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ok i'll start this off with the truth, i fucked this up. but i regret it so much and just would like help. theres this guy josh, and i've never had as much in common with a person as i do with him, he used to like me alot and he told me we will probably have a future as more than friends again. from the second we first met we liked eacxhother.a few weeks went by and we werent even together yet, and one night i was very drunk and tried to make a move on his friend because i thoght he ditched me. hes not your average person and takes things very personally so he got very mad. he told me he didnt like me anymore and 2 days later told me he likes someone else. the thing is he still ims me every day, and when i saw him yesterday he told me that he never gives second chances, but for someone like me he probably will in time and that when he saw me he got butterflies in his stomach. hes saying all this when hes telling some other girl he likes her too. he keeps switching the way he feels on and off and its just really confusing me and giving me hope, and i dont know if its false hope or not. i guess the best thing to do is just wait it out, but if theres anyother advice anyone has id really appreciate it. (link)
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You want the truth? He's playing you... To him this is nothing but a game to see which girl he can get... maybe even both of you... If he really liked you he wouldn't be telling another girl that he likes her ALSO. He wants to see which girl he can get and if he can't get her he thinks you can be his rebound girl. Here's some advice, move on and find a better guy because you deserve better than jerks like him who just like playing a game. I hope this helped.
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first off, this may be long so i apologize but i hope people will help me outa bit.
we are both twenty years old.
i've been with my boyfriend for a little over four years. even though we broke up in february we still act like we're still together. basically, its like we're bf/gf without the label but it's like everyone including myself still consider us together anyway. kind of confusing, sorry. anyway, the problem between me and him is that even though we dont have the label that he feels that it's okay for him to talk to other girls. which i can understand at some extent.. however, i feel as though even if we dont have the label that he's my boyfriend and vice versa. if im the girl sleeping in his bed for weeks straight at a time, the girl he calls and texts every few hours when we aren't together just to ask what im doing, the girl who he takes out on dates on the one day out of the week he's not working, the girl who hangs out with his mom and other family members when he is or isn't around, the girl he tells that he loves every night before he goes to bed, IM HIS GIRLFRIEND. and the list goes on. we've talked and argued about this so many times already and it always ends the way it always does with him saying that he loves me, that he's in love with me, that im the woman he wants to marry and the woman he wants to have his children with (although that will not be any time soon) but he's not ready to be committed at this age and that he is going to talk to other girls regardless. okay. maybe i seem dumb or something but some days im just like okay whatever, im content because i know that even if he may be talking to another female, i'm still his number one and that he will never put another girl before me. other days it just bothers the hell out of me.. i just feel like if i'm the woman he loves and wants to be with in the future, why do something to ruin the chances of what we may have? i know people may say "girl, he doesn't love you." i'm not being naive when i say this but i know he's in love with me, but he feels he's just at the age where he's just not ready to commit yet. people tell me that just having the label is too much for a person to deal with. i dont know.. him and i, we honestly have two different outlooks on almost everything (and i love that) and i'm here trying to understand his point of views with what you guys think about all of this. i'm sorry i am babbling.. i'm just very in love and very confused and everything in between. your advice and comments are most definitely appreciated. thankss so much. (link)
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YOU may be in love but trust me, hes NOT. If her really "loved" you then ask yourself this... Why is he with other girls? I know its hard to take it in but if he isnt ready for commitment, SO WHAT! He can still go out with you just not marry you yet. That doesn't mean he should be able to have fun with other girls just because he "isn't ready to commit". If he loves you he'll AT LEAST go out with you. You shouldn't get hurt over a guy that doesn't care that you are alone and he's with other girls. You should go find yourself a better guy that WON'T leave you out in the cold for other girls. He might ACT like he loves you, but a guy that LOVES you would never leave you for other girls. I hope you think about it carefully before making the mistake of marrying the guy that used to be with so many girls because he "wasn't ready for commitment." I hope this helps you.
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Do you think he will ever call me back..shouldnt he know that if he loved me he would be with me no matter what? (link)
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It all depends on what you did to make him break up. Even if somebody loves you deeply, they still might not be able to be with you if they see it will never work out. You have to work your problems out if you want him to call. Even though you think it's all his fault, HE might not think so. He might think it's YOUR fault so look for things that YOU could have also done to make him break up. Always look from another person's point of view. The way YOU see it might not be the way HE sees it. I hope this helps you.
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hey i noticed you give good advice;-) so i was just wondering like my boyfriend he is treats me bad even though he doesnt notice it like he talks to me very disrespectfully but i cant get over him he broke up with me for No reason..it was because i was pmsing but like i was really not in the mood and he is like i cant take it anymore and he broke up with me and now i cant get over it i cant call him i want him to call me first but he said he doesnt love me anymore we have been dating 3 years now and im 17 so like i miss him but really i dont think he misses me..or maybe he just is hiding it i want to know really bad..how do you think he feels right now do you think he would accutaly throw out our relationship just because of that and if hedid love me right he would come back and love me more not waste our time being stubborn or hurt?..welll i just would liek to know how do you think he feels and do you think he will ever come back to me ..how do i get over him? Like he is getting over me? (link)
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Well first check all the things that are wrong. Are you also treating him badly and disrespectfully? Do you REALLY know why he broke up with you? Maybe there was a reason. If you've been dating 3 years then obviously you know he's a great guy or you wouldn't be with him for that long. If he treated you so bad, why stay with him for so long? He definitely misses you if its been that long. But maybe he just doesn't think it can ever work out. Maybe you guys argue too much or fight a lot. Then its really hard to stay together because a stable relationship has to have little fighting in it. If you want it to work out you can't argue with him or fight with him. Maybe he treats you bad because he is frustrated that it can't work out. Well I hope this helped you out.
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i am 15/M
One of my best mates told me she loves me, and i was cool with that, i didn't panic, because it happens to me alot but i did not want to lose her as a friend. Anyhow, now she's changed alot.
Before she was really nice and friendly and always had time for other people. Now she's become this mean bitch who takes the piss out of people and is quite cruel. She's become so self-centred.
I want to tell heri don't want to know her anymore...but she'll ask why not.
Should i tell her the truth ? or just cut her off ? (link)
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Just tell her the flat-out truth. That will make her realize that its true and maybe she might even stop being like that. The truth is the best thing to do, it won't hurt to tell her. I hope I helped.
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okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he is getting kind of upset because i cannot open up to him. opening up as in telling him how i feel about everything, our whole relationship. i am completely in love with him so i know thats not it. i want to be able to i just can`t find the words to say he wants to know what i think about it, how i feel about him, etc etc... i have tried but, i can`t and this is a really big deal to him and i want to be able to do this for him. so can someone please help me or send me ur sn. i`ll rate high! (link)
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If he wants you to open up then open up. I mean he just wants to know how you feel about things... He wants to know whats on your mind. If you really love him then just tell him that. He loves you too, thats why he's asking you to open up to him. He wants you to be closer to him and you should be happy about that. Not many guys are like that. Just tell him exactly how you feel about him, it'll make him happy and it'll make you happy too since you will have let it all out and you will open up to him. ; )
I hope this helped.
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I'm 15/female.
I am not an experienced kisser.
I am dating someone who is.
Is kissing/making out something that just comes naturally and I'll get used to it right away?
Or is there a lot more to it? (link)
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You just have to learn to kiss by yourself... Nobody can really "teach you". Just rub eachother's lips up and down (open and close your lips slowly)... Then if he uses tongue use yours also, just like your licking ice cream, lick his tongue slowly. Move your tongue up and down slowly and also your lips up and down slowly. Also, put one of your hands on the back of his head and very slowly play with the back of his hair while kissing him. That might do the trick heh. Hope this really helped you out.
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Hey well i have been dating my boyfrind for 1 year and 2 mounths now and i have never had a proplme with him hanging out with his friends, but his friends smoke and stuff like that. A cuple of weeks ago me and this girl got into a HUGE argument and she is going around saying she wants to beat my ass and stuff like that and this girl has been calling my boyfriend and telling him stuff like that. This girl unfourtunally is my boyfriends bestfriend's girlfriend so i sorta told my boyfriend its me or his bestfriend only caue of his girlfriend but i really do want to hang out with his friends agin without telling him not to and with out that bitch of a girlfrind marc has... what should i doo
sorry if this doesnt make ne sence im still pissed about the whole thing (link)
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Well first of all, making your boyfriend CHOOSE between his gf and his best friend is not a good thing to do... That makes him think "if she makes me choose between this, who KNOWS if she'll keep making me choose in the future about everything." You should apologize about making him choose and just talk to him and tell him WHY you told him that harsh remark. Tell him how you feel about that girl and maybe he can talk to his best friend... That would be much easier than making him "choose". I hope this helps you.
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i really neeed your advice:
who do you pick? the person who first loved you? or the person you first loved? (link)
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It's no use being with somebody you don't love, even if THEY love YOU... you should pick who YOU love... who do YOU find yourself being happier with? having a better time with? who do you think about more and want to be with more? Who treats you better? Hope this helped
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