it, thats only if he smokes around you. :)
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I love my boyfriend to death but lately he's kinda I don't know how to say it. He's got this little mustache thingy and his hair needs cut and he doesn't wear cologne. How can I tell him about this without hurting him? (link)
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you don't even need to tell him. you can just do little things that will give him the hint. for example, (i did these things, but not for the same reason as you because my boyfriend likes to look clean/fresh) for x-mas or his birthday, buy him some cologne, he'll realize you like it and will wear it, at least when he's around you. and what i did once, not because he was getting a little scruffy but because he had missed a few hairs when he shaved, is i plucked it. just be like "hold still a sec, you have a hair that's really long" and just grab and yank it. it'll hurt him a little and maybe he'll take the hint. :)
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i`ve been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months and we dated last year for a few months. But i dont know if i can trust him anymore though. he hasnt done anything i just dont have the same secure feeling that i can trust him. (link)
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try talking to him. it may be that y'all are just growing distant. and that happens, sadly. i don't know y'alls specific circumstances but i know i had a while where i didn't really tell my boyfriend anything because we'd always talk late at night and i didnt want to get into something and then have one of us have to go to bed before the conversation was done but it wasn't that i couldnt trust him, it was that there just wasnt the time. could that be the case maybe? the best thing you can do is talk to him about it and see if that helps you figure anything out. :)
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You know how most girls like dating guys that are older than them. Some girls at my school like dating younger guys. And I was just wondering how many years apart do you think is 'too old' or 'too young' to date?
-13/f if your wondering
-Sorry I didn't know what to put this under. (link)
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in high school usually one year older or younger is a safe limit. or one grade level. it gets a little weird when freshmen are dating juniors or seniors. :)
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hey this is a quistion for all those guys out there-
do you prefer girls with or without makeup? thanks:-) (link)
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i think that guys either a)don't know the difference, or b)don't care. lol. once i didnt wear makeup when i was with my boyfriend and i told him i wasn't wearing any, and he said he couldn't tell. but...if you wear alot of makeup you look like a mask. makeup's a good way to bring out your natural beauty without covering it up so if it's applied correctly, and with the right colors for you, you will look gorgeous, and guys will notice that there's something different, even if they don't know what that something is. :)
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i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me too but somtimes i feel as though he s lying to about little simple things like why he couldn't come over , y he couldnt call back just little things, i trust him and i love him,sometimes i feel like his love for me is fading away he said he still cares and he loves me but he makes things so difficult between us, hes changed a lot but not in a way that i would want him to change i talked to him about it, and he said he was going to make things better and that was days ago. but there hasnt been a change yet. what should i do? please help i dont want to lose him (link)
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try talking to him again and saying that if there isn't a change, you will take control of the situation and that may not be to his advantage. if he really loves and cares about you, he won't want to loose you. or find a time where u can sit down in person and talk about everything that's been going on with both him and you and try to identify what could've changed. :)
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theres two guys who like me...
my ex-boyfriend and my neighbor i'm not sure which one to ask out becuase with my ex-bf i would only see him once every two weeks or something but i really like him but then my neighbor is 2 houses down and i really like him too but he stayed back and it would seem like i'm going out with someone whos not my age.
So which guy do i chose? (link)
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if your considering not dating your neighbor because your afraid of how it will make you look because he's in a lower grade, you shouldnt be even going after or wondering about him. and just because you only see someone once every two weeks doesnt mean it can't work. you both just have to be willing to make it work and to see eachother whenever possible...and if that is only once every two weeks, then take what you can get. :)
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Ok so i don't know whats wrong with me! its been like a year since i saw my x bf and i am beginning to miss him. Everytime i think i miss him.. ok but i don't understand why because he was horrible to me! he did not care for me. He never even gave me a card for my birthday but i miss him. What shall i do, I don't think i want to talk to him again because i want him 2 miss me. But im not sure if he does!! help. (link)
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you probably don't miss him as much as you miss having a boyfriend. so try and move on, find someone else who can treat you better. and who can care for you. :)
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My boyfriend & I recently french kissed for the first time. I know I'm not one to talk, but he wasn't all that good. I probably wasn't either but for some reason it seemed like his goal was to shove his tongue as far in my mouth as possible. I heard our tongues were supposed to "dance" (well, I read that in an article) but it felt the whole time that mine was kind of stuck there. Any advice? How can I hint to him some new techinique? How can we both get better at it? (link)
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lead him. take control. fight back if you have to. lol. he probably doesnt know any better or what he's doing, so hes just doing what he thinks is right. its up to you to discreetly change that, and its not a hard thing to do. :)
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ok im in 8th grade but at my sisters school in West Virgnia ( i live in PA) you can go in 7th grade. and this guy asked me to go with him just as friends...and i have a boyfriend.and im going to ask my boyfriend first but i was wondering how to bring it up if u absoulty doesnt want me going im not going to go but i honestly dont think hes gonna care..but i dont know how to ask him?? any ideas?!?! EASY FIVE HERE!!! (link)
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just say it as a suggestion to your boyfriend. like hey i was thinking about going to homecoming at my sisters school, and somebody asked me. are you ok with that? make sure you tell him/he knows that your not going to do anything or cheat on him and if your completely honest with him from the start he will be more open to it. :)
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