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I love helping people out when they are down in a bad situation or are even just upset and need someone there to talk to or to listen. I can help out with anything you need, no matter what it is, and even if I can't help out good with the situation I will still be there to listen or atleast try to help out. I am also very open and nonjudgemental so feel free to tell me or ask me anything you need.
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Hi my name is Michael and my best friend has been hitting on my girlfriend (who i love more then life it self) I need to know what to do cause my friend(ben) wont stop hitting on her and he knows that i'm dating her and she dosent let him touch her but he cant take a hint can you help me out Julie.
Hey Michael, situations like that are extremely hard to deal with. What I would do is confront him and let him know how you feel and whats up ya know even if its just like hey Ben your my best friend and I love my girlfriend why are you doing this. The only way he will know how you feel is if you are honest with him. Then if he decides not to listen to you then hes not as good a friend as he says. Well good luck!! If you need anything else feel free to drop me a msg.
What if you think your falling for your best friend and its not a guy and you know she BI do u tell her how you feel? or what Help i kno this sounds gay but please help!!
Well if you think you like her then yes you should tell her. With her being bi she will be sure to understand. Whether people think its right or wrong is their problem you're not supposed to help who you like. So if you like her you do so I say tell her and possibly you will find the person you are meant to be with. GOOD LUCK!!
Do you think its wrong for a tenth grader to like a seventh grader even if the seventh grader is supposed to be in eighth grade? Im a female tenth grader and theres this male seventh grader thats hella kewl....what do you think?
I don't think there is anything wrong with that at all. You aren't supposed to help who you like. So go for it. GOOD LUCK!!
I broke up with my BF at this dance we have in my city...this was only because he was dancing with other girls....(girl) and I was jealous, so I broke up with him, but I have been walking with him and I really really like him a LOTTT!!!!!!!!
what should I do???
If you tell him that you want to sit down and talk. If just the two of you do and you confront him about your jealousy maybe you can work things out and get back together. GOOD LUCK!!
Hey! As you all probably know, Valentines day Is coming soon! And I need to Know what to get my boyfriend he's 16, but he'll be 17 in April. So I would just like some of your ideas. We have been together over a year. I had alot of good ideas but I got his a lot of the stuff for our One Year Anniversary! So If I could have some good Ideas that would be great. And If you are a guy who has gotten something that you really like from a girl- tell me! Or if you are a girl who has gotten something for a guy that he really liked! thansk so much!
I'll Rate 4 or 5!
:)
God Bless You!
*KeLsA*
Hey kelsa, one thing I have done in the past for my boyfriend for valentines day was: a card, bear of some-sort, and just a little treat like candy or chocolate. He liked it a lot. I hope this gives you an idea, I know its classic but it works. GOOD LUCK!! (or even a single red rose is always meaningful)
well with valentines day coming up i was soo confused on what to get muh boyfriend of 2 months. and i was thinking about doing this for him but i don't know if its stupid soo im asking you ppl for input! ok well here... at the beginning of the day im gonna go to his locker and hang out with him and act really bored! and then when i see him at the end of the day im gonna tell him that i really need to talk to him and its important and just to call me when he gets home. and im gonna hand him a note and that he has to read it when he gets home! and the note is going to be about how much i really do love him and care about him... does that sound like an ok thing to do for valentines day? and for the guys tell me what you would do if ur gf did this for you! thanks bunches
I think that sounds like an adorable idea. I think he will like it. GOOD LUCK!!
i was really good friends with this sophomore named ryan (im a freshman) and we have started talking since the summer. the guy im dating now (kyle) and my friend ryan are best friends. well at least they were. ever since me and kyle have been dating ryan's been a real dick to kyle and telling him that i've been cheating on him n im using (and IM NOT). and ryan keeps telling me that he loves me and that he really cares about me. and just recently he told me that he really likes me. is this just an act of jealousy or does he just want me to go out with him?
Honestly it could be either. He could be jealous that his best friend is dating someone and hes not. Or he could actually love you and want to be with you. The only real way to find out the truth would be to confront him and ask him what it is. GOOD LUCK!!
I'm 17 yrs old and me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months and i love her alot. i've been pouring out my feelings to her, tellin her how much i love her n everything, but i dont feel like she feels the same way.. what do i do? i dont wanna dump her cuz i love her alot..
The only way to find the answer to that question is to sit down with her and ask her. If you talk to her and tell her how you feel than it should at least answer your question or give you some closure to those feelings. and who knows maybe she does love you back but is just scared because it could be a first love for her. Just let her know you love her and that no matter what you always will. GOOD LUCK!!
heyy! i wentout this this guy who was basicly my 1st real boyfriend..we broke up about a year ago, but though crushes and boyfriends have come and gone since then, i cant keep him off my mind! is it just a "1st love" kinda thing? i need help!
With him being your first 'real' boyfriend it probably just is the 'first love' kind of thing whether it was even love or not. Your first will always remain there, that doesn't mean that you will always have feelings for him. It does take time to move on, but it will happen.
isit true that girls that dont grow up with any type of male figure in their life wil often cling to a possible male figure that pays alittle attention to them ?
srry if it doesnt make sence..
It can be true, it does vary between people. But many girls do look for that male figure, sometimes because they feel abandoned or feel that it will fill a hole in their life.
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i'm fourteen in the eighth grade and he's a year older we met when i was going into sixth grade and he was going into seventh i rem. my friend wanted to go out with him and i thought he was ugly but after she dumped him i started to think he was cute so then i had a friend ask him out for me **cuz i was still immature girl** and so he said yes and we went out for about a month we broke up for a couple weeks went out for two broke up went back and so on and so fourth all together i'd say we went out about 7 times and now that i got my head on straight and were not going out anymore i realize how badly i miss him and i really wanna go out again i feel he's perfect for me we pretty much like a lot of the same things i told him i regret breaking up with him and if he'd give me another chance i would be more a girl friend instead of a friend whose a girl i'm just not sure how to get him to understand how much i Love HIM WHAT SHOULD I DO
In order to get him to understand is to sit down and talk with him face to face. Try to explain to him to the best of your ability that you love him and how much you love him, you can't really prepare for that part of the conversation. well I hope this helps if you need anything more in depth drop me a msg on IM or my inbox.
or maybe me just typing this all out will help me come to a conclusion of some sort..well here i go.......About 12 months ago I was going out with my bf at the time who i had been going on and off with for about 9 mths..but i never go to see him much like 3 times a month becuase he lived farther away..but the time we spent was fun yet our relationship was mostly physical(no sex tho) Anyway i wasnt happy and I cheated on him a couple times becuase i was so unhappy i needed sumone to be there with me more..So i desperately was looking for a reason to dump him besides the lame I need sumone i can see more thing...Anywho meanwhile this chad who i was good friends with and had been hanging out with and such had an older brother that i never really had met before until one day i was over to his house and heard crying...his brother jake and his gf of 2 years had broken up for good and he was a wreck..it was the first relationship he had been in and they even lived together for a while and the whole 9 yards...anyway I am a very sympathetic person and I tried to help him out..and I told him my problem of never seeing my bf and how i wanted sumone more sensitive and etc..well Jake and I started talking more and being I was friends with his brother I was over to the house alot...anyway to cut to the chase jake and i after 1 month of totally crushing on each other and late night calls and stuff he shly asked me out ( i was soo happy! this was my reason to dump chad and I had found someone who was cute and i could see alot and I had soo much fun with and he is into music and woow i was soo happy) so ofcourse i said yes.......now 11 months later jake and I are still going out but stuff to me is horrible..let me explain the first 6 mnths of our relationship was amazing, we spent all of spring and summer togther and made soo many memories and i could never get him off my mind... when school started that was when halo came out and he started be absessed with it..well know he doesnt come to school much anymore and stays up til 5am playing Halo and forgets to call me..But the thing is when we do hang out its still soo amazing, but thats only on weekends becuase i no longer see him in school now..and lately on the phone when we talk we often get arguing over stupid stuff and sumtimes i think its becuase i get aggravated with him for not getting his license and skipping school and not gettign a job..but the thing is i love him..and sumtimes i think about dumping him.. but then it seems like my life wouldnt be the same without him as my hunni..b/c we have soo many memories together and everything..But my concern is that the only thing that is stopping me from dumping him is i have grown in the past year of being used to having the comfort of him there, and that maybe i dont love him anymore, im just so used to that being the way it is.. me with Jake..and i still think about him all the time too. But wow i just wrote thatand i still didnt find a solution..so what do you think do i stil truley love him and do i stay with himn and hope the problems go away? I really think i love him but the whole just being with him now for comfort and becuase im used to that and i dont want to deal with change and throw away a whole year of wonderful memories...its just stuff inst the same and it hasnt been for a couple months now.. PLEASE ANYone see throught all this babblin and Help me!!!
Hey, that is quite a bit to read but I did. It sounds like you are in a difficult position right now and I can understand why and where your coming from. What I would do if I were in your position however would be to sit down and talk to him about how you feel and what your concerns are. And if it doesn't get any better after you talk to him than maybe its not worth it. However if you do decide to end it with him you won't be throwing away your amazing memories you can still have them but they may just not affect you the same anymore. But what I suggest most is to sit down and talk with him about everything your feeling and thinking.
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i'm a 16 year old gurl and i just recently started going out with one of my friends(gurl)and i dont know if i'm bi but i think i like her....anyways when i'm not with her i think about her but when i'm with her it feels odd and i dunno i just dont know how to act.....from what you here does this sound normal to you? and if i get anything like.....no its not normal cuz your with a gurl....i will give a very low rating anyways thx in advance to those who help!
Hey sweetie, that is perfectly normal. It will feel odd if you are bi because you aren't necessarily used to a homosexual relationship and it will seem odd in the beginning because it is different than what you are used to. And if you think you like her than give it a little time and you will realize if you do like her or not. And it does sound like you do like her and that you are bi but that only you can prove to be true or false. If you need someone to talk to or have any other questions don't hesitate to IM me at all.
what kind of things do you give guys on valentines day? Like really good things, or simple things are good to. I just need some ideas. i like to get my shopping done early so i wont have to woory about it later. but im completly lost on what i should get for him as a v-day present. Any Ideas? please help
What I would do is just something simple but to let him know its supposed to be special. I would get a single rose, and chocolates/candy whichever he may prefer, a card, and a small teddy bear or something of the sort. It keeps it simple but sweet and lets him know that you have him on your mind and that you wanted to have him as your valentine. I hope it gives you an idea or a part of one at least!!
I have a boyfriend who is abusive. He doesn't hit me.. but he makes me fear him. He's always telling me that my best friends don't like me and that i'm not as special or great as i think i am. When i ask him why he would say that because it really hurts he says that it's the harsh truth and i need to realize it and stop being such a poser. I'm also bisexual and he tells me that i say that to fit in.. that that isn't really who i am. he thinks he knows me so well but he really doesn't. Normally i wouldn't put up with this kind of stuff, i'd break up with him, but the problem is is that i really really love him. For a year we went out on and off 7 times.. this is the 8th. He's the one who always persued me and the one guy i always knew loved me. he's never treated me like this before and it scares me and i don't know what to do because i miss him.. the guy he was.. the guy who would run away with me.. the guy who loved me.. i don't know what to do and i don't think i'm strong enough to leave him.. please help
hey sweetie..I was in this same type of situtaion not to long ago. I know that it does suck and it hurts a lot especially coming from someone you think you love. However, if he is doing these things to you it is safer and healthier for you to leave him as soon as you can because that is not a good situation to be in. And as far as the bisexual issue goes, I understand that as well because I am too and its not something you do to fit in so either he doesn't understand or is just plain out stupid, I don't mean that offensively either. So the best way to go about this is to leave him as soon as you can so you don't get hurt. Whether he has treated you like this before or not, it is not safe, also if he is doing this to you, I know it is hard to hear, but he can't possibly love you.
I am here if you need anymore help!!