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Im 13 and i really like this girl i asked her out already once but she rejected me and forgot about it now we are "just friends" what can i do to make our relationship bigger and make us closer? (link)
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Just keep hanging out, and if you were meant to be, you two will eventually be together.
hope this helped.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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So I'm 16 and I've being texting a guy who my friend knows and we've really being hitting it off! we can send each other hundreds of texts a day and have being doing so for a few months! I've got him on Facebook and we talk on there as well, but the problem is that he lives 200miles away so for the time being ill never meet him, but he seems so genuinely nice and caring!! I think I might love him but what do I do?
Please help, any advice is welcome! (link)
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Hi, i'm in a long distance relationship with a guy i never met, so i hope this helps ha! :)
I didn't really care for him when i first met him, but my friend kinda influenced me into liking him, and i soon realized i did like him. I soon got the courage to ask him he liked me and he said yes (we sent pics. back and forth.) So we r now "dating" we are together, but from a long distance (i think you get it now ha :P) Ok... so u can ask him if he likes you, and any other questions to find out more about each other! hope this helped!
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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This has happened about 5 times in a row. When I start to like a girl and she ends up not liking me or liking someone else. Sometimes I think it's just coincidence, then sometimes I think something is wrong with me. I have a friend in a band with me, he always ends up getting a girl because of his gay hair. Once I liked this girl, so I asked her to come to a buffet with me, she came,....and so did my friend. She ended up liking my friend. In front of me. Even though he barely spoke. Then I met this other girl who liked him. So I helped them out and what not, but she still talks to me more. Why is it that he just has to sit there with his gay hair, and people just love him? I don't get it. I don't have Facebook. So I'm not going to be sending random requests and weird messages like most of my friends. Then some people tell me it's weird that I'm 17 and have never been with a girl. I know that there's nothing wrong with that. But when society keeps pointing it out, and your friend is doing all of this in front of you (one time with the one you used to like)It's hard to believe that there isn't anything wrong with me. My brother, my dad, my friends, they make fun of me sometimes. And I don't get why the feminine guy with long hair always gets the girl. (link)
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I'm a 13 year old girl myself, so maybe i can help with your question. :)
ok... so... first of all a lot of girls like long hair these days, i for one, LOVE guys with long hair, and it sort of helps with their appearance in a way. There is nothing wrong with you, and its good that you know its fine that you havn't been with a girl yet. Have you told your friend you like these girls? if not then he probably doesn't know that you like them, and takes a chance with them. I'm sorry that your friends, brother, and dad make fun of you at times, it can be very embarrassing. But just keep in mind that God has the perfect girl waiting for you. He will bring her to you when its time, so don't give your hopes up.Just be patient. I hope this helped, and remember that God loves you most of all.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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So i like this guy at school .. I finally asked him for his number friday but he kinda hesitated :/ .. he was like ''I I I I dont have my phone right now uhh ill ill talk to you later'' then he walked away .. Does this mean he was nervous or does it mean he needed an excuse to get out of it?? (link)
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It depends on the guy. He probably likes you and is nervous about you asking this, and/or either he doesn't have a phone and is embarrassed. If he is telling the truth about not having his phone right now, there is probably a good reason why. Hope this helped!
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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Hey everyone :) Sorry about the length, but all of this is relevant to the question, I promise :) (When I say "brother" i mean the guy I was raised with)
At school, in between 5th & 6th period, there's always this guy I notice staring at me. He would hold the door & kind of watch me as I walk away. One day he stopped right in front of me on the stairs, & when I looked up at him, he just smirked and stood there. He finally moved, & I kept walking. This happened again a few days later, but this time I got closer to him & said, "Excuse me." & waited for him to move. Other days, he just stood close to me & stared at me. I thought this was really strange, but I thought he was funny & he didn't stink, so I let it continue.
Yesterday I went to a party at my friend's house (I was raised with him) because it was his dad's birthday. When we got there, the same guy that I saw at school was there, (I didn't know that they knew each other) & he was looking at me with these eyes that said something, but I don't know what. After a few more looks, I said "where have I seen you before?" He smiled & walked away. The guy I was raised with introduced me to his group of friends who were at the party. When he got to the guy at school, I said "I already know him..." & he grinned. I smiled & said "nice to meet you" & walked away. I was talking to him a few times after that, & he said that he knew my "brother" for a long time. He asked me to dance.
The first time, he didn't really try anything. The only thing he did was try to put his head against mine to make it look like we were really into it, but I moved my head away, pretty roughly I think. It was a reflex, & I felt bad & put my face close to his so that our foreheads touched. He smiled, & I pulled away, more gently this time. That time, we were the only ones dancing at the second half of the song. We would just look at each other, smile, look at each other again. One time we both licked our lips & looked at each other & I thought he was gonna kiss me. I looked in the mirror & I saw that he looked really into it. When I saw we were the only ones dancing, I said "You know we are the only ones dancing right?" He held me firmer & closer, looked at me, & said "I know."
The second time I danced with him, he held me closer. Our knees touched a few times, & even though I am definitely not attracted to him, my breathing got heavier. I'm pretty sure he noticed my breathing, but hopefully thought that it was just because we were dancing. Once again, we were the only ones dancing. I pointed it out, & he smiled. He spun me around about 9 times & once, I purposely messed up the direction in which he wanted me to spin & he laughed at me & looked at me with those eyes again. He tried to get me to look at him a lot too but I tried not to.
He asked me to dance 2 more times after that. I said no, and went on the laptop to listen to music and answer some questions on here, & Netflix because I was tired of dancing & walking around for 5 hours. He came in the room with my "brother" and he got suddenly really shy & he said "no you tell her!" To my brother & he thought of something really quickly & said "he wants to use the computer." But he didn't make any move to come & use it when I asked him.
So my questions is, do you think he likes me? And what should I do when I see him at school again? I don't even know his name... (link)
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OMG!!! i wish that was me! he sounds really sweet! and yes i know he likes you, there's not really any other answer to this behavior. You should ask your "brother" what his name is. you can try to talk to your brother about him and whats going on. when you see him at school again, just be yourself, keep talking more, hang out more, and get to know each other better.You might soon find that your attracted to him, it happens all the time, the more time you spend with someone, the more attractive they become.
I hope i answered all your questions!!! :D
Good Luck
~Shinney~
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i would like to k now how can i ignore my boyfriend even if we live together (link)
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Umm.. its pretty simple just don't look at, talk to, or acknowledge him. Even tho it would probably be better to try and work things out thats some suggestions.
Good Luck
~ Shinney ~
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Hi,
I've been going out with my girfriend for just over a year now and I love her so much, sometimes it hurts. I know that I would do anything for her. A few months ago (maybe 3-4) I started saying "I love you" to her, and she says it back. I can really describe how much those words mean to me when she says them (she sometimes says it first).
BUT there are a few times when I feel like she doen't really believe or see how much she means to me.
- she'll say "Im fat/ugly/etc" (she's not btw) and then when I try to encourage her otherwise, I can tell she doesn't believe me.
- id I give her a compliment, "I like you dress", "you're beautiful" etc, she gets this funny little look like she thinks im lying or 'just saying it' without really meaning it
- a few of times shes said something like "what happens when you get tired of me and go to some one else" this one really hurts. It hurts one hell of a lot, because I love her so much. Honestly, not once since I've been with her have I ever considered leaving her, or being with someone else and I KNOW that I will never 'go behind her back'. I reasurred her, and told her how much she means to me and that I would never leave her for someone else etc etc, and yet she said it again...
- she's also said "how do you know you're in love with me if I'm your first...you probably only *think* love me because Im your first." This one is like a kick in the gut too. Yes, I've never been with anyone else, but that was deliberate because I didnt want to get into a "superficial" relationship.
I'm afraid that she doesn't believe or see how much she really means to me, and I'm afraid that this will lead to her eventually leaving me. Having never been in a relationsip before, I feel completly helpless as to what to say or do to show how I feel. I've tried as best as I know how, but clearly it's not enough.
PS. Im 20 and she's 22
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ok im 13 and yes im a girl. she may associate some things you said with past relationships (not saying anything negative bout you or her), like her ex could have said things like that, and could have cheated, used her, abused her, called her the opposite of those things, etc. since this is your first "real" relationship with a woman, its ok to feel helpless. keep telling her those things, and try your best to show it by, bragging on her in public, compliminting her in public,etc. you should ask your friends and family about advice too.
Good Luck! :)
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