do guys think its unnatrictive when your hip bones like stick out and they're a little wider than the rest of your body? xoxo
No, they actually think it's hot as long as you aren't too skinny.
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there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.
how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?
who should i pick?
i will rate with reasonable answers
Does the second guy give you any clues that he likes you? Don't be too pushy with the first guy, just be yourself. If you're too flirty and too talkative towards him he might start to get annoyed and back off even more. Try becoming his friend first by showing him that you are an interesting person without making it very obvious that it's what you're trying to do.
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everytime i have a crush on a guy,it always remain as a crush...nothing ever will happen after that.for sure ,the guy i like endup liking my friend or they will be so close that they wont realise im there anymore.to make it short,guys dont find me special im always the another girl in a crowd.but im prettier than my friends most of the time.at this moment i have a crush with a guy but as expected he is interested in my friend.im not angry just upset.so what should i do so i wont feel like a loser again!!!!
Be more flirtatious around the guy so that he realizes that you're there.
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Wow ok this sounds really stupid.. but, there is this kid i like and hes really really hott. He has braces , but hes still hott with them! So if i hooked-up with him would it like feel werid or just feel regular .. lols
Stupidly Confused
Hmm.. Are you refering to kissing him with braces? Anyways.. Braces don't make much of a difference you can barely tell that they're there if that's what you're refering to.
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I've been going to school with the same people since 3rd grade, and up untill my freshman year I was fat. And I think they still kind of see me like that. I'm not at all over weight anymore, the only thing wrong with my body is that I have love handles.
But the real thing is I want a boyfriend. Its not like I've never had one I've had two. But each relationship was really short, so I go through most the year with out anyone.
People tell me all the time that I'm pretty and I have alot of guy friends. I don't have a certain style that I dress and I'm not in any clique. I don't really talk in any of my classes and I make pretty good grades. I'm not a 'goody goody girl' because I drink and smoke pot sometimes and I'm not a virgin.
So why don't guys like me more than 'just a friend'?
Maybe because you have so many guy friends that they see you as "one of the guys" That tends to be the case when you hang out with alot of guys. If you're interested in a certain guy or certain guys, let them know by showing them in hintful ways.
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Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??
Tell him how you feel about him and let him know so that he has no doubts. Try and work things out, because it seems that it's one of those relationships with a few kinks in the chain but it'll work out in the end. Talk to him about it, don't throw away something so valuable. And as to not doing it again, just try and compromise with eachother and get along as best as you can and things will work out.
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how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?
You just have to trust her, it's really hard to have a long distance relationship, I know.. I live in Italy because I moved and my boyfriend lives back in the states... Just have trust in her, and you'll make it through
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Um, theres this guy at my skool (he's yr10, I'm yr8) and I wrote him a letter letting him know my feelings. He got it, and read it in private as i requested. 2 days l8er, my woodwork teacher said he takes this guy 4 metalwork and he heard about the note. My teacher asked the guy if he was interested and he said yes-i was thrilled. But then he started giving me little smiles and waves and stuff, and my m8s said he kept looking at me when i wasnt looking (ironic-i was doing the same!). Now he has finished school 4 the yr, as yr 10 finishes 2wks before yr 8's do. He has gone 2 the Sunshine Coast-without leaving a response. I dunno if he IS really interested or not, and i dont wanna let myself be hurt, yet i cant stop thinking about him!! Im infatuated, and evry1 says hes shy, but im not sure. Help!! xoxo Shadow
The best thing to do is probably talk about it with him. See how he feels.
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What should you do if some one likes you and you like them back but you don't want to go out?i'm 12 and i'm a girl.
Tell them that you like them but you just want to stay friends for now, and that you're sorry but you don't feel like you really want to date right now.
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ok, i have a boyfriend. and i thought i loved him to death. but the other day i was at this club thing. and me and this other guy who is a good friend, we started flirting like crazy. and i realized i have feelings for him. and then later he told me he had feelings for me. he doesnt know i like him too though. but i don't know if i should stick with my boyfriend cause i truly do adore him or should i give this other guy a try bcuz hes so nice and everything.
In that case you have to question yourself. Who do you thinks going to make a better boyfriend? Who makes you happiest? Who has the better qualities? Which do you like more? etc.
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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿
Talk to her about it, maybe you guys need to take a break from eachother, otherwise see how things work out
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I have this guy that goes to my school and i really like him he gave me my first kiss but know he has a girfriend and i hate her, well i never really got to know her but i like her now.(as a friend) and i thought if i started to talk to her he would start talking to me but it didnt work. I got very sad becase he never talked to me so i wrote him a note asking him why we dont talk anymore and i asked him to w/b. And he didnt. but thats not the point so what should i do? Should i just leave him alone and move on with my lfe or should i keep on doing what im doing? Well i am just waiting to get him walking by himself and ask him what up? 16/Female
Just go about your normal life, if you see him somewhere say hey, he'll eventually start to notice you.
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why does its always seem that my boyfriend is always going after other chicks and flirting with them even when i am around. i mean i really love him and i dont wnt us to be apart. i love hom to much, every time i talk to him about it he doesnt admit it. but i think that he is seeing some one else. What should i do??
Female 17
I personally would talk to him about it, ask him why he does that, ask him if he wants to be with someone else other than you, ask him if he wants to take a break or if he truely cares for you, question his motives.
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i like this guy and i think we're both going to this party on Friday.. He wants me to talk to him more but i dont know what to talk to him about. i need help b4 tomorrow. Its the last day of school b4 Thanksgiving vacation and i have to check it tomorrow. So if you can plz help me and give me some topics to talk about...
Another thing.. his birthdays comming up and i dont know what to get him...
Say it aint so....
Just talk about random stuff, ask him stuff that you dont know about him, tell him stuff about you, when the conversation gets dull keep coming up with more random stuff, eventually you'll find something to talk about for awhile.
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Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not.
Make sure that you're hanging out with the people that you actually do like and when you see him approaching tell your friends to make up something so you can tell him that you guys are on your way to do something and you'll talk to him later and just make it seem you're busy, and then if he trys to see you later just blow him off but do it in a nice way, ex: if he talks to you say something to one of your friends and act like you dont hear him, or say hold on a sec and then start talking and pretend like you totally forgot about him, he'll probably just decide to go away.
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ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her
Most of the time when you go somewhere looking for someone you wont find them, well thats how it is for me anyways, try and forget about it, and next time you go to starbucks concentrate on something other than the girl, and if you do finally see her again then tell her what happened.
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hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
It's okay to love your ex, but have another boyfriend, its absolutely normal, just consider yourselves really close friends now that you arent going out anymore, you dont wanna mess something up with the guy you just started going out with. Just see how things go, and be yourself, as always, and just remember that you have a boyfriend now.
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me and my boi frend have been 2getha 4 a month!!...but have been talkin longer than that!! we are REALLY close!! nd startin 2 fall in luv alreadie!!..but wen we talk on tha fone...its alwaez silent!!...but if we text or chat online..we alwaez got sumthin 2 sae..or if were 2getha..we'll talk..but mostly make out!!...any advice?!
Just talk about random things, that same thing happens between me and my boyfriend and we've been going out for 1 year 1 month and some days.. It's normal.. But seriously just talk about random things.. Or talk like you do online or something
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i like this boy.....but he dont really kno who i am....and im not the kind of person that goes up to ppl and talks to them.....so what should i do.......thanks a bunch!!!
Kayc
Ask some of your friends to talk to him for you or something..
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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?
Well maybe he doesnt love you because he feels you havent been together long enough and he doesnt feel it yet? Why say something you dont mean, he's actually saving you from pain now by telling you he doesnt love you, rather then saying it and you finding out that he doesnt mean it, just stick around he'll come to love you one day..
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